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Hello all - 1/25/2007 10:52:23 PM

redwall2001962

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Hello! all I'm new here and new to this type of life style. I like to go camping, hiking and biking as much as time and the weather allow. I try to get outside as much as possible and keep fit. I work out almost every day with a bowflex and other equiment at home. Not into muscle building just staying in shape. In other words I'm some what of a health nut. I do smoke though but I stoped drinking over a year ago. Although I still go to the bars and hang out with my friends that drink. I'm not to much into tv but I do like to read and write also play borad games and card games too. This looks like a good place to find out more about the world and myself. I worked on a fishing boat in Alaska for elven years and I'm thinking of going back if I don't find someone. When I'm on the boat I'm gone for two to three months at a time and when I'm off I'm off for the same amount of time. So it makes it hard for a long term relationship. Thats why I don't work on it anymore. I'm looking for some place other then where I'm living to move to. I lived out west most of the time I was off the boat or in Alaska. Right now I live in the midwest with just farmers. With out the daughters.

I think their all on the coast or somewhere but they sure are not here.LOL. So I hope to meet someone special . Thanks!
P.S. If this is a Personal I don't know what you want then. Sorry if someone thinks it is but I think it's about me and not what I'm looking for just what I'm thinking of. Which in fact is part of me.
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RE: Hello all - 1/26/2007 6:17:45 AM

thetammyjo

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Welcome to Collarme.com.

Have you tried to find munches or clubs or organizations in your area? Even though you are in the Midwest there are quite a few around most states. That is the best way to find potential partners plus you make friends and learn a lot about yourself and BDSM or leather along the way.

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RE: Hello all - 1/26/2007 8:59:16 AM

redwall2001962

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Hello No this is really the first place I've tried. I have learned a little and I do know that I'm really intrested in froming a relationship with a Mistress. A long term one hopefully that we would be able to live as a couple that would look as if we were a loveing and attentive couple to each other wants and needs which we would be but also so much more that most people that do not understand this bond we would have to each other would not or could not comprehend. I sure don't want to find a Mistress that would be a mean , vindictive or an egoist one. In other words I don't want to find simpley put and excuse may language but a bitch. I was with a women once and almost married her. All she was as I came to learn was a taker and thought that anyone and everyone was to be used and discared as she seemed fit with not a thought for anyones feelings but hers. I think the worst part though was she was also a lair and not very good at it either. she either thought I was a fool or not to bright. Which may be the case but I like to think of myself as little to trusting and hope for the good in most people. See this turned into an ad.LOL. One thing I can add here is that I would like total honesty right from the start from both of us.

Thanks for the advice though and God speed.

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RE: Hello all - 1/27/2007 6:58:01 AM

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Here is one place you can check out to find something local: www dot darkheart dot com/usalist dot html replaced the . with dot cause sometimes web urls aren't accepted. Good luck in your search

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RE: Hello all - 1/27/2007 7:26:04 AM

MissTreatinyou

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I live about 2 hours away from you and come up your way from time to time. Actually, I see more ranchers on my way up there than farmers. You're right though, no daughters, just a lot of cattle. Hey at least the cattle are wearing leather.

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RE: Hello all - 1/27/2007 7:32:23 AM

MissTreatinyou

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Oops sorry about that. I didn't mean to post in answer to LadyAlexa and have her think I was headed her way periodicially. Maybe I should post more often if for no other reason just for the practice.

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RE: Hello all - 1/27/2007 4:11:55 PM

redwall2001962

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Thanks all of You for the help I do see this is going to be a long road. If nothing else I've all ready learned a lot here and other places about this life style. When I first started looking on another site and would see someone that had a master I'd just move on thinking what a strange women even though I knew I would love to find a Women that I could have a relationship with as my Mistress but not even addmiting it to myself. So if nothing else at least it has opened my eyes to a new world with a better understading. Thanks again all of You Mistresses

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