classykindasassy -> RE: How Does Your Dom/me Rate? (1/16/2007 9:17:55 PM)
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HOW DOES YOUR DOM/ME RATE? based on the ABC News Poll SCORING 1 = Needs Significant Attention 2 = Needs Some Attention 3 = Almost Acceptable 4 = Acceptable 5 = More Than Acceptable 6 = Strength 7 = Significant Strength Communication & Listening Is patient with household members __7 Takes time to have personal conversations __ 7 Problem Solving Solves problems without getting angry or keeping silent __7 Fair Partnership & Respect Shares & distributes home chores fairly __ 7 Demonstrates Concern & Caring Says "I love you" (or equivalent mutually valued phrase) often enough __ 777 Uses a kind voice when speaking __ 777 Talks with household members about their important events & activitives __777 Integrity Keeps promises __7 Apologizes when he/she has done something wrong or has hurt others' feelings __ 7 Sense of Purpose Helps create enjoyable household traditions & rituals __ 7 Demonstrates responsibility & accountability __ 7 Compliments, Builds, Encourages Compliments household members for their personal achievements __ 7 Encourages household members to keep trying when they are having trouble accomplishing a task __ 777 Additional Questions List 3-5 things you appreciate most about this Dom/me: 1) That his life is about making a difference 2) He is more kind and generous than I am 3) He is incredibly patient 4) He is a great father 5) He is a wondeful teacher and lover List 2 things you want this Dom/me to do less (or stop doing): 1) saying anything bad about Himself 2) Can't come up with it, really What counts Is your Dom/me willing to take this feedback & take personal changes to improve the relationship? Show him/her & find out. He will be reading it I am sure.
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