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RE: different ways to be humiliated as i cum - 1/16/2007 12:40:08 PM   
TxBlkMistress


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ORIGINAL: tinyandy

invisible Mistress this is y i get so mad with this site you all what gave you the right to say that you dont know me and my Mistress but i do like what you say about how to cum thank you all for your IDs 


Just my opinion, but please don't be so defensive...if you are familiar with this site like you say that you are, you should know how many of these threads are started by guys that just want to "get off", not to mention how many of these request we get in our email boxes.   If we don't know you or your Mistress personally, we have no clue as to whether you are sincere or not. 

One reason it's a little hard for me to believe is that, I have a total ego, and I, first of all, would not admit to my slave, that I didn't have any ideas , and second, along those lines....if I did need more ideas, I'd post myself, again, not admitting to my slave that I was out of ideas. 

Fortunately, I am creative, I live in the gutter (I have a condo there...lol)  so I always have plenty of ideas...lol

So just chill, take the info you want, and ignore the rest


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RE: different ways to be humiliated as i cum - 1/16/2007 3:57:25 PM   
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Let me explain what happens when one “sends their sub to ask a question on their behalf”.

First: We know nothing about him personally as to what he would find “humiliating”.

Secondly: Should the poor lad tell us what is humiliating for him and then ask for ideas as to how to humiliate him... he’d be seen as a possible troll or HNG (Horny Net Geek)

Thirdly:  It bodes ill on the said Mistress who sent him making it seem as if she is too lazy to seek her own counsel.

Fourthly:  The element of surprise would be removed for the submissive.  Even if he relayed 10 things to you, he already knows the possibilities.


< Message edited by LotusSong -- 1/16/2007 3:58:31 PM >


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RE: different ways to be humiliated as i cum - 1/17/2007 11:35:27 AM   
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Maybe the sub asked in the wrong forum, maybe he thought it was the best forum...maybe he thought that Dommes would have the best ideas, which after reading the answers, well I would say they do, but he did try to obey his Mistress, which is good. He did try to find creative options, which is good.
 
Why shouldnt he get defensive when some get a bit personal and accuse his Mistress of being a 'fake'. She isnt, I know her, and he is a devoted sub, good. I'm not a fake either. Neither is he, unless of course his Mistress has an imaginary friend.
 
Men posting to get some attention, well of course they do, they always will, they also contact me and then delete their profiles, I waste plenty of time replying to fantasists and game players, but then you find the sincere and genuine sub out there, and its all worth it when that happens.
 
I dont see as it matters what you know about what humiliates him, all ideas are welcome arent they?
 
Bodes ill on Mistress??? Is she not allowed to want new ideas? Do we all have in our brains the answers to everything?. Of course we dont, not always anyway. She thinks up some great ways to humiliate, I should know, I see a fair few of them, you should see her dressing and teaching subs how to put their stockings on and walk properly, tis a sight for sore eyes. Just  because some Mistresses wouldnt admit to not having ideas, well it doesnt mean everyone plays by the exact same rules does it? if we did all do the same, then we would all be the same wouldnt we.
 
The element of surprise is lost if she uses the ideas straight away yes, but if she saves them up, sifts out ones already used and puts a twist in others, then the ideas are great, a surprise and not to forget, fun for her.
 
Personally I am totally amazed at the ideas listed on here, I am not greatly into humiliation and would never have thought of some of them, the one about wanking on the mirror, and licking it off, superb, as was the one about the cum all over the face and it drying.......fantastic.
 
Respect to all those ideas, its given me some of my own, but I needed them to get the juices flowing.
 
Good post tinyandy. you got balls defending your Mistress.
 
 

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RE: different ways to be humiliated as i cum - 1/20/2007 12:17:56 PM   
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some good ideas i will share with my owner too.  ive done some things infornt of others made too as well as too cum in panties and  bra and o eat it or and   clean it  ect... haveing toohave other watch you is a super tuff one with all eyes on you i failed more then a few times and got punished for it

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RE: different ways to be humiliated as i cum - 1/20/2007 12:50:06 PM   
LotusSong


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ORIGINAL: Slaveshunt


 
Why shouldnt he get defensive when some get a bit personal and accuse his Mistress of being a 'fake'. She isnt, I know her, and he is a devoted sub, good. I'm not a fake either. Neither is he, unless of course his Mistress has an imaginary friend.
 



And there is no way of knowing. For example, I  am the rightful Queen of Croatia.. but no way to prove it. 
 
Knowing the sub a bit better by knowing WHAT type of things humiliate him instead of him throwing it up in the air for us to guess at is like trying to nail jello to a tree... is it public display, is it mental humiliation, is it pain, is it karaoke while standing in a barrel?  We have NO idea what said mistress has done that worked or didn't.  It would have been nice to have her input instead of us being put into a guessing game while babysitting this male.
 
In short, madam.. get off your bloody arse and involve yourself!  Get your knickers unbunched and participate.

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RE: different ways to be humiliated as i cum - 1/20/2007 1:01:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Slaveshunt

Why shouldnt he get defensive when some get a bit personal and accuse his Mistress of being a 'fake'.  


First off, I will anser the question despite the lack of a question mark.  You're welcome.

There are several reasons to not get defensive. 

     Defensiveness shows insecurity in presented facts.
     It accomplishes nothing.
     It does nothing to prove that his Mistress is real.
     It makes the person seem like an aggressive git.

I'm sure I could come up with more, but I don't want to seem defensive.

And Lotus, I agree with you wholeheartedly.

Yours,


benji

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RE: different ways to be humiliated as i cum - 1/20/2007 1:26:51 PM   
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I have to agree with Lotus Song.  I have many subs approach me and ask to be spanked.  When I ask them why they want to be spanked, they say "for punishment"  When I then ask them if they like to be spanked they answer "yes"  Tell me how something enjoyable can be punishment?  The same goes for humiliation.  If a sub/slave doesn't find a particular activity humiliating, what purpose did it serve? 

But for the sake of the thread, here is a bone.

Tie a big  ribbon around the tip of your penis with a slip knot leaving a long tether, then put a remote control vibrating buttplug in your ass, give your Mistress the remote.  Take your Mistress out to a restaurant (one with table cloths) while sitting at the table unzip your pants, remove the ribbon tether from your pants and give it to your Mistress.  She can at will tug on your penis without being detected by anyone and use the remote for the plug...eventually your body will respond to the stimulation and the results may be very embarassing.  GOOD LUCK

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RE: different ways to be humiliated as i cum - 1/20/2007 6:50:21 PM   
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I swear, Mistresses are an incredibly creative bunch. 

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RE: different ways to be humiliated as i cum - 1/20/2007 7:53:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BBBTBW

Tie a big  ribbon around the tip of your penis with a slip knot leaving a long tether, then put a remote control vibrating buttplug in your ass, give your Mistress the remote.  Take your Mistress out to a restaurant (one with table cloths) while sitting at the table unzip your pants, remove the ribbon tether from your pants and give it to your Mistress.  She can at will tug on your penis without being detected by anyone and use the remote for the plug...eventually your body will respond to the stimulation and the results may be very embarassing.  GOOD LUCK


I had done something similar.  I had a two bullet vibrator with bi-lateral remotes. My Domme friend and I went to a nice restaurant with my slave. 
 
Upon arriving..I handed him a purse with the vibe setup in it.. then had him to go to the bathroom and velcro them onto his cock with the velcro strips I had enclosed (velcro is your friend)..put the remotes in his pockets and return to the booth.  Upon re-seating himself between the two of us .. we each took a remote. Then had him order for us.. And of course..when he'd open his mouth.. we'd hit the vibes :)  (I had made certain before hand that the vibes could not be heard when standing where the server would be.  So whenever anyone would approach the table..we'd be hitting it on high :).  We ordered coffee after the meal.. noticing slave had no cream..I had him take his cup get some in the bathroom.  :)  
 
Oh I was devilish back in my day :)  And thank god for good friends :)

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RE: different ways to be humiliated as i cum - 1/21/2007 8:13:10 AM   
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You can masturbate gagged with her underwear, shoe or sock in your mouth.  Or maybe your or her other lover's underwear , shoe or sock.  That would do it for me.

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RE: different ways to be humiliated as i cum - 1/21/2007 2:03:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

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ORIGINAL: Slaveshunt

Why shouldnt he get defensive when some get a bit personal and accuse his Mistress of being a 'fake'.  


First off, I will anser the question despite the lack of a question mark.  You're welcome.

There are several reasons to not get defensive. 

    Defensiveness shows insecurity in presented facts.
    It accomplishes nothing.
    It does nothing to prove that his Mistress is real.
    It makes the person seem like an aggressive git.

I'm sure I could come up with more, but I don't want to seem defensive.

gooddogbenji, sweet boy, it wasnt a question, it was a statement. There were lots of questions though that you maybe could have answered.........but maybe they were a bit difficult for you.

So you have achieved very little, except to re-inforce by belief that 23 is far too young........cheeky boy. 

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RE: different ways to be humiliated as i cum - 1/21/2007 2:31:01 PM   
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I won't even touch that with a ten foot pole.

Yours,


benji







Okay.  I will.  Mostly because my pole is, well, ten feet.

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gooddogbenji, sweet boy, it wasnt a question, it was a statement. There were lots of questions though that you maybe could have answered.........but maybe they were a bit difficult for you.

So you have achieved very little, except to re-inforce by belief that 23 is far too young........cheeky boy.
 


A few issues:

1:  If you knew me, you sure as shit wouldn't call me sweet. 

2:  The questions were not directed at me.  The statement was not a question.  Either way, I was out of line.  But that is what we call "semantics" here.  (Or not.  What the fuck do I know?)

3:  I hate to use the typo card, but seriously, wow.  I reinforced by beliefs!  And you quoted the fact that it was in reply to me.  Grand! 

4:  My aim was not to achieve anything.  Believing that anything can be really "achieved" in an online forum is like screaming a warning into a TV.  I live to disturb shit within this forum, and in that, I am remarkably successful.  My delusions of grandeur are actually quite realistic.

5:  This is fun!  Next week, same time?

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RE: different ways to be humiliated as i cum - 1/22/2007 4:09:15 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Slaveshunt

Why shouldnt he get defensive when some get a bit personal and accuse his Mistress of being a 'fake'.  


quote:

ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

First off, I will anser the question despite the lack of a question mark.  You're welcome.

There are several reasons to not get defensive. 

  Defensiveness shows insecurity in presented facts.
  It accomplishes nothing.
  It does nothing to prove that his Mistress is real.
  It makes the person seem like an aggressive git.

I'm sure I could come up with more, but I don't want to seem defensive.


quote:

ORIGINAL: Slaveshunt

gooddogbenji, sweet boy, it wasnt a question, it was a statement. There were lots of questions though that you maybe could have answered.........but maybe they were a bit difficult for you.

So you have achieved very little, except to re-inforce by belief that 23 is far too young........cheeky boy. 


I thought it was a question as well.  Since it had been answered a few times previously, I didn't think it required more from me.

< Message edited by BBBTBW -- 1/22/2007 4:10:23 AM >


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RE: different ways to be humiliated as i cum - 1/22/2007 2:44:51 PM   
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My delusions of grandeur are actually quite realistic.


As Jaco Pastorius once said:  It ain't braggin' if you can back it up.
Keep poking the badgers.

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RE: different ways to be humiliated as i cum - 1/23/2007 10:51:41 PM   
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One word...Imagination.

Oh wait...one other...Lazy.   


If there was a prop point system i'd give you one

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RE: different ways to be humiliated as i cum - 1/23/2007 11:04:02 PM   
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All right, I know I am neither a Mistress nor contributing to the subject, but I find it oddly suspicious that both people who backed up the OP & his Mistress have between the two of them 1.5 posts under their belt. Little suspicious? Yes. Do I really care? Enough to post obviously!

I found many of these ideas shocking and degrading, which means that TO ME they are humilating. And darksdesire had it right, Mistresses are a VERY creative bunch. Remind me ne'er to piss them off. Sincerely,

Wyld

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RE: different ways to be humiliated as i cum - 1/23/2007 11:13:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: tinyandy

I was ask by my Mistress  to come up with new ways to be  humiliated as i cum. My Mistress set me the task to find new ways to


That is the part of your post that has caught my attention...she asked you to come up with new ways...don't see where she asked anyone else to come up with them.

If I were her, and found you here being too lazy to figure it out yourself...you wouldn't have to worry about it, as it wouldn't be happening. After whipping you in punishment you would be locked away for a long time...not cumming at all. 

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RE: different ways to be humiliated as i cum - 1/25/2007 4:52:38 PM   
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Luvnhome4femsub, I thought about that too.  Good point.

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