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What is it you love about Dommes? - 1/27/2007 12:46:52 PM

asubman92808

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Hi,
This is my first post here and I would like to ask other subs about what it is about a Domminant woman that they love?

thanks,

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RE: What is it you love about Dommes? - 1/27/2007 1:32:32 PM

goodpet

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It would be more interesting to find out what YOU like/love about Dominant women.

What is YOUR attraction to them?

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RE: What is it you love about Dommes? - 1/27/2007 1:35:56 PM

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Many of us like dominant men, does that count?

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RE: What is it you love about Dommes? - 1/27/2007 2:19:53 PM

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yes i would like to knwo that as well.
thnx,

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RE: What is it you love about Dommes? - 1/27/2007 2:27:42 PM

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What do I love about at least one Dominant Man (my Daddy).

I love that he has taught me so much in so little time, like how to be vulnerable, to communicate in a more real way, to not keep walls around me.

I love that he is himself with me.

I love that he treats me with a world of respect and he genuinely cares about how I am, because I belong to him.

I love that he is in control over himself, and I never have to fear he will not be. He will never hurt me in anger, or strike out at me.

These are just a few things that I love about him.... and these are the traits that I think of as "Dominant" that he possesses

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RE: What is it you love about Dommes? - 1/28/2007 7:47:54 AM

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It's not so much anything a Domme does, it's simply that Domme's are more willing to accept the devotion i offer to my partners.

That's it. No, seriously. Kinks are nice but i couldn't care less about it really. What? Okay i can care less about grapefruit.

No not everyone is driven by sex or wants to be controlled, though that -is- nice.

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RE: What is it you love about Dommes? - 1/28/2007 8:31:31 AM

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they arent meek and prissey. they call it like it is and if you dont like it, bounce on. im not into meek women I like them strong!

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RE: What is it you love about Dommes? - 1/28/2007 9:32:09 PM

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i am happily collared to a Domme (kcgirl692 on collarme), but until recently my preference on my profile was listed as straight (it has since been changed to bi *grins*). One big difference that i have noticed between serving a man and serving a woman is that a woman is more apt to cuddle. Sometimes the thing i need the most is just to be able to curl up next to Her with my head on Her lap and just be. And it's nice to know that i can do that without the pressure of an immenent sexual service. Not that i mind or would say no (as a slave i don't have that option or that mindset) but sometimes i'm simply not in a good mood for whatever reason, usually stress at work, and just need a little down time to cuddle with my Dominant.

~~Lady K's collared slave,
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RE: What is it you love about Dommes? - 1/29/2007 5:25:16 AM

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One big difference that i have noticed between serving a man and serving a woman is that a woman is more apt to cuddle....just need a little down time to cuddle with my Dominant.

~~Lady K's collared slave,
shelly

Dittos ^_^

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RE: What is it you love about Dommes? - 1/29/2007 8:17:10 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: asubman92808

Hi,
This is my first post here and I would like to ask other subs about what it is about a Domminant woman that they love?

thanks,

Well, one can't help liking the way that deep down inside they are all gushy little (heterosexual) subbies just waiting for the right man to come along and release (and then of course immediately enslave) their twue inner nature.

Right, Ladies?

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RE: What is it you love about Dommes? - 1/29/2007 8:33:43 AM

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I like the way their farts smell and their feet stink, and the entire human support system they have for their genitalia.

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RE: What is it you love about Dommes? - 1/29/2007 8:50:39 AM

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I don't know about Dommes liking to cuddle more. Sometimes my Master and i just cuddle with no sexual service required. Other time he wants the sexual service. Of course he could be the exception to the rule.

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RE: What is it you love about Dommes? - 1/29/2007 9:06:55 AM

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ORIGINAL: asubman92808

Hi,
This is my first post here and I would like to ask other subs about what it is about a Domminant woman that they love?

thanks,

nothing.

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RE: What is it you love about Dommes? - 1/29/2007 9:13:38 AM

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oh gawd..I have no idea, I want to submit to someone so I don't really fit into the vanilla so I can't really choose anything else can I lol? but seriously I have no idea

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RE: What is it you love about Dommes? - 1/29/2007 10:07:24 AM

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I don't particularly love anything about dommes. I find it very difficult to relate to females as authority figures. Maybe it's exactly that fact that makes me curious as to what it would be like to submit to a female.
I did have an experience submitting to a married couple. It felt very natural to be submissive to the male, but he and I had spent hours and hours of time talking on the phone and had visits in person, in which the wife didnt participate except to say hello to me. I scened alittle bit with them, but found that submitting to the wife felt like fingernails across a chalkboard for me. I couldnt stand having to obey her, but she was part and parcel to the situation. I think I mostly felt that way because we had not established any personal connection. She wasn't emotionally available to me. But it was something that I just needed to try.
I think with a really cool woman with whom I could develope an admiration or respect for, submitting to a domme would be possible, maybe enjoyable, but I'd want it to be orchestrated by a man and done to his dictates. I'd not want to be alone with the female. <Fucking freak that I am.>

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RE: What is it you love about Dommes? - 1/30/2007 6:57:17 PM

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Really depends on the individual Dommes.

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RE: What is it you love about Dommes? - 1/31/2007 7:45:05 PM

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Well I just think Dominant women are special.

They are all different, but dang it I think they are the cats meow.

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RE: What is it you love about Dommes? - 1/31/2007 7:54:23 PM

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The thing that has struck me about the Dommes that I have talked with is a simple presense. When I talk to any of them, I feel so meek yet cared for.

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RE: What is it you love about Dommes? - 2/1/2007 8:03:53 AM

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I like that unlike a lot of men, who think it is their gods given right to control, some women just have that aura about them. Very confident, but doesn't need to flaunt it, very strong-willed, but still capable of showing emotions. I like that Mistress can be open with me, share Her emotions with me as opposed to some men who think it isn't right to show it.

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