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facesitting - 1/20/2007 9:48:20 AM

mrsubmale

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Is anyone in here into facesitting? if so what part of it turns you on? is it giving or receiving oral? is it the smothering or to sit or be sat on as hard as you can?

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RE: facesitting - 1/20/2007 1:47:50 PM

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Well, it's a bit of the first two, but not so much the third. It's a misconception that "queening" (a.k.a. facesitting) is an act where the full weight of the Domme is brought to bear. Normally, it's not. Rather, it's a form of control where the Mistress uses the strength of the position to hold a sub down. This can be complete in and of itself, or combined with other forms of domminance. (For instance, I used to have a Domme who loved to queen me while using various implements of CBT on me. She got off on my screams into her pussy.) Yes, it can be a form of breath control. Ever try to breathe around 120 pounds of flesh when you're bound? And yes, while you happen to have your mouth there, you're usually expected to use it for her pleasure, but that's an individual choice.

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RE: facesitting - 1/20/2007 4:40:44 PM

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I love it when a lady sits on my face

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RE: facesitting - 1/21/2007 3:24:04 AM

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the sub wants pussy. the sub won't get pussy if they ask for it. so the sub says sit on me and show me how superior you are. a lot of pro dommes especially are gorgeous and you could only fantasise about their pussy, they would never look at you. handing over money and "being submissive" gets you where you want to be. any form of oral is a strong attraction for the man who can't perform penetrative sex - face sitting says "don't expect me to be a real man but i want your pussy anyway, in return you can 'dominate' me , is that a fair exchange?"

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RE: facesitting - 1/21/2007 7:15:41 AM

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I just feel really dominant when I get my orgasm while he has only has attention for my needs, not his.

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RE: facesitting - 1/21/2007 8:10:40 AM

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do you use a queening stool too enhance dominance?

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RE: facesitting - 1/21/2007 6:04:29 PM

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so gailcd, are you for facesitting are you saying? im great in bed, i can get a girl off orally and with penetration. but nothing really turns me on more than a girl sitting on my face, whether its for oral service, to smother me, or is she wants to squash my face under her ass and pussy.

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RE: facesitting - 1/21/2007 6:16:03 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mrsubmale

Is anyone in here into facesitting? if so what part of it turns you on? is it giving or receiving oral? is it the smothering or to sit or be sat on as hard as you can?

for me it is the giving oral service but facesitting gives the extra dimensions of smothering from pussy ass and thighs. the weight is good too especially when there is movement and thrusts from the woman.

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RE: facesitting - 1/21/2007 7:41:01 PM

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Face-sitting, as the name implies, where the dominating woman seats herself on the submissives face as she would set herself upon a chair. No-one sits upon a chair so that they may hoover over the top of it, but to seat their full weight there on and to relaxe. This my include oral service, or not. It may include breath play, almost always. If it involves covering the mouth then it is about breath play. I like it because it's the feeling of helplessness. As well as the heat and smell of her body. I have even been face-sat while mistress conducts various forms of C.B.T. Up to and including her orgasm as a previous post has stated.

The ability to penetrate doesn't make you a man. any more than getting a woman pregnant prooves the same. Try getting a boner when your cock and balls have been abused by a woman who genuinely enjoys doing cruel things to them.

A dominating lady uses and abuses her slave then takes her pleasure from him. Not always allowing the submissive pleasure, only the knowledge that his pain and suffering is part of her pleasure. Her release, orgasm, is her pleasure. His release is denied unless she so pleases to grant him such a reward.

After-all a well ballanced B.D.S.M. session is absolutely about pain and pleasure. The submissives' pain and the dominating ladies pleasure.

My rant for the day
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RE: facesitting - 1/22/2007 8:45:19 AM

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I love for my mistress to sit on my face I have no control what so ever it is awesome. But I have had anther say they feel totally submissive in that position. I cannot understand how some one would not feel dominate.

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RE: facesitting - 1/22/2007 3:39:30 PM

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I love it when my Mistress sits on my face....and the fact that she knows I love it makes it all that much more enjoyable for the both of us.

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RE: facesitting - 1/22/2007 3:46:54 PM

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Maybe i'm just mean...I enjoy stealing his breath away and when I'm really in a mean mood rubbing my sweaty ass all over his face and he has no choice but to accept it while I torment him. He seems to enjoy it as well.

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RE: facesitting - 1/22/2007 5:17:15 PM

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What's not to like? To feel engulfed by your Mistress in the most intimate way... every taste, every breath is of her... to feel her soft body pressing down on you... to give her pleasure at the expense of your own breath... *sigh*

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RE: facesitting - 1/22/2007 6:58:11 PM

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i would have to say petdaves response has been the best so far. the way he described how the body pressing down on you and you pleasure her to the expense of your own breath. nice.

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RE: facesitting - 1/22/2007 8:30:35 PM

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dave's replies are often thoughtful, a great communicator..

regards Allie

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RE: facesitting - 1/23/2007 7:10:06 AM

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Does anyone worry about breathplay going too far with queening (without a queening chair)? I find that when I really am into it, extra attention is required not to make him turn purple and blue from hypoxia. What do you do to stay focused enough as a sub or domina? M

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RE: facesitting - 1/23/2007 2:24:44 PM

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when im getting my face sat on and if the girl is smothering me i hold my breath for as long as i can than ill give her a signal to get up. but until than i just lay there and love the feel of her ass and pussy pushing down on my face as she keeps adding weight.

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RE: facesitting - 1/23/2007 6:14:21 PM

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he taps out. two taps time to get up. just like the safe word...only...he cant really speak now can he. lol

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RE: facesitting - 1/23/2007 7:08:12 PM

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well,just for kicks, I'm gonna roll with a reply from the male dom side, sinvce we haven't seen one.

receiving oral for me is a sub experience and I ain't no switch. I mean, I'm just getting some "mouth", and in a standard fellatio that means seing the top of a woman's head. I am an ass fetishist, not a "scalp" fetishist. So the only oral I care about is when I'm on my back (or other positions" and the Big Booty Bettie sub's ass is IN MY FACE.

So I can lick any orifice *I* choose, tease either *I* choose, spank and bite while I do so, if I feel her starting to near orgasm I can pull back on the rhythm and technique and make her EARN it, even use teeth on labia or clit hood while doing so to teach her "what the real deal is always gonna be".

Telling her to move her ass and jiggle those asscheeks for me better or she can look forward to things that'll make her sleep on her tummy for 5 days instead of 2.

running a sharp fingernail down the groove of her asscleft after using a hairbrush on the cheeks while I lick. and PENETRATE with the tongue.

telling her if she doesn't want to "move" properly I can always get some ginger and carve it in front of her face and then we'll see how still she stays after being "figged".

Somehow with that going on I don;t see a woman sitting on my face as a sub or switch enterprise, but I sure as hell love it.

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RE: facesitting - 1/23/2007 8:25:41 PM

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ahhhh...yes the tap out method...I use that too,but there are times that just a few more seconds of pleasure are a wee bit more important than him catching his breath...lol...ok so he learns to work harder or hold his breath longer...lol..win win situation for me. Plus kissing my scent from his lips is pretty damn hot.

*wicked grin from the top*

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