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RE: RACK - RISK AWARE CONSENSUAL KINK & EDGE PLAYERS - 2/5/2007 9:21:31 AM   
SirDiscipliner69


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There is an element of risk in everything we do, no matter how small. It's knowing how to proceed to minimize the risk and what to do should something go wrong that makes the activity worth doing and the experience worth having... sometimes over and over and over again!

So what activites do you see that pose an element of risk worth repeating?

Ross

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RE: RACK - RISK AWARE CONSENUAL KINK & EDGE PLAYERS - 2/5/2007 9:33:01 AM   
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in my case it's never about my fun or pleasure, just about being a good, obedient little girl. :)


So would you consider yourself a party favor or rent a sub?

Ross

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if's that's what my Master has said i will be for that day or period, then yes. i've been a party favor, a by-the-hour whore, a gloryhole slut and many other things some would consider "risky" at my Master's whim and pleasure. my personal (selfish) pleasure or lack thereof has no relevance in anything it is that we do, that's why i don't like using words like "kink" since it can imply play or fun and it's just not that way for some of us.

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RE: RACK - RISK AWARE CONSENUAL KINK & EDGE PLAYERS - 2/5/2007 10:23:49 AM   
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it's that's what my Master has said i will be for that day or period, then yes. i've been a party favor, a by-the-hour whore, a gloryhole slut and many other things some would consider "risky" at my Master's whim and pleasure.


Sounds like a nice party indeed.

Ross
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RE: RACK - RISK AWARE CONSENUAL KINK & EDGE PLAYERS - 2/5/2007 11:22:59 AM   
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Status: offline 		Breath play, needle play, cutting.  Those would be the most edge play I have done.  Along the lines of RACK, they were done with people with a medical background, which reduced the risk incredibly. 

The breath play was done with a gas mask, and not with hands to the throat.  Thing they watched out for with the gas mask was the element of carbon dioxide intake, not just lack of oxygen.

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RE: RACK - RISK AWARE CONSENSUAL KINK & EDGE PLAYERS - 2/5/2007 5:21:56 PM   
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There is an element of risk in everything we do, no matter how small. It's knowing how to proceed to minimize the risk and what to do should something go wrong that makes the activity worth doing and the experience worth having... sometimes over and over and over again!

So what activites do you see that pose an element of risk worth repeating?

Ross


It's not the element of risk that I seek to repeat but the pleasure and high that comes from the activity itself and the response invoked by my torment, especially if I can take them to and possible over the edge. 
 
Having discovered my sadistic desires at a very tender age, I was surprised by the amount of pleasure I derived from the simple response of tears. Yes, it excited me but I was much too young then to understand those feelings much less put a name to it all. I've since discovered how much I truly enjoy the intensity of sadomasochism in many forms from needle play to breath play, singletails, electro-torture, giving piss cocktails and various activities inbetween. While some are more physical than others, there is still that element of risk and why I a firm advocate of RACK rather than SSC. After all, safe and sane leaves far too much room for speculation and truly only relevent to those involved. 

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RE: RACK - RISK AWARE CONSENSUAL KINK & EDGE PLAYERS - 2/5/2007 5:25:11 PM   
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RE: RACK - RISK AWARE CONSENSUAL KINK & EDGE PLAYERS - 2/9/2007 12:46:52 AM   
SirDiscipliner69


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After watching all the SAW movies I been thinking about building a new kind of dungeon.


Yikes!!!

Not My sort by any means.

Ross

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RE: RACK - RISK AWARE CONSENSUAL KINK & EDGE PLAYERS - 2/9/2007 12:48:05 AM   
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ORIGINAL: WyckedIndulgence

There is an element of risk in everything we do, no matter how small. It's knowing how to proceed to minimize the risk and what to do should something go wrong that makes the activity worth doing and the experience worth having... sometimes over and over and over again!


Yes indeed...how true...very well put.

Ross

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RE: RACK - RISK AWARE CONSENUAL KINK & EDGE PLAYERS - 2/9/2007 6:24:28 AM   
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Just what might you be into with a screen name like that I wonder?
hhhhhmmmmm

Ross

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Brilliant deduction my dear Watson, ( and plenty of it)

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Well seems you must be getting just what you need with that sort of moniker. ;)


Ross


If that were the case i imagine i would not spend nearly as much time here as i do.....(sigh)

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RE: RACK - RISK AWARE CONSENUAL KINK & EDGE PLAYERS - 2/9/2007 6:28:09 AM   
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I may need to stop reading  some of these threads...

So have you stopped?

What if you volunteered to be subjected to a double row of doms with paddles that you needed to walk through?

I forget the exact word I was looking for but native americans use to put captured settlers through them as punishment.

Ross

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RE: RACK - RISK AWARE CONSENUAL KINK & EDGE PLAYERS - 2/12/2007 12:30:53 AM   
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ORIGINAL: spankmepink11

I may need to stop reading  some of these threads...

So have you stopped?

What if you volunteered to be subjected to a double row of doms with paddles that you needed to walk through?

I forget the exact word I was looking for but native americans use to put captured settlers through them as punishment.

Ross

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RE: RACK - RISK AWARE CONSENUAL KINK & EDGE PLAYERS - 2/12/2007 12:51:39 AM   
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ORIGINAL: daddysprop247So would you consider yourself a party favor or rent a sub?

Ross


if's that's what my Master has said i will be for that day or period, then yes. i've been a party favor, a by-the-hour whore, a gloryhole slut and many other things some would consider "risky" at my Master's whim and pleasure. my personal (selfish) pleasure or lack thereof has no relevance in anything it is that we do, that's why i don't like using words like "kink" since it can imply play or fun and it's just not that way for some of us.

So do you go down to the crucible often?

Ross

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RE: RACK - RISK AWARE CONSENUAL KINK & EDGE PLAYERS - 2/12/2007 5:02:52 AM   
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Breath play can be delicious but one might be aware of how to revieve via first aid.
Later I found out she indeed was more experienced than she initially claimed.

Ross


Sir,
a great deal of the time those of us who have had the pleasure and opportunity to play with more experienced doms...and there fore played at a higher level of skill and edgeplay, are sometimes shyed away from by those Dominants that are less skilled becsue they may not be confidant in their own abiities... So although it is never a good idea to lie, it is far better for a more experienced submissive to play it slowly than a non experienced one say that she is very experienced and in reality she isnt.

I actually fall in to this catagory...becasue of the reputations of the Dominants i have played wth/had relationships with, I have basically "scared" alot of potential playmates away...and Im not a major Maso or anything. and so the only ones that i have been able to interact with with a possible potential of hitting it off, are gentlemen that I know have a fixed way of playing and no rooms for variation for individual medical issues. 

I may bave experience but i am not an expert...but mearly openminded and connectable!

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RE: RACK - RISK AWARE CONSENUAL KINK & EDGE PLAYERS - 2/12/2007 7:36:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		I assisted the Domme who was training me in the area of needle play.  I don't think I can do it by myself, so I will stick to cbt.  I am getting really good at that.

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RE: RACK - RISK AWARE CONSENSUAL KINK & EDGE PLAYERS - 2/12/2007 8:06:40 AM   
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Ok, there's a red flag if I ever read one. How on earth could anyone submit to being used by someone they don't know the sexual history of and haven't seen a recent hard copy of their blood work? On the other end of the flogger, how could a dominant, of any gender, expose themselves to the risk of an STD so thoughtlessly? Don't tell me about rubbers. There's plenty of diseases you can catch while still using protection.

As to what I find daring... Heck, I'm rather jaded at this point. There's not too many topics I consider taboo. I've done and seen so many different types of play, it's rather passé at this point. What others consider edgy is usually old hat in my book.

As to risks, exposing yourself or your partner(s) to the possibility of infection is just negligent and thoughtless. For shame...


Stay safe, play nice, & share your toys w/ others...



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RE: RACK - RISK AWARE CONSENSUAL KINK & EDGE PLAYERS - 2/12/2007 8:33:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		I love edge play. My favorite to bate is breath play, which in some ways I really hate that I love it so much because it is so risky. But I can't help it the way it makes me feel, I just can't find words to describe. Sir loves that I trust him so much to do it. I also enjoy Knives, needle, cutting and of coarse blood.

aurora

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RE: RACK - RISK AWARE CONSENUAL KINK & EDGE PLAYERS - 2/12/2007 9:07:53 AM   
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ORIGINAL: daddysprop247So would you consider yourself a party favor or rent a sub?

Ross


if's that's what my Master has said i will be for that day or period, then yes. i've been a party favor, a by-the-hour whore, a gloryhole slut and many other things some would consider "risky" at my Master's whim and pleasure. my personal (selfish) pleasure or lack thereof has no relevance in anything it is that we do, that's why i don't like using words like "kink" since it can imply play or fun and it's just not that way for some of us.

So do you go down to the crucible often?

Ross


never. it's a very BDSM (not so much D/s) heavy crowd, and we don't "scene" or engage in many bdsm activities at all.  plus there are too many restrictions at crucible. occasionally we'll go to bound, tho more often to their private functions. why, are you in the area?

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RE: RACK - RISK AWARE CONSENUAL KINK & EDGE PLAYERS - 2/17/2007 1:02:40 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69So do you go down to the crucible often?

Ross


never. it's a very BDSM (not so much D/s) heavy crowd, and we don't "scene" or engage in many bdsm activities at all.  plus there are too many restrictions at crucible. occasionally we'll go to bound, tho more often to their private functions. why, are you in the area?


Hmmm....Yes I am. Springfield Va.

Ross 
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RE: RACK - RISK AWARE CONSENSUAL KINK & EDGE PLAYERS - 2/17/2007 1:05:13 AM   
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I love edge play. My favorite to bate is breath play, which in some ways I really hate that I love it so much because it is so risky. But I can't help it the way it makes me feel, I just can't find words to describe. Sir loves that I trust him so much to do it. I also enjoy Knives, needle, cutting and of coarse blood.


Yes many find that RACK is delicious with those that they trust simply for that reason....trust.

Many would not partake of the events until they find someone they trust and have an emotional bond with.

In doing so they cycle of feeding off of each other can be complete.

Ross 
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RE: RACK - RISK AWARE CONSENUAL KINK & EDGE PLAYERS - 2/17/2007 1:20:22 AM   
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a great deal of the time those of us who have had the pleasure and opportunity to play with more experienced doms...and there fore played at a higher level of skill and edgeplay,

I have been given the pleasure many times of more experienced submissives / bottoms that also have a higher tolerance and experience than perhaps most

are sometimes shyed away from by those Dominants that are less skilled becsue they may not be confidant in their own abiities... So although it is never a good idea to lie, it is far better for a more experienced submissive to play it slowly than a non experienced one say that she is very experienced and in reality she isnt.

Yes it is helpful as a dom worth their salt will take it slower if it is aan introductory session...however there are those that are doing it for the anticpation a nd fear rush...they love the element of danger..
 

I actually fall in to this catagory...becasue of the reputations of the Dominants i have played wth/had relationships with, I have basically "scared" alot of potential playmates away...


I think you will find  that many doms including Myself have this potential submissive scare...those that learn from others that indeed things are rather nice eventuually come around...some immediately...some years later...yes years later

and Im not a major Maso or anything. and so the only ones that i have been able to interact with with a possible potential of hitting it off, are gentlemen that I know have a fixed way of playing and no rooms for variation for individual medical issues. 

Yes in many cases his is also true....but sometimes one might take on a potential just for the variety...

I may bave experience but i am not an expert...but mearly openminded and connectable!

Sound very nice...and a potential day trip
 
So does the cross stitching refer to needle play?

Ross 
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