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submissive slave Mistress Master What? - 1/29/2007 12:13:55 AM   
redwall2001962


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Status: offline 		Hello! One and all Thanks for looking.

So if I were to become involved with a Mistress as a subumissive and later moved into the next stage as a slave  and my Mistress took on a Master who She would be a slave to, would I then in fact be a slave to a Master also?

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RE: submissive slave Mistress Master What? - 1/29/2007 12:19:46 AM   
MadameDahlia


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Status: offline 		Only if you agreed to be so.

EX: If you become involved with a woman who has a brother you don't become his brother by default.

If your Mistress were to become involved with a Dom and you were interested in doing so as well I'd suggest you express the interest respectfully to her and allow for your Mistress to make the decision. If you found yourself in such a situation and had no desire to submit to him (for whatever reason) you should again address those concerns to your Mistress.

There is no one way in a D/s relationship. It's up to the characters involved to write the script.

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RE: submissive slave Mistress Master What? - 1/29/2007 5:50:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		I agree.  It does not have to be that way.  However, if this is the course that is coming, I would discuss scenarios and possibilities now.  Make sure everyone is up front about needs and wants and what is and is not acceptable.

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RE: submissive slave Mistress Master What? - 1/29/2007 6:46:38 AM   
HarryVanWinkle


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Status: offline 		Since this is your fantasy, only you can answer the question.

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RE: submissive slave Mistress Master What? - 1/29/2007 6:54:04 AM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		Depends on the relationship dynamics you and your Mistress have set up. If you know that this is a possibility right up front, let her know that you do or don't agree to submit to a Male Master.

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RE: submissive slave Mistress Master What? - 1/29/2007 4:37:49 PM   
BlindUnknown


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Status: offline 		Now what would be -really- interesting is if you in turn were to take said second degree Dom and make them a slave, then it would be a nice pretty triangle ^_^ 

-There's- some theoretical dynamics to consider...

For serious answer, my quote is enough =P

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RE: submissive slave Mistress Master What? - 1/29/2007 4:55:09 PM   
redwall2001962


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Status: offline 		Thanks all I guess I should of said in a life term relationship.
Fantsay has nothing to do with this question if that were the case I'd just go pay a Domm and be done with it.
I wouldnt be on this site thats for sure.LOL
With my picture up.

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RE: submissive slave Mistress Master What? - 1/29/2007 5:21:22 PM   
LadyOunce


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Status: offline 		That is for you all to work out. When I was still actively a switch, my Master was kept seperate from my slave and never the twain shall meet. In fact, they rather didn't like one another though they both respect my desires and affection for each.

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RE: submissive slave Mistress Master What? - 1/29/2007 5:32:45 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		Whom your Mistress decided to be with outside of you doesnt affect your position unless you and she make some arrangements that it does.  HEr Dominant would own her, not necessarily by default own what she owns.  You would no more automatically be his than her car would be.  Since you have a say in things, as do she and he, you would all need to figure out what wil work and arrange it that way.

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RE: submissive slave Mistress Master What? - 1/29/2007 5:33:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		you would become his slave if she told you to and if you declined you may lose her.

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RE: submissive slave Mistress Master What? - 2/3/2007 12:46:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: redwall2001962

Hello! One and all Thanks for looking.

So if I were to become involved with a Mistress as a subumissive and later moved into the next stage as a slave  and my Mistress took on a Master who She would be a slave to, would I then in fact be a slave to a Master also?

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