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RE: Life Priorities - 1/30/2007 4:00:23 PM

julietsierra

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ORIGINAL: losttreasure

I hate to tell you but the term "kobayashi maru" in the Star Trek universe equates to a no-win situation.

Well, in my mind, making me choose between one or the other of these choices is exactly a no-win situation. I don't and havent had permission to masturbate in going on three years now. When I orgasm it's because he's gotten me there. So, if he falls asleep, I'm not orgasming, and if all I want from him is an orgasm, then that'll be the last thing I get, and I'd definitely be the loser in that process.

So, while unlike someone else here, for me, the orgasms he allows and/or commands are wonderful and thrilling - even when they hurt so good, and he simply wouldn't bother if what he saw didn't include ecstasy on my part. That being said, I get to accept them fully - because he gives that to me - he allows me to experience it. But if I couldn't, well, I'd lose in that regard too.

Hence, a lose lose situation or to be precise - a no-win situation.
"kobayashi maru"

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RE: Life Priorities - 1/30/2007 6:59:03 PM

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ORIGINAL: julietsierra

So, while unlike someone else here, for me, the orgasms he allows and/or commands are wonderful and thrilling - even when they hurt so good, and he simply wouldn't bother if what he saw didn't include ecstasy on my part.

Hmm, since I'm the only one who mentioned anything about not liking them sometimes (and that's only on occasion), I think this was in reference to my post...in which I did not say they weren't wonderful and thrilling, nor that they did not include ecstasy. The intensity of them is so overwhelming it can become almost frightening, which is why I said there are times I don't like them. But there are times he wants to put things on me that I don't like, as that's the way of it. Just to clarify. Would hate for you to think I disliked orgasms, that would be funny actually, if you knew me, lol. I still see it as a win/win. He gets what he wants, either way.

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RE: Life Priorities - 2/1/2007 3:34:09 AM

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ORIGINAL: Devilslilsister

Erm, it seems like a dumb question and with a pretty easy answer. Whats your point? You arent a carefree, happy go lucky, making jokes type person - whats the point?

or i could be in a pissy mood because of ejits that cut off their noses despite their faces.

Prolly both, but still whats the point?

Well, it seems my attempt at jocularity has failed.
Good thing I didn’t quit my day job!

No point made, nothing to ponder....

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RE: Life Priorities - 2/1/2007 7:29:11 AM

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You see, to me, it seems there is something inherently self-centered involved in picking door #1 - as well as door #2 for that matter.

In my case, the orgasms aren't for me, and do not belong to me. Sometimes they are so intense I do not even enjoy them, but for the pleasure he derives from them. If it were up to me, I would not be having orgasms at the various places he enjoys putting them in me. In my case, self centered would be not having them.

So tempting to hijack this thread. I want to know how one can learn to orgasm on command. If I could, I might say I'd prefer number one. What's your secret ownedgirlie?

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RE: Life Priorities - 2/1/2007 7:40:30 AM

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ORIGINAL: julietsierra
You see, to me, it seems there is something inherently self-centered involved in picking door #1 - as well as door #2 for that matter.

In my case, the orgasms aren't for me, and do not belong to me. Sometimes they are so intense I do not even enjoy them, but for the pleasure he derives from them. If it were up to me, I would not be having orgasms at the various places he enjoys putting them in me. In my case, self centered would be not having them.

So tempting to hijack this thread. I want to know how one can learn to orgasm on command. If I could, I might say I'd prefer number one. What's your secret ownedgirlie?

In brief, an extreme energy-connection with him. It wasn't my secret, it was his training. It is doubtful I could ever do it for anyone else. No one else will ever get that deep into me. It is not a boastable feat...it is him putting his energy into me and me focusing on it. The body can do amazing things with focus, visualization, practice, and will. Think about people who practice self healing, using visualization and other mind-work. He doesn't question it because he believes in it. Hard to question when a girl gushes simply because she is told to...and when checked, it is not urine. I can't explain it, other than it happens. And yes, it all belongs to him.

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RE: Life Priorities - 2/1/2007 7:47:36 AM

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So tempting to hijack this thread. I want to know how one can learn to orgasm on command. If I could, I might say I'd prefer number one. What's your secret ownedgirlie?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_412753/mpage_1/key_cum%252Ccommand/tm.htm#412758
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http://www.collarchat.com/m_313958/mpage_4/key_orgasm%252Ccommand/tm.htm#318568
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http://www.collarchat.com/m_400934/mpage_1/key_cum%252Ccommand/tm.htm#400996
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RE: Life Priorities - 2/1/2007 1:16:37 PM

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I don't think it will happen with anyone else, either. It's been able to take place because of a unique set of circumstances, of which, his ability to *own* me, is the crucial factor. I've never thought that it was unsual or a special feat of any sort but I do know the amount of *work* that lies behind it.

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RE: Life Priorities - 2/1/2007 1:57:03 PM

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I'd rather have consistancy in my life. Sex is great, so is orgasm but knowing someone is going to keep their word is more important to me. LOL i can cum with pretty much anyone if need be.

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