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Tasks/Challenger for a new sub - 1/25/2007 6:18:00 PM   
Learner1982


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Status: offline 		Hi everyone,

I write this post in an attempt to gain some further ideas for tasks/challenges that I could give to my partner (who is submissive).

We dont exactly practice BDSM, or have a master/slave relationship. It is more that I am the more dominant person in the relationship and she looks up to me and likes it when I decide things to do.

Recently I suggested that I give her some little challenges/tasks to complete while I was both there with her and while she was either at work or at home by herself.

We do live together as well.

Some of the things that I had come up with were...

Answering questionaires that I had written,
Wearing only a short dress around the house (no underwear)
Wearing no underwear out to shops or to friends houses
Emailing or texting me at certain times of the day
Taking photos of herself and sending them to me when I am working late
Wear certain clothing out (that i have choosen)
Be waiting on knees when I arrive home

I was also thinking of getting her to keep an online journal as well (ask her to post 2 or 3 times a week)

She is not exactly the most emotional or expressive person, but I am trying to get her to be more open with how she feels and what she wants from life. But she is fairly adventourous and willing to try and do whatever I give her.

Any further ideas of suggestions would be fantastic. They can be simple or complex, they can be unsexual related or sexual related.

Thanks so much.
B
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RE: Tasks/Challenger for a new sub - 1/25/2007 6:25:30 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		have her lay out your clothes in the morning, and help dress you..
if she likes your command, use more of it----

you can say coffee, please-- and still be rather imperial about it.

have her do whatever by ritual, wake me with a blowjob, whatever---every fucking day at such and such a time--- have her hold something of yours in her hand all day----
oh, there isn't space or time enough, be some less self concious and don't be so incredulous---
when I tell a slave to suck my dick----I no longer marvel to myself 'I can't believe she is going along with this,'   it just it, know whatta mean,  Vern? If they are glad and cheerful to obey, then the scales are balanced.....don't know how to say it better for what you ask.


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RE: Tasks/Challenger for a new sub - 1/25/2007 6:25:40 PM   
Celeste43


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Status: offline 		What is she less than competent in that effects her? If she can't cook, find her a beginning cooking course at a community college for instance. If she feels insecure about her car, teach her how to check the oil, the tire pressure, the tread, how to change a tire if she's strong enough to do so.

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RE: Tasks/Challenger for a new sub - 1/25/2007 6:26:33 PM   
szobras


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Status: offline 		I enjoy being bathed and "groomed", a fine meal adds to this before or after given your choice of order. Have you considered "remote control" devices when you are together out somewhere?

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RE: Tasks/Challenger for a new sub - 1/25/2007 6:30:22 PM   
mnottertail


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ORIGINAL: Celeste43

What is she less than competent in that effects her? If she can't cook, find her a beginning cooking course at a community college for instance. If she feels insecure about her car, teach her how to check the oil, the tire pressure, the tread, how to change a tire if she's strong enough to do so.



Yep, there's some good shit right here, baby...Listen to this one.

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RE: Tasks/Challenger for a new sub - 1/25/2007 6:34:04 PM   
Learner1982


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< Message edited by Learner1982 -- 1/25/2007 7:32:25 PM >

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RE: Tasks/Challenger for a new sub - 1/25/2007 6:36:31 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		I'm too practical for this unless I'm in the mood to do a sadistic scene.  I don't have the time to think of pointless tasks that require me to monitor their behavior or which builds up some expectation of reward.  I have things that need to get done in my life- I tell them or train them how to do them so I don't have to.

The challenges you need to work on will be things like "What happens when she gets sick and can't serve?" "What happens when you lose your job?"  "What happens when I become a puddle full of insecurity?"

Life will bring you more than enough challenges to deal with together- and those will show whether your relationship will last.

Enjoy your fun games if you like, they are a valid kink as any.  But I'm too practical for them.

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RE: Tasks/Challenger for a new sub - 1/25/2007 6:53:41 PM   
MaryT


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I'm too practical for this unless I'm in the mood to do a sadistic scene.  I don't have the time to think of pointless tasks that require me to monitor their behavior or which builds up some expectation of reward.  I have things that need to get done in my life- I tell them or train them how to do them so I don't have to.


That would feel more fulfilling to me.  I love getting things done.  If he ain't looking, pulling "a Brittany" would feel pretty pointless.  

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