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ORIGINAL: MzMia So courtship for me, is a subtle back and forth process in which we get to know each other, with ME setting the dynamics and the perimeters. This is similar to the dynamic between my Master and I when we first began conversing. I wouldn't really call it a courtship though, as it does not fit my definition of courtship (dating, etc.). We spoke; he was obviously already somewhat in control in those conversations - "subtle lead" describes it well. He made simple requests that I could choose to follow or not, and asked questions of me that I could choose to answer or not. If I did not respond to such questions and requests, the dance would likely have ended. In turn, I was able to ask him anything, also. He typically was the one to make contact then, as I was too shy. As it was, he captivated me, and I held his interest, and the energy between us continued to grow and develop.
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