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GirlyDevil -> Daily rituals (1/12/2007 8:31:04 PM)
Good evening to all, I was wondering what you all do to wake up your master/mistress and what your daily schedule consists of. I have a slave who I will be training to abide by my rules 24/7 and I have a few ideas of what he could do. Some of the ideas that I have are domestic chores, play time, further obediance training, etc. So just wondering what all you do.

GirlyDevil -> RE: Daily rituals (1/13/2007 9:53:04 AM)
Sorry, this was a double post that I realized last night, but forgot to post this message

cabilll -> RE: Daily rituals (1/17/2007 11:08:28 PM)
when i was a live-in, i often slept in a locked closet. so it's my mistress who, by opening the padlock, woke me up. the rule at that time was, i should be kneeling already (i had arm & leg shackles on at all times in the house) when the closet door was opened, otherwise would be punished. first few times was very hard for me to assume position in time, but gradually turned out fine. my slavery began after work on weekdays and on all weekends, basically whenever i'm at home. daily routine was a bit of normal housework, like laundry and dishes etc. on weekend nights were often discipline/obedience training, like corner time, kneeling, usually several hours of movement/sensory deprivation.

leathersmith -> RE: Daily rituals (1/19/2007 5:26:50 PM)
I expect my rules are not appropriate, as I don't live with my sub, but I require a daily e-mail detailing the activities since the last comm. Did she touch herself/masturbate, did she cum, did she fantasize, if so about what. I too would be very pleased to entertain suggestions.

goodpet -> RE: Daily rituals (1/21/2007 7:39:22 PM)
Hi, i am in a 24/7 Master/slave relationship. There are many ritual and protocols that we use daily. For now i will say that they each have to have a reason and meaning behind them. Either a logical reasoning for them or an emotional/mental meaning connected to them. i ask permission to use the bathroom - logic is that if He calls me i can stop what i am doing and go to Him withing about 30 seconds,, but.. if i am in the bathroom, well, somethings just take a bit longer.. so by "asking" permission it is also telling Him i will unavailable for a few minutes,, same as asking to go to the basement or outside for a chore.. lets Him know where i am if He needs me. He feeds me my first bite of every meal - mental meaning to me that i am taken care of my Master. When i come home from work (usually after He gets home) He comes to me to greet me saying "Welcome home girl.", while this is not the norm for most D/s where the slave goes and does the greetings, this fills an emotional need to feel/know i have a home. (orphaned twiced, no family now, and moved a zillion time) three simple and different kind of rituals but each has a reason behind them. While ours are not written down we both talk about them and know why they are important to the other person, what need they fill. ones that help to keep the slave or Master mind-set is a valid reason also.

DominaSmartass -> RE: Daily rituals (1/21/2007 9:52:23 PM)
We are not master/slave but....when I am at home, I am by default, off work (I work in a different state than where I "live" so I go home on my time off) and my "little girl" still works normal hours even when I'm home and off, so every morning when she's about to leave for work she bounces on the bed, and I wake up with her face up against mine, staring into her eyes, as she says, "goodbye daddy." And we kiss and she leaves for work. It's a ritual of sorts that just started because she did it once and I liked it.

RumpusParable -> RE: Daily rituals (1/22/2007 2:41:33 AM)
I don't submit on a daily basis, but this question did bring to mind a daily ritual of sorts between my spouse and I. It's just the simple act of greeting him when he comes home, from wherever but mainly from work in the evening. When I hear the keys in the lock I stop what I'm doing and greet him with a smile and friendly hello, then listen as he speaks about his day in a gush of tension release (whether good or bad). We're a dual-dominant household, where I switch some, so we don't have a daily D/s relationship between us. This is just one of those little couple rituals that exists as part of our give-and-take balancing between two Very Dominant personalities.

onestandingstill -> RE: Daily rituals (1/22/2007 7:04:57 AM)
I am just beginning a new relationship with my 2nd Dom ever. We've not been dating 3 months yet so we've not really established daily rituals. Part of the reason is he just began his BDSM life when we started dating and he's learning. In my first and only live in relationship I had many, many rituals I enjoyed. Upon walking I was to kneel on the bed with my nose to the mattress. My hands were extended over my head arms straight and my fingertips were to touch his bicep. Once me moving around and touching him woke him I was to say good morning Sir or Master and then proceed to kiss his royal scepter (the head of his cock). After that depending on his mood or circumstances that would sometimes turn into a full head job, or more, or not as his choice depicted. Any time I got in a bed he was in even if he got up and left the room I was not to get out of bed short of a fire in the house without permission. So the next thing I would do was ask permission to get up and start my day. The next ritual was to get his big thermal mug ready for him to take to work, and if interested, fix his breakfast and pack his lunch. Once I got him off to work I proceeded to get up his 2 kids, feed them breakfast, press their clothes and take them to school. Then I went to work myself. I really enjoyed this morning time ritual as it gave me a feeling of consistency and stability and purpose in doing this even though our relationship was on unstable ground. Another ritual was I was not to sit down to a meal without him inviting me to sit. I was to go stand behind the chair and wait for permission to join him at the table no matter if we were home, in the BDSM community, out in a public restaurant or even at my parents home. Lastly any time I was in the same room as him if my hands were idle my palms had to be facing him with my hands open. All those little things were a phenomenal way of giving me security, allowing me to serve him, and reminding me of my place. suzanne

stateira -> RE: Daily rituals (1/22/2007 8:34:58 AM)
Master and I have several rituals, though they are never done at the same time during a day because of our conflicting schedules. If I am home when he is at work, he calls me when he is on his way home so I can have dinner ready for him. When I hear the back gate open I get a drink ready for him and sometimes a plate if dinner is all the way ready so he can sit down and relax after work with his meal. we have recently started the bedtime spanking ritual...he knows that I always sleep best with a warm backside so just before he puts me to bed he spanks me. They're not exactly light ones but not miserable ones either. My daily chores are simple things...keeping the house clean, keeping laundry done, take the dog out, nothing extraordinary. more of our rituals come during discipline/punishment, just the certain sequence of events depending on the circumstances. -stateira[SW]

WalterRego -> RE: Daily rituals (1/22/2007 8:41:21 AM)
When last in a live in situation, most of the rules I had to abide by in the beginning were simple things to accomodate Mistress' needs and preferences. Those simple things were often as fulfilling to me and conducive to my submission as the more ritual scene-like ones. One thing which was very fulfilling for me and helped set the mind set for more later was a morning ritual, which consisted of me quietly getting up before her, going downstairs to make coffee and bringing it up to her on a tray. At the bedside I would fix it the way she liked it and she would drink her coffee sitting in bed. When she went in to shower, I would make the bed and tidy up the room if necessary. Often I would be required to help her dress, by fetching something from a draw, buttoning a sweater, fastening a necklace etc and of course, kneeling to help her on with her shoes or boots (for work). Then I would tend to my own needs before we both left the house for work.

mymasterssub69 -> RE: Daily rituals (1/22/2007 9:38:14 AM)
Daddy and i have few daily rituals like IM messages in the morning and evening (if i'm not reviewing a band) since we don't live together. if He has time between patients, He will phone from the office checking to make sure His lil girl is behaving. however there are other rituals He requires of me such as asking His permission if i want to date/meet a guy or attend non-work related events.

PantyhoseHusband -> RE: Daily rituals (1/22/2007 3:00:21 PM)
The only ritual my wife and I really have is that I will get up first, make her a coffee and take it up to her. Once there, she will inevitably still be asleep but will have left me the panties and / or pantyhose I am to wear that day. I leave the coffee without waking her, take the clothes she has left for me and head off to shower.

reverendtorres -> RE: Daily rituals (1/22/2007 7:31:46 PM)
I either jump up and down on the bed or toss the shih tzu on my guy.

savannasub -> RE: Daily rituals (1/22/2007 9:00:59 PM)
Failure would be immenent for me.

orfunboi -> RE: Daily rituals (1/28/2007 6:41:55 AM)
When i was living with my Mistress 24/7 i didn't have to wake her up. i left for work before she had to get up, so i let her sleep. As far as a daily schedule, i played it by ear and did the things that needed doing as the week went along. i did have dinner ready for her when she got home from work, but that was about it. On the weekends i would do most of the housework while she was still sleeping and if there was a party or event that weekend, we might go, depending on how we felt.

slave2Bruce -> RE: Daily rituals (1/28/2007 8:23:20 AM)
We are shifting to a 24/7 lifestyle, after 8 years of marriage & approx 3 years of bdsm exploration. For now our one ritual is that i feed & do all the cleaning up after our four-legged "kids". We are writing up a protocol today though, so who knows how things will change. grin

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