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Strapon play...and.... - 1/26/2007 2:11:52 PM   
solvr70


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i've had a good bit of experience being on the receiving end of a strapon. not nearly what i crave, but a good bit. the challenge seems to be finding a Woman who really loves that, can enjoy, even cum from taking a sub-m that way....not exactly an easy thing to bring up on a date...lol...

then i have had some thoughts...not acted on ever...of a Domme having me take cock for Her as well. that seems to be really "out-there" from what i can tell, with very little Woman being interested in that kind of  play.

am i looking in the wrong places, or are both of the above really reare interests?
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RE: Strapon play...and.... - 1/26/2007 2:45:20 PM   
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tip your Mistress wanks you off at the same rate she pounds your arse, when you cum she stops pounding.

up side, well your learn control, down side you may fake but does she stop, hope you doing the the john wayne walk out of your lesson.

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RE: Strapon play...and.... - 1/26/2007 3:53:15 PM   
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As for the woman coming during strap-on play, they make harnesses with a place to attach a dildo for her pleasure as well.  That might help, though I suppose some get so into the mental aspect that they could come from that alone.  As for you with another man, some dominants enjoy forced bisexuality, but if you want it that isn't forced.  Others would enjoy watching you with another man, merely for the fun of it.  However, many Mistresses do not engage in sexual contact with their submissives at all.  That may be the trouble finding those that enjoy strap on play or watching you with another man.  Just some thoughts.

I personally have no male submissive, but if I did, I would enjoy watching him with another man. 

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RE: Strapon play...and.... - 1/26/2007 4:12:09 PM   
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I've come from using a strap-on didn't have to be a dildo one either, the thigh harness worked best for me frankly. I get off on the activity and the submission and the pleasure of my partner.

Sadly Fox was injured many years ago when he survived a rape and so he's damaged in that part of his body. Our attempts to do anal only prove to be neutral at best and do a minor amount of damage most of the time.

It is the one thing I can say that I do miss with him or any slave.

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RE: Strapon play...and.... - 1/26/2007 4:48:33 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: solvr70

i've had a good bit of experience being on the receiving end of a strapon. not nearly what i crave, but a good bit. the challenge seems to be finding a Woman who really loves that, can enjoy, even cum from taking a sub-m that way....not exactly an easy thing to bring up on a date...lol...

then i have had some thoughts...not acted on ever...of a Domme having me take cock for Her as well. that seems to be really "out-there" from what i can tell, with very little Woman being interested in that kind of  play.

am i looking in the wrong places, or are both of the above really reare interests?




I really get off when taking a guy with a strapon. Infact, I think I'm gonna take
one of my subs a little later this evening.

Diane

PS; You should be looking in some of the yahoo strapon groups.

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RE: Strapon play...and.... - 1/30/2007 1:25:20 PM   
solvr70


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thank You m'Ladies and m'Lady Diane....an Expert i see? *ws*

i know technically if  it is of interest to a sub it is not forced, but for one with no attraction to males, but the idea of  going to that length to prove what a good bitch one is for a Domme, is why i'm still thinking it would be appropriate to call it forced-bi...not easy to find a Woman with those shared interests

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RE: Strapon play...and.... - 1/30/2007 1:35:41 PM   
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I get off from using a strap on, but I think that has to do more with my gender identity than anything. I'm more male than female. 

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RE: Strapon play...and.... - 1/30/2007 2:04:48 PM   
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the visual, the sensations, and the verbal abuse that is often thrown in do indescribable things to me. better still if i have cum from it, but She is not ready to stop, so keeps right on going *ws*

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RE: Strapon play...and.... - 2/4/2007 1:35:17 PM   
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when a woman feels safe ;secure; undisturbed ;happy;she will be able to cum and be intimate ;what you desire to ask on 'a first date' cant be two things: 1. no it can't be done skipping all the foreplay necessary, and,
2. can't be ,as unusual, as asking can you stand on my head and cum as you are on the first date? .( or second date?!....third ? ?  ; or maybe even  last date even ? ? ? )
quote:

ORIGINAL: solvr70

i've had a good bit of experience being on the receiving end of a strapon. not nearly what i crave, but a good bit. the challenge seems to be finding a Woman who really loves that, can enjoy, even cum from taking a sub-m that way....not exactly an easy thing to bring up on a date...lol...

then i have had some thoughts...not acted on ever...of a Domme having me take cock for Her as well. that seems to be really "out-there" from what i can tell, with very little Woman being interested in that kind of  play.

am i looking in the wrong places, or are both of the above really reare interests?



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RE: Strapon play...and.... - 2/4/2007 3:58:41 PM   
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Diane,

I wish I can be your sub ;). You look really great in your picture.
I love it when a Mistress pounds me with her strap-on :)

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RE: Strapon play...and.... - 2/4/2007 4:05:36 PM   
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I hate to be a budinsky but I happen to love using a strap on on a sub, particularly those delightful ones with the double heads,,,,then we both get pounded ;)  I also enjoy making my sub take another man, there's something so incredibly erotic and satisfying knowing that this otherwise 'manly man' would submit to me so completely that he would bend over for another man in spite of his natural homophobic feelings.....the rush, the power, the absolute satisfaction....sigh.  ;)

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RE: Strapon play...and.... - 2/4/2007 4:15:24 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Nick19WV

Diane,

I wish I can be your sub ;). You look really great in your picture.
I love it when a Mistress pounds me with her strap-on :)


Thanks Nick...I hope she pounds the crap out of you too.


Diane

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RE: Strapon play...and.... - 2/4/2007 5:03:38 PM   
Nick19WV


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Thanks Diane!

I wish it's you :)

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RE: Strapon play...and.... - 2/4/2007 5:24:32 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Nick19WV

Thanks Diane!

I wish it's you :)


Why does everyone wish I was using my strapon on them? I have 3 pages
of messages on the otherside I received today, all asking me to take them
wish a strapon.
Am I the only female that does this?

Diane

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RE: Strapon play...and.... - 2/4/2007 6:08:23 PM   
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No maam your not the only Mistress who does that. I'm pretty sure there's other Mistresses out there who does Strap on. I am sorry for saying that to you. :\

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RE: Strapon play...and.... - 2/4/2007 6:11:16 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Nick19WV

No maam your not the only Mistress who does that. I'm pretty sure there's other Mistresses out there who does Strap on. I am sorry for saying that to you. :\



No, no it's not you or what you said. It's the idiots on the otherside that can't read.


Diane

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RE: Strapon play...and.... - 2/5/2007 6:03:26 AM   
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your every sub guys dream

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RE: Strapon play...and.... - 2/5/2007 5:25:59 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ashamedhuby

your every sub guys dream




WOW!  

Thanks

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RE: Strapon play...and.... - 2/7/2007 11:37:58 AM   
solvr70


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyTY2Uall

I hate to be a budinsky but I happen to love using a strap on on a sub, particularly those delightful ones with the double heads,,,,then we both get pounded ;)  I also enjoy making my sub take another man, there's something so incredibly erotic and satisfying knowing that this otherwise 'manly man' would submit to me so completely that he would bend over for another man in spite of his natural homophobic feelings.....the rush, the power, the absolute satisfaction....sigh.  ;)


That explains the rush and excitement of it much better then i have ever been able to! if the Woman was not immensely aroused by it, exited by it, there to orchistrate (spelling) it, it would loose all it's excitement. on those rare occasions when i've run into a Fem online with those types of overlapping interests, there always seems to be a huge distance between U/us, that makes it difficult to even talk in more details about this "out-there" (so it seems) interest

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RE: Strapon play...and.... - 2/7/2007 11:49:07 AM   
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since there i am not female and i have no exceptable place for such a device, this play would not be acceptible for me. (and this time i believe i put the right word in there...for those who have pointed out my errors in the past)

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