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littlesarbonn -> RE: Serving him too? (4/14/2007 12:00:21 AM)
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I've been in this exact situation before. It usually doesn't work out well, especially if you're already dealing with a husband that has different expectations of what your Mistress is telling you. He's most likely not going to be comfortable serving with you, and that kind of hints at something I see a lot, and that's the concept of jealousy. I can't tell you how many times I've seen that show up out of nowhere in these unclear situations.
My advice: Clarify this in the open in an atmosphere where NO ONE is submissive, but everyone is able to talk. My first time I addressed this type of case, I was naked, on my knees, and both my Mistress and her husband were clothed and sitting in chairs. Equality in this conversation really wasn't meant to be. It didn't turn out well. The ramifications never really did end either. It took some time to realize that while She was saying that I was never going to be serving him, it wasn't what he was believing all along, even as she was saying it in front of both of us.
It is because of the few times I've been through this that I am practically at the point where I don't want to be involved with a woman who has a husband unless the circumstances are crystal clear about the future, and even then, I may not be all that comfortable, at least not comfortable enough to move forward.
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