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Lactation as Domination - 3/4/2005 4:43:17 PM   
Sirensong


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Status: offline 		Most of the lactation play I have managed to read anything about is usually the Dom geting the submissive to lactate via various methods for whatever reason.
I however dont see lactation as a submissive thing at all..more a Toppy Domme headspace during play.
It feels like such a powerful thing to me
There is also the adult baby type breast play which isnt really my thing.

I am Still lactating at the moment..and there is a LOT of it.
I had an idea involving breath play of a sort.

I sit straddled the submissive..arse on his chest, knees pinning his arms down with my body weight.
Then smothering him with breasts ,nipple in the mouth..so far fairly normal..
However making him to suck slightly thus bringing in my milk supply and kicking in the "let down"reflex .
Once the let down reflex has started the milk flow to the nipples, pinch off the air supply to the nose with a swimming clasp or my fingers and forcing said subby to swallow..keeping eye contact at all times..
Lifting up only to let a small gasp of air in and then pressing down tightly again..so it becomes impossible NOT to swallow...the air could not get in..and unless they swallow rapidly they are going to cough and choke.

Now there is only about 9 ounces of milk or so in there at a time and the flow stops after the initial spurt..so the danger of drowning in breast milk is minimum at best but add this to the feeling you get if you drink to fast and CANT get a breath in I imagine this to be fairly effective as a mind fuck all round.

Does anyone else have any ideas on how to expand lactation into other forms of play?

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RE: Lactation as Domination - 3/4/2005 5:04:42 PM   
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Lifting up only to let a small gasp of air in and then pressing down tightly again..so it becomes impossible NOT to swallow...the air could not get in..and unless they swallow rapidly they are going to cough and choke.


I don't really have any suggestions for you on how to expand your play in the role of Domination. I know that when I was nursing, my ex Sir certainly loved to be fed.

Two concerns though. I would worry that in the method you describe above that the sub could aspirate breast milk into the lungs, which can cause infection and pneumonia. Also, it has been shown that HIV/AIDS can be transmitted via breast milk so I guess this is not a type of play that I would wish to engage in with someone I did not know very well.

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RE: Lactation as Domination - 3/4/2005 5:13:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		i've always thought that breastfeeding the sub could be something that would create an amazing bond between Domme and sub/slave...though this is a somewhat different take on it...i would imagine, gentle breastfeeding of the sub may in fact make him/her much more submissive to You as the sub would feel much closer to You as a result of Your feeding him this way...

That said, our fantasies and thoughts often take on a life of their own.


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RE: Lactation as Domination - 3/4/2005 5:14:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've honestly never heard of lactation play ever being used, kinda interesting, but you would want to limit it, concidering breast milk is supposed to be very fattening. So you might want to do some forced exercise after *chuckles*.

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RE: Lactation as Domination - 3/5/2005 6:18:00 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mistoferin

quote:

Lifting up only to let a small gasp of air in and then pressing down tightly again..so it becomes impossible NOT to swallow...the air could not get in..and unless they swallow rapidly they are going to cough and choke.


I don't really have any suggestions for you on how to expand your play in the role of Domination. I know that when I was nursing, my ex Sir certainly loved to be fed.

Two concerns though. I would worry that in the method you describe above that the sub could aspirate breast milk into the lungs, which can cause infection and pneumonia. Also, it has been shown that HIV/AIDS can be transmitted via breast milk so I guess this is not a type of play that I would wish to engage in with someone I did not know very well.


Since I dont have HIV and am already fluid bonded to the two boys I am in a LTPoly with I think I am safe on that score*G*..

I am always remarkably careful with this play and the milk just doesnt go THAT fast that they would aspirate ,If you pull back slightly at the initial "let down" THEN push forward its little more than a steady trickle..
plus the sub is ONLY held by My weight and not restrained any other way..This combined with a "safe word"of a ball in hand to be dropped reduces any tiny risk even more



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RE: Lactation as Domination - 3/5/2005 6:21:06 AM   
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Since I dont have HIV and am already fluid bonded to the two boys I am in a LTPoly with I think I am safe on that score*G*..


Sirensong.....I was merely putting that out there for folks who meet and play with people they don't know well as it is not often talked about that breast milk can be a conduit.....wasn't referencing you specifically, sorry for the confusion.

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RE: Lactation as Domination - 3/5/2005 11:32:05 AM   
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About 3AM (the time of weird ideas..) one night while I couldn't sleep, I had this thought of inducing lactation and doing a public scene with it. Neither my sub nor I are into adult baby play, so this would add humiliation to the rest of the emotions it would cause. I'd dress him in an adult diaper, Put him in a fenced off "playpen" area with some toys and children's books.. the works. He'd be required to spend the night there. If he misbehaved, he might get spanked with a hairbrush or other punishment fitting an adult baby. The end of the scene would be him being breastfed infront of everyone. -I am on enough medications that I'd not breastfeed anyone, but it made for an awesome 20 mins of thought.

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RE: Lactation as Domination - 3/18/2005 10:24:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've used it as a reward in the past. I don't lactate any longer :( But if I did, I would continue to use it as a reward. It definitely creates a bond between Domme and sub.

It's also an AMAZING aftercare 'tool'..

Besides that, I just loooved the feeling.



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RE: Lactation as Domination - 3/18/2005 10:47:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Carameldomme

I've used it as a reward in the past. I don't lactate any longer :( But if I did, I would continue to use it as a reward. It definitely creates a bond between Domme and sub.

It's also an AMAZING aftercare 'tool'..

Besides that, I just loooved the feeling.




I Breast fed.
This would be something I wouldn't mind experimenting with
in my next relationship with a Domina.
I do agree with Carmeldomme, it is a very bonding interaction.
I would love to do it with a Domina that has never had the
experience of lactation before. I think it would be a very nurturing
occurrence for both Domina and sub.

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RE: Lactation as Domination - 3/19/2005 5:34:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		I love this idea
Seems like it would provide a great bond between two

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RE: Lactation as Domination - 3/19/2005 8:34:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm still breastfeeding (yes, at 13 months, but he's finally weaning), but I am just not comfortable allowing Tofu (my boyfriend/occasioinal sub) to breastfeed. He wants to, but he understands that it's just really unnerving for me right now. It's a bond I share with my son and I guess it's just one of those things. I'm finally relearning to see my breasts as both functional and sexual, but I still don't let him suck on my nipples for too long during sex or foreplay. I get paranoid about my milk coming in and making a huge wet mess (one wet mess is enough, thank you). Once I'm done weaning, he can go back to worshipping them like he used to, but until then I guess he'll have to just put up with limited touching/contact with my breasts.

I, for one, will enjoy it when I can just relax and let him worship them again.

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RE: Lactation as Domination - 4/23/2005 1:45:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: diaperedbaby

I love this idea
Seems like it would provide a great bond between two


I agree it would be a great way to grow the bond between the Dom and the sub.

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RE: Lactation as Domination - 5/10/2005 5:36:30 PM   
kensubslvme


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Status: offline 		how about me, kathleen, i'll do anthing for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

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RE: Lactation as Domination - 5/10/2005 5:39:53 PM   
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RE: Lactation as Domination - 5/10/2005 5:41:44 PM   
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RE: Lactation as Domination - 5/10/2005 5:49:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressWoulf
I'm still breastfeeding (yes, at 13 months, but he's finally weaning), but I am just not comfortable allowing Tofu (my boyfriend/occasioinal sub) to breastfeed. He wants to, but he understands that it's just really unnerving for me right now.

Hate to admit this on public boards, but I had the exact opposite problem...
I couldn't bring self to breastfeed because I had always thought of my breasts as among my most beautiful sexual assetts and always used them as such... So could not get over the incestuous thought enough to breastfeed...

I felt slightly guilty, not horribly; I didn't buy the argument that I had to pass on my antibodies and immune system, felt my healthy and strong offspring could probably make a better immune system than I, since I've never felt especially strong/immune; pretty much stay healthy by not making too many deadly mistakes; well, that and my decision that we are all going to die anyway, so why be too afraid to live.. M

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