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seekstofasn8adom -> Are you attracted to someones inner or outer beauty? (1/27/2007 3:48:23 AM)

As i seek a ladies inner beauty this is what attracts me to a lady,i may ideally be attracted by a ladies outer beauty initally.But for me to say.Stay talking to this lady her personality and her inner beauty will have to shine through if not i will be off.As sometimes you could be talking to a beautiful lady who has no inner beauty whatsoever,or no personality come to that either.

And it is these qualities i seek when chatting to a lady.As after chatting to a lady i want to feel that i have extracted a piece of her inner beauty,to keep until the next time we meet i hope as we all need inspiration,and to feel happy.When chatting to the opposite sex as it's not all just about someones outer beauty that attracts me to this person whoever it may be.As they say beauty is only skin deep afterall and they are so very true.In my opinion but what does everyone else think about this please?



starshineowned -> RE: Are you attracted to someones inner or outer beauty? (1/27/2007 4:14:34 AM)

Greetings..~smiles~

While I agree it is often the physical that attracts well before anything inner..that use to be more true of a saying before the pc explosion. Now it is more frequent that a personality and inner beauty get to shine well before a physical beauty is known, and for those that are level headed and don't rush into something..when the meeting time comes it probably stands a good chance of working, and the physical aspect becomes beautiful anyways. Had the physical came first it might not of warrented the same results.

Everyone has all of these aspects about them. It may just be that beyond physical the personality or inner beauty (which I don't see as being much different) is not appealing to someone but will be found appealing to someone else or many others for that matter. The general rule that there is someone out there for everyone usually is correct.

Well Wishes
starshine
Happy slave of Master Delvin



arabiandancer -> RE: Are you attracted to someones inner or outer beauty? (1/27/2007 4:28:43 AM)

inner beauty always shine



sub4hire -> RE: Are you attracted to someones inner or outer beauty? (1/27/2007 6:27:49 AM)

Inner because outer changes from minute to minute. 



meatcleaver -> RE: Are you attracted to someones inner or outer beauty? (1/27/2007 6:48:45 AM)

I'm attracted to tits, arses, a nice smile and sex hungry eyes. Inner beauty is a bonus but unnecessary for a good night on the flesh.

I'm sorry, I'm just shallow.



spankmepink11 -> RE: Are you attracted to someones inner or outer beauty? (1/27/2007 7:01:36 AM)

I think very few people who say they are attracted to inner beauty are being honest.



NeedToUseYou -> RE: Are you attracted to someones inner or outer beauty? (1/27/2007 7:02:21 AM)

In all honesty I think a minimum level of both are necessary. Looks will undoubtedly make one look past some personality flaws in the beginning, but a totally hot by valueless bitch of a woman, would not work no matter what. And the sweetest most perfect inner soul, wrapped in a shell that would make one run for cover, would not work either. I don't believe it's an entirely 100 percent inner or outer beauty thing for anybody. Maybe the blind, I guess. 



Lorgrom -> RE: Are you attracted to someones inner or outer beauty? (1/27/2007 7:06:49 AM)

roughtly 60% inner and 40% outer

But of course what I consider good looking on the outside. Most of my friends do not.



LaTigresse -> RE: Are you attracted to someones inner or outer beauty? (1/27/2007 7:25:51 AM)

For me it is a unique combination of both. To say either one doesn't matter would be a lie.

The fabulous thing is that each and every one of us have a slightly different idea of what our ideal is, especially when confronted with her.



popeye1250 -> RE: Are you attracted to someones inner or outer beauty? (1/27/2007 7:39:01 AM)

Outer first then inner.



cuddleheart50 -> RE: Are you attracted to someones inner or outer beauty? (1/27/2007 7:45:26 AM)

I have always said....Attraction gets me there, personality(inner beauty) keeps me there.



gandalf0297 -> RE: Are you attracted to someones inner or outer beauty? (1/27/2007 7:57:47 AM)

tits.Ass. And a nefearous mind............



bandit25 -> RE: Are you attracted to someones inner or outer beauty? (1/27/2007 8:02:28 AM)

Works for me



juliaoceania -> RE: Are you attracted to someones inner or outer beauty? (1/27/2007 8:28:52 AM)

I have met so many people that were very attractive on the outside, sit down to talk to them, and discover they were

1)narcissistic
2)As dumb as a box of rocks
3)interested in things like hunting, football, or or cars to the exclusion of everything else

All of these things would ruin any sort of attractiveness they possessed in my eyes.

On the other hand, I have on more than one occasion met someone that did not knock my socks off to start with, but their personality was such that I became intensely attracted.

But my Daddy is attractive to me both inside and out..what a lucky gal I am.



SlaveAkasha -> RE: Are you attracted to someones inner or outer beauty? (1/27/2007 9:30:19 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: cuddleheart50

I have always said....Attraction gets me there, personality(inner beauty) keeps me there.


This is pretty much how I would have said it if I had beaten you here.
 
I am attracted to the outer..when I meet someone in person.  That doesn't mean they have to be a model, but there is usually something there that gets me.  I remember driving thru a parking lot one day and this guy just stopped me in my tracks.  He was good looking, but something about his eyes just grabbed me.  They were a beautiful, deep chocolate brown..you could get lost for years in.

If someone can't keep me interested by conversation and personality though...it might be a shallow thing that would be fun for a fuck or two..but it wouldn't last into something that would be around years from now.
 
Kasha



ownedgirlie -> RE: Are you attracted to someones inner or outer beauty? (1/27/2007 12:08:22 PM)

I was deeply attracted to my Master before I ever saw what he looked like.  When I saw his picture for the first time, "Devilishly handsome" came to mind.  Icing on the cake.  [:)]



bandit25 -> RE: Are you attracted to someones inner or outer beauty? (1/27/2007 12:10:54 PM)

I'm the same.  For me there has to be some sort of physical attraction or I prolly won't bother to get to know the other person.  Yes, I am shallow that way.  but that's not to say he has to be a model.  In fact, I stopped dating a guy cuz he was prettier than me.  How's THAT for shallow?  Definitely, tho, after the initial attraction, there has to be some inner beauty or something to keep me interested.



NorthernGent -> RE: Are you attracted to someones inner or outer beauty? (1/27/2007 1:48:45 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: seekstofasn8adom

As after chatting to a lady i want to feel that i have extracted a piece of her inner beauty



Jack the Ripper said that and look where it got him..........running around with intestines over his shoulders and a uterus in his pocket.

It depends what you mean by inner beauty. It sounds vague to me. I was about to say someone you can really connect with but that sounds vague too. What about a woman who is articulate, has buckets of self-respect, is caring, is intelligent, is well presented, thrives on service - particularly cooking and sexual service, shows respect to all others, can empathise with others, strives for self-improvement, is compassionate, is slightly unbalanced and in need of a guiding hand (slightly is the key here), is open to ideas. In other words someone you would be proud to own or in your case someone who you can look up to and be proud to serve.

I wouldn't dismiss the importance of physical attraction but if you're looking for more than immediate sexual gratification then it's not the be all and end all by any stretch of the imagination.




SirKenin -> RE: Are you attracted to someones inner or outer beauty? (1/27/2007 3:09:03 PM)

I am attracted first by appearance usually, but not always.  On several occasions I never saw the person but became attracted to who I was talking to.  In all cases though it was the inner beauty that made me stick around.  However, looks will always count for something.  You still have to be physically attracted to someone to want to be with them.



KenDckey -> RE: Are you attracted to someones inner or outer beauty? (1/27/2007 3:30:51 PM)

I am most often attracted to outter beauty first but won't settle for anything less than inner beauty.

The funny thing about outter beauty is that it changes from woman to woman.   I prefer small boobs but know some that look terrible with them.    I prefer long hair but some of the prettiest women I have ever seen are bald or have short hair.   I don't like the pretty ones tha tknow they are pretty and think they are better than everyone else.



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