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subsa -> your best time to scene (1/15/2007 5:43:33 AM)
i don't know if it's just my local community or if its the norm. most of the people that i know out in the community play late at night. my peak time is mid afternoon. i'm much better during an afternnon delight than a midnight madness. how about you?

mymasterssub69 -> RE: your best time to scene (1/15/2007 5:53:29 AM)
in my case (since we don't live together), it's late at night during the weekdays on weekends - whenever. sometimes it's in the morning before breakfast, before and/or after lunch (which can get very intense) and after dinner.

onestandingstill -> RE: your best time to scene (1/15/2007 6:01:46 AM)
For me it really depends on the circumstances rather than time of day. I am a morning person so I've played on regular dates from 6-8AM and loved it, I've also played late at night and mid-afternoon and loved it. Other times due to where my head is and what's happening I'm not into it no matter what time it is. suzanne

onestandingstill -> RE: your best time to scene (1/15/2007 6:04:07 AM)
PS... The Crucible Dungeon in DC the-crucible.com actually allots for those who want to play earlier. They do an early evening buffet and play, called a Meet and Beat once a month, and occasionally, but less frequently open during the weekend day time. suzanne

LeatherBentOne -> RE: your best time to scene (1/15/2007 6:40:09 AM)
Late mornings are best for me since Im permanantly disabled and my strength diminishes as the day wears on. But, Ive been known to surprise myself because I tend to be quite spontaneous at times especially when I find myself in a devilish mood.

sub4hire -> RE: your best time to scene (1/15/2007 6:41:47 AM)
We play whenever the mood strikes us. I think the reason why it appears so many play late at night is, if you head out to a bar you go late at night. People use play parties in the same fashion. The later you arrive the better. Easier to pick up people or whatever crap they believe. I've held parties where people still arrived at 3am....those people were banned from any further parties I held. Some of us work in the am.

ownedgirlie -> RE: your best time to scene (1/15/2007 7:51:41 AM)
Best time is whenever he decides he wants to :) It has been any time of day - first thing in the morning....throughout afternoons....interrupting dinner....pulled out of sleep in the middle of the night....pulled out of work in the middle of the day. When he beckons, it happens! I respond the same whenever it is.

michaels4evr -> RE: your best time to scene (1/15/2007 8:27:16 AM)
these days..its wheneva we can find the time and the privacy!

mstrjx -> RE: your best time to scene (1/15/2007 8:41:08 AM)
Oh, I don't know. If I'm awake, I'm in. It doesn't take much more motivation than that. Jeff

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: your best time to scene (1/15/2007 10:41:27 AM)
After lunch or about 9-10 pm.

littleone35 -> RE: your best time to scene (1/16/2007 1:20:25 PM)
Foe us it is any time we are toghther but it is usually the afternoon because i am not in school then and he works overnights. As Master says about me you were born ready * lol * Matt's littleone

goodpet -> RE: your best time to scene (1/16/2007 6:45:16 PM)
Since we live in a 24/7, without kids at the house, it is anytime. But i have a hard time thinking of it as a scene. there is no begining, and no end or aftercare, like most think a traditional scene would be. the day is full of little actions, and sometime more bdsm then other, but it is like one long scene. the rituals and protocols just seem to keep it going. I wonder, not wanting to hijack, but do others who live together in a 24/7 also find they "scene" very little since the bdsm is just scattered in and around the day?

subsa -> RE: your best time to scene (1/17/2007 5:56:06 AM)
goodpet: i too live in a 24/7 household with no unmentionables etc...we have the rituals and things that differentiate us from a vanilla couple; those things are kind of the foundation of our lifestyle. but we do still 'scene' often (2-3 times a week). by that i mean something not spontaneous but a planned situation. it takes time to set the mood (candles incense, music). it takes time to get together all the accoutrements (ropes, paddles,etc...) it takes time to tie me up. the intense scenes are more fun that way for me as the anticipation can be very sweet. but as i'm the OP i want to give some clarification. i'm not talking about what goes on in your household, i was speaking of the play parties; more of a public venue. they all seem to start late and don't really get going for several hours after that. after the nov party we didn't get back until around 4 in the morning. .there's another party this weekend and i've just been lamenting how late we'll be. i struggle with insomnia and the very best treatment is a consistent bed time and wake time. that goes out the window on play party weekends.

twicehappy -> RE: your best time to scene (1/17/2007 6:46:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mstrjx If I'm awake, I'm in. It doesn't take much more motivation than that. Pretty much my time frame except to add if i'm asleep then wake me up! quote: ORIGINAL: goodpet Since we live in a 24/7, without kids at the house, it is anytime. But i have a hard time thinking of it as a scene. there is no begining, and no end or aftercare, like most think a traditional scene would be. the day is full of little actions, and sometime more bdsm then other, but it is like one long scene. I'll give you an Amen on this. Are we dressed in kinky clothes having an orgy all the time ? No. Are we living our fantasy, is my life a "scene" in the way you described ? OH YEAH.

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