adaddysgirl
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ORIGINAL: ShiftedJewel And once again... not getting it... it isn't about poor choices, it's about the right to decide for yourself. Why don't you just come right out and say it... you do NOT believe that people should have the right to make decisions on their own. Give me the facts, show me the proof and then leave me alone to decide what I want to do. And this is exactly the point. Why doesn't the gov spend money on a nationwide public health channel that educates people (and teens) to the danger of things....but then let them choose for themselves? Give me a station that shows what drugs can do to you, smoking, not wearing a seat belt or helmet, eating fatty foods, etc....then let me decide what is best for me and my children. Holy Jesus....have we really lost all perspective on what freedom of choice means? Same as you Jewel, i raised 3 kids, and i smoked around them all. None of them have any freakin' asthma or allergies or anything like that. my mother is 85 and STILL smokes and she has no breathing disorder. There are 5 of us kids.....and none of us have any asthma, etc. my aunt (my mother's sister) is 80 and still smokes. She has no breathing disorders. She had 4 kids all raised around smoke, and they have no breathing disorders. So why don't we try looking at something else? For one, survival of the fittest. There was a time when if you couldn't deal with your environment, you moved or died. Now we have all the wusses complaining 'oh my gawd...the neighbors are smoking in their house again....and it's really causing me problems'. Well then, fucking move or die! Shit. Back in the day, you probably wouldn't have survived anyway. But no....modern science keeps the sickly alive so they can bitch that they can't stand what anyone else around them does. And secondly, perhaps people should take family lineage into account. Asthma in the family? Cancer? Heart disease? Then don't have kids....and expect that everyone else around should kowtow to their disorder. If my kids couldn't handle cigarette smoke, i would tell them not to go around those who smoke then. Can't hang out because you can't deal with the smoke? Well, go somewhere else then! This is what life is about. If my kids were sickly and smoke was bad for them, then i would most likely work out something else for my smoking. But you can't expect the whole world to change just because you have health issues. Deal with it...figure something out...it's called coping with life. So the freakin' little wuss next door cries out 'Waaahhh, i smell smoke from my next door neighbors house!' Holy Christ ya big baby....quit your whinin'. If it bothers you that much, you probably wouldn't have survived in the real world anyway. i smoke and i would dare to say that i am healthier than (and yes i will say) most non-smokers i know. At almost 50, i am on no medication, my heart is strong, low blood pressure (100/70 and it was lower than that until i took the job with the State), low cholesterol (93)....and i have been smoking since i was 15. You got sickly genes? Blame it on your lineage....not on every other damn thing in this world. And if smoking was so bad.....instead of putting on cigarette packs.....'it MAY contribute to this and that'...why don't they just say it WILL OR DOES contribute to this and that. If all these tests are so conclusive, why not put that? i moved into an apartment complex when my son was 10. There was a child there who was ADD. He was 8 but was big for his age and the same size as my son. Of course...he wanted to play with the other kids...but his 'disorder' just caused all kinds of problems. So his mother would come out and say 'why can't he play with you?'. To which the other kids would respond 'We tried to let him play with us but he keeps walking away from the game and he calls us names.' i did talk to my son about this. He said the same thing.....there is just no playing with him. Everything is just very disruptive. i tried to explain his problem to my son....and my son said that he and the other kids did try to include this kid in their play....but it only ended up with one problem or another. Yet the mother fought to death her son's right to play with the other kids. Would i have wanted that for my son? Hell no! But, if you have ADD, you just may not be able to play with the other kids the way they do. Hard fact of life. And the day i would try to force other kids to play with mine even though he clearly could not operate in that capacity....well, i just wouldn't do it. You are not owed anything because you are sickly or don't like the smell, or whatever. Pretty much, adapt to your surroundings...cope...or move to something more habitable...or die. Expecting every single thing around you to change and adapt to your inabilities is just unrealistic. DG
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