MissBabydoll
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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael Juliet, Climb down off the high horse. This was a wanker post, nothing more. The op didn't discuss anything, didn't share anything deep, didn't ask anything. The proper place for this would be the forum titled "positive experiences"... i am curious in the difference between this thread and the one posted a couple days age entitled "For Daddy ". They were both topics started by individuals expressing something they were happy about, they did not post a question, and yet one was well recieved and the other not... I noticed that too--and since when has suggesting that someone may have a prejudice been the same as "insulting" them? I see a *lot* of hostility to/scorn for hetero femsub males on the part of both het male-doms and het fem-doms, on boards and elsewhere, and it's really backward. I happen to like femsub males and I work with them a lot and have had them as lovers. Look, this is deep stuff, girls and boys. A fem submissive male breaks the two strongest rules of patriarchal culture--males are supposed to be masculine and dominant, and those who are not are abominations in the eyes of "God" (excuse me while I hurl) and society. Some tolerance for *gay* fem males--drag queens and fairies--has developed over My lifetime (I'm 28), but I see very little for genderqueer or trans males unless they are actually going all the way. I guess it's OK if they become anatomically (externally, of course) female, because then they acquire a set role with the parts to match. But what if they don't want that, and want to keep their boy parts? To all of you hets put there who have the "eewwww" reaction to sissies and t-gurls, ask yourselves: where does my reaction come from? and what other prejudices--racial, religious, cultural--am I carrying around like viruses in my mental genome, ready to flare up when I'm threatened? This entire culture is built around stratification according to socioeconomic class, "race," and gender and sexuality. Anyone who denies this just has their eyes wide shut, which is most likely if they are on the top sides of these hierarchies. In the last few days I have seen an egregious example of bigotry against Mexicans go unchallenged on these boards. Seems like a lot of you folks are so into arguing the fine points of DSSM do's and dont's that you miss the elephant of racism in the middle of the room. (Only reason I didn't is because I didn't have time at that moment and now I can't find it!) But hey, I'm from San Francisco, the liberal Sodom of the West... and I'm a ProDomme, and bisexual, so I can be dismissed too, right? Miss B
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