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RE: Simple Submissive Acts - 1/21/2007 3:35:04 AM

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I found with my Domina that she was most pleased when I would be one step ahead of her needs.
I worked hard at learning her timing and expressions conected to her want's, need's and desires and
when I was able to sursprise her with just what she needed before she had to ask

I spend alot of time observing everything- movements/expressions/timing taking mental notes and storing them.
Then doing just what you stated above.

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RE: Simple Submissive Acts - 1/21/2007 3:53:37 AM

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clean his home. shop for him. make his meals. do everything a man wants from a submissive woman (aka wife). then see if you have any time/energy left to do what YOU want to do "submissively" for him

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RE: Simple Submissive Acts - 1/21/2007 9:42:25 AM

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To be perfectly honest, if a person cleans/straightens every day, which if done right it's not that tiring and doesn't take a whole lot of time. It's only those few times that the bigger stuff has to be done, like the vaccuming, washing the floors. Laundry really isn't that hard, you stick it in and wait for it to be done. Much like the dishwasher. But I have a tendancy to hand wash the dishes instead of letting them collect to the point of actually filling the dishwasher. Unless we cook a bigger meal than the little bits that we normally eat.

He is the cook, I just help. He's been to culinary school, so I let him run the kitchen! lol

The little stuff I can do, the easy not so involved cooking, getting him drinks, bringing his plates back to the kitchen, we both go grocery shopping when we do the big trips, one or the other of us do little grocery shopping in between.

I'm lucky, I don't yet have kids to look after, so I'm not yet dealing with cleaning up after the kids, feeding them, shopping for them....hey, now that I think about it...wasn't it those exact things you mentioned above about what a "wife" does?

And yet every single mother that is also a submissive seems to be able to do it and still submit to their Masters with little to no abnormal complaint! Doing everything they do for their children, plus generally working on top of that, AND doing things for their Masters.

We're really good at multitasking.

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RE: Simple Submissive Acts - 1/21/2007 12:35:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: Aine

hey, now that I think about it...wasn't it those exact things you mentioned above about what a "wife" does?

it always surprises me how many female submissives seem to ignore that if you do all the wifely tasks, dress up however your man wants, provide any sex that your man wants then you'll be attractive to lots of men

i know that there may be things that a female sub thinks might be too extreme for the average man but ... i think you might be surprised what the average man would do if he thought he could get away with it

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RE: Simple Submissive Acts - 1/21/2007 11:14:12 PM

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The scent of Rose petals and a warm bath was well recieved by my previous mistress

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RE: Simple Submissive Acts - 1/22/2007 3:53:34 AM

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I remember a Dom I had that was so used to not being listened to by others he had been with, that he was floored that I not only had heard what he said, but remembered it. I had tried to find him a picture he had been looking for, it wasn't the one he had seen, but he was very warmed I had even paid any attention.

I make Master cookies or treats of some kind, run my hand on the back of his head while he relaxes, just touch him now and then... let him know that I want to be close to him, near him... when I get up, I ask if he needs anything.. I just show him that he is important and appreciated.. I think that goes a very long way.

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RE: Simple Submissive Acts - 1/22/2007 7:37:07 AM

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just mailed a "Thinking of You" card with the extra key to my collar to Daddy

He loved my Valentine's Day card which coincidentially arrived the same day my collar did.

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RE: Simple Submissive Acts - 1/22/2007 8:22:04 PM

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how about a totally non sexual one, simply romantic and in someways, "deeper" than that?

in casual banter (in any media), find out his fave colour, and possibly a texture or textile (example: Prussian Green and Satin).

Then the next time you show up and meet, be wearing something that is Prussian Green and Satin. Could simply be a cocktail dress with a portion featuring such, need not be brassiere or panties.

In my opinion, this would show you actually value his aesthetic, which for some men is a massive "winner".

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