Termyn8or
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It is not all bad. The only other possibility is that you die, other than seeing her die. Her dying is the natural order of things, and just hope that she got the max out of life. Keep the spirit alive, tell children of her. The body is nothing but a carcass now. Cry if you want, but at times be a shoulder as well. This is life, we watch the young live, and the old die. No matter how unpleasant it is, let's hope it keeps going on. I miss my Grandpa ALOT. I mean ALOT, even at 46. He died about 25 years ago and it still will not go away. But there were only two ways it can go, he dies first or I do. If I did, imagine what that would do to him. My cousin died, and it is a good thing that Granpa didn't see it. It would have destroyed him. He didn't deserve that. Miss and yearn, but don't think it is wrong. And old people dying is to teach us that this life is indeed finite. Live every day, and the dead loved ones would want nothing less. T
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