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Need help Mistress Disappointed. - 1/27/2007 2:33:09 PM

sjdavislock

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Ok I have to admit, Im rather new to all this. Some backround. My gf/mistress and I started chastity just for a fun game. Long story short, its now become an ongoing thing. She loves it and I love being under her control. We got the exobelt about 3 months ago. Love the belt as does she. Its very comfortable. She loves that I cant touch myself at all. Problem is I was supposed to get out at Christmas time. I was complaining about funds and presents and she got upset. Needless to say I really disappointed her and Im still locked. No i cant escape either, boy have I tried. Im very desperate and need advise on what I can do to please her. I havent been begging or whining to get out, but flowers wont do the trick either. Please help. Thank You.

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RE: Need help Mistress Disappointed. - 1/27/2007 3:07:56 PM

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She kept you locked in the belt for a month longer then agreed upon because you fussed about presents and money? Seems odd but we don't ever get both sides of the story. Did you agree to let her use chasity as a punishment?

The fact that you've tried to escape bothers me to an extent. If you have, then you are really desperate to get out. If I were you, I would go to her and tell her that I understand she is upset with me, but this is something we need to talk about. For me, keeping me in something that limits my ability to access my own body longer then I agreed to without a good reason and a solid "this is when it will end" date violates the trust I've placed in my dominant. However, if you decided to tell her that she could let you out whenever she felt like it... well then you may be up the creek without a paddle.

If you are truely desperate to get out: You can always go to a hospital, if you have the strength of will. Trust me, they've probably seen odder. Or buy a duplicate key. I'm sure the maker of the toy has them. It will save face but probably take longer. Even way you will be in hotter water when she finds out.

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RE: Need help Mistress Disappointed. - 1/27/2007 3:31:06 PM

Bryan1

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Good luck, man.

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RE: Need help Mistress Disappointed. - 1/27/2007 3:33:52 PM

MissyRane

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just use whatever type of clippers you use to break padlocks

but seriously..if she won't let you out and is being a bitch about it and it's gone beyond all sanity levels..then well damn just help yourself with whatever tools that are handy..that's what I'd do

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RE: Need help Mistress Disappointed. - 1/27/2007 3:38:35 PM

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Perhaps it's not flowers she is looking for but obedience? Really, it's chastity. If she is your Mistress and you have displeased her she is punishing you by taking away something you obviously enjoy. Focus on her and not trying to escape. I know if it were me and I found out you did escape, that would be even more of an issue.

I would suggest a heartfelt apology and ask her what you can do to make it up to her and how long she intends to punish you in this manner. Is it a punishment? Have you asked? Maybe she is just trying to test you. How deep is your relationship? Are you her slave? Have you negotiated something different aside from allowing her control over your sexuality?

A lot of unanswered questions before I could really have an opinion one way or the other.

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RE: Need help Mistress Disappointed. - 1/27/2007 5:12:16 PM

LadyOunce

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If speaking to her on a comfort level isn't working, and you haven't found a way, then definitely trying to escape it isn't going to win you your freedom.

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