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GoodKarma -> Dominant Brat 's (1/29/2007 5:08:58 PM)

hihihihhi fellow P/people of collarme

this is a hard subject to research. i have found a bazillion things to read about submissive brats and 0 things on Dominant Brats. i was hoping the P/people of collarme could offer some general insight into this subject for me and others like me who have falling for a Dominant Brat

thankY/you all for Y/your time.




MsKatHouston -> RE: Dominant Brat 's (1/29/2007 5:34:32 PM)

I know this was somewhat started in another thread but could you define brat?  Maybe your definition and mine differ.  Personally, I have no use for brats at all, dom or sub.  I do not mind, however, playfulness and some wit. 




MasterFireMaam -> RE: Dominant Brat 's (1/29/2007 6:09:14 PM)

thpppppppt!

Master Fire




BDSM05478 -> RE: Dominant Brat 's (1/29/2007 6:09:57 PM)

I think brattiness would have even less of a place in the traits of a Dom but I have no interest or respect for any brat in general.




sweetnurseBBW -> RE: Dominant Brat 's (1/29/2007 6:18:30 PM)

Brattiness isn't attrractive no matter if it comes from a dominant or submissive. I don't think either one is cute or funny. Playfullness, yes is a good trait.




MasterFireMaam -> RE: Dominant Brat 's (1/29/2007 6:22:45 PM)

I'm cute! You KNOW I'm cute! *dances*

Note: Bring a brat is different than totally misbehaving or being a SAM to me. Of course, the nice thing about being a Dominant little is that I'm always good and I never get spanked...'cause I say so!

*looks innocent* Luuuuve youuuuu!

Master Fire




Lorelei115 -> RE: Dominant Brat 's (1/29/2007 6:27:17 PM)

I've known Dominant brats... the "spoiled princess" archetype is the first one that comes to mind. I'm sure there are others. Even though I know that 99 percent of it is probably a facade and they are probably really nice people underneath... it still just... rubs me the wrong way. Could be something psychological.. maybe I dislike them so much because they remind me of negative traits in myself.

Anyway. Not the "Lorelei introspection thread." Dominant brats, yes they are out there. They just tend to go by other names I think.




GoodKarma -> RE: Dominant Brat 's (1/29/2007 7:01:45 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetnurseBBW

Brattiness isn't attrractive no matter if it comes from a dominant or submissive. I don't think either one is cute or funny. Playfullness, yes is a good trait.



She did tell me that Brats are playful or atleast She is a playful One




mp072004 -> RE: Dominant Brat 's (1/29/2007 7:01:51 PM)

I think we could get further if you told us how you're defining "brat." Is it about a juvenile quality? As MasterFireMaam wrote, there are dominants who take the "little" role in ageplay. Is it about playfulness? Lots of dominants and tops behave playfully.

Monica




juliaoceania -> RE: Dominant Brat 's (1/29/2007 7:05:36 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mp072004

I think we could get further if you told us how you're defining "brat." Is it about a juvenile quality? As MasterFireMaam wrote, there are dominants who take the "little" role in ageplay. Is it about playfulness? Lots of dominants and tops behave playfully.

Monica


Yes my Daddy is pretty playful, and I do not know if bratty is the right adjective to describe him, but he can be onery in a fun loving sort of way. He definitely teases me a lot, and not just sexually..smiles




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Dominant Brat 's (1/29/2007 7:10:43 PM)

Well my partner gets off on me being a Spoiled Princess on occasion- but that's not quite the same.  I don't think I could ever get into being a brat, even if my partner really liked it.

It took awhile for me to get comfy as a spoiled princess, but I can get into the groove very nicely now :)




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Dominant Brat 's (1/29/2007 7:12:43 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lorelei115
I've known Dominant brats... the "spoiled princess" archetype is the first one that comes to mind. I'm sure there are others. Even though I know that 99 percent of it is probably a facade and they are probably really nice people underneath... it still just... rubs me the wrong way. Could be something psychological.. maybe I dislike them so much because they remind me of negative traits in myself.

Anyway. Not the "Lorelei introspection thread." Dominant brats, yes they are out there. They just tend to go by other names I think.

Heehee Lorelei, I responded without reading your post!

To explain more, my partner likes the freedom from guilt by making it out in the OPEN that he's supposed to grovel and act like a dork to make he happy for my whims and have a reason for doing stuff for me.  He likes being used and humiliated in that way. 




Manawyddan -> RE: Dominant Brat 's (2/3/2007 7:37:44 AM)

I used to come out and say incredibly ridiculous statements and horrible puns, driving my ex-partner into such a frenzy that she's have no recourse but to attempt to tickle me, whereupon I would have to spank her, because I don't actually like being tickled.

I think that counts as dominant brattiness.




Devilslilsister -> RE: Dominant Brat 's (2/3/2007 8:14:31 AM)

i dont know think i can call my Master a brat, but he certiantly gets playful.  He says things he KNOWS gets me riled up and when i'm riled up, he sits there and cracks up laughing.  Or if i suddenly fly at him, he fends me off cracking up laughing. Or he'll let me playfully "pound" on him and sit there cracking up  (but oh so careful not to actually hurt him)   i dont know if thats being a brat....... but he enjoys it and i enjoy seeing him laugh.




Celeste43 -> RE: Dominant Brat 's (2/3/2007 10:15:04 AM)

I know a long term couple where they both identify as brats. They enjoy teasing each other, pulling pranks on each other etc. They enjoy each other a lot although I do wonder if they haven't learned to sleep with one eye open, lol.

Traditionally the sub is considered to be the one who would pull the pranks but if the dom has that kind of sense of humor, why shouldn't he be allowed to do so?




WhiteRadiance -> RE: Dominant Brat 's (2/3/2007 10:48:17 AM)

I define a brat as being a person who misbehaves. A temper tantrum is a classic example.  Dominants who lose their tempers or act out childishly are as bratty as the subbies. 




Lashra -> RE: Dominant Brat 's (2/3/2007 11:57:32 AM)

The "Little Prince Syndrome" gets me as well as the "Princess syndrome". I don't have time for either of them and their temper tantrums. I like some playfulness, but just throwing a temper tantrum anytime anything doesn't go their way? Nope, I will pass on that. I've seen this trait in Dominants and subs alike and it is gender neutral.

~Lashra




Siona -> RE: Dominant Brat 's (2/3/2007 12:21:54 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

I'm cute! You KNOW I'm cute! *dances*

Note: Bring a brat is different than totally misbehaving or being a SAM to me. Of course, the nice thing about being a Dominant little is that I'm always good and I never get spanked...'cause I say so!

*looks innocent* Luuuuve youuuuu!

Master Fire




LOL...too cute!




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