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new experience - 1/16/2007 3:20:36 AM

subJay40

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Hi all am new to the lifestyle, have met a lady who is a sub, and although we have played a little in bondage with ropes, i would like to know more from Doms about how to set a scene.
Also i have yet to attend a play party, or a munch, so am looking forward to both.
Can anyone give me some ideas, books, literature and how to realy get into a great scene and explore all the new sensations that we can experience

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RE: new experience - 1/16/2007 4:30:18 AM

FangsNfeet

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Well, there's Dirty Talk. As for your scene, you can type "Bondage Gear BDSM" in your google search and find just about any and everthing you need. We also have benders here on Collarme in another forum.

Now let's talk about punishment. Not everything has to be a scene. Don't forget about giving task and commands. Switches, Floggers, Whips, and Torture devices can be used to inforce things the way you want them to be.

If you can check out Half Price Books, you should be able to find a few things to read that will enlighten you.

Good luck to your new choices in life and your new relationship.

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RE: new experience - 1/16/2007 5:37:40 AM

LuckyAlbatross

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ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet
If you can check out Half Price Books, you should be able to find a few things to read that will enlighten you.

Or whatever discount book store you have (HPB isn't everywhere, I'd never heard of them before I moved to Texas)

As always, books can give you some great ideas and starts, but really are just a resource- not a how-to guide.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_542733/mpage_1/key_books/tm.htm#542785
What is your best bdsm book/novel?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_498262/mpage_2/key_books/tm.htm#498587
Someone should write a book

http://www.collarchat.com/m_269642/mpage_1/key_book/tm.htm#269653
submissive lit

Books on Subs/Bottoming

Books for subs/slaves

Books

Books on the lifestyle

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