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unsung -> So what? (1/16/2007 12:37:17 PM)
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I personally am getting so annoyed with people that think that others should not have or have expectations of others that seem unattainable to their views. My question is so what? Do we choice a substandard association because we have to give benefit of the doubt and to further believe that somewhere under there that skin lies a decent human being filled with emotions, empathy, kindness when in early encounters they have shown none of the above. Where in this book of life does it damand that anyone settles for less than they feel is their worth, or with someone that is incompatible? Why should anyone settle for someone that does not fit within our daily lives? Because they are Dom, and there just aren't enough good ones to go around? Reading through various threads I hear the echo's that submissives have expectations far from reality, in my mind this also suggests discretely that we should settle for less than our expectations.
Hammer my thoughts here as much as you care to, but when I go looking for someone to complement my life I am seeking the whole package (body, mind, and spirit), and its connection with my body, mind and spirit. My expectations are to find a complement, and because I value these things in my life; to have someone enter my life that does not value these things in themselves and me, is less than a complement. So call these unrealistic expectations, but remember your dictates have little consequential barring on how I live my life or how and/or when I attain satisfaction.
A rant cause I am tired of the discrete hummms and haaaaaa's at how people chose to select whom will and whom will not be part of their lives, especially when the hummms and haaaaaas have no direct relevance to these lives.
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