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Argentopal -> Basics of Ds (1/23/2007 8:46:45 PM)
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For those of you who are Dom or Domme or sub or slave or switch or Top or bottom or what ever/who ever you are for “awhile” now, do ever feel as if you have become jaded or have lost sight of what it was that made you passionate about it? If you are a long term couple, do you ever go through the “doldrums” and end up with no real “D/s” in your life for a period of time? I know in real life long term 24/7 D/s there are always family, health, job stress issues that can force the Ds to a back burner for a while. What I am looking for is a long period of time when there is no energy, no interest, no desire to be actively D/s. Like when you are married but there is really nothing there. You are still married, it’s just dull now. So, any great hints on getting back the joy? The desire? Actually I am going to lead a discussion group for 24/7 living together couples on this topic and I was hoping to find some ideas. Here is the posted topic information: Topic this month: Back to Basics During the holiday season we can get caught up is a whirlwind of activities and it’s easy to overindulge in many things. We go to too many parties, we eat too much, we spend too much money, we might imbibe a bit too much and at times all that can make us loose sight of the basic things in our life. Going “all out” in your Ds bdsm life can do the same thing. As our lives in general calm down this time of year and we try to get back to the basic clothes and activities and foods, let’s use this meeting to think about and discuss the basics that drew us to this life in the first place. What drew you to bdsm … to Ds or Ms? What drew you to each other? What has kept you together? When you start to loose sight of those basics, what can you do to get back there? How do you refocus as a couple and regain parts of your Ds that might have slipped away for a while? This will not be a “lecture” but a guided discussion that we hope everyone will take part in.
Thanks for any ideas,
MsOpal
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