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How often do you give oral?


several times a day
  11% (6)
daily
  18% (10)
weekly
  16% (9)
monthly
  3% (2)
more than weekly but not daily
  22% (12)
more than monthly, but not weekly
  11% (6)
never
  15% (8)


Total Votes : 53
(last vote on : 2/20/2007 8:05:36 PM)
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How often do you give oral? - 5/14/2004 1:00:48 PM   
iwillserveu


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Status: offline 		Obviously different answers for subs and Dom/mes. I forgot "never". Hey, sue me.

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RE: How often do you give oral? - 5/14/2004 1:36:23 PM   
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Her naughty bits, its whats for dinner...

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RE: How often do you give oral? - 5/14/2004 4:27:51 PM   
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RE: How often do you give oral? - 5/14/2004 4:57:25 PM   
rain


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Status: offline 		hmm, maybe twice in the past 3 years. (i've only had vaginal sex once in 3 years also).

Sad but true...explains my horniness though

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RE: How often do you give oral? - 5/15/2004 3:22:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		I suppose I must be one of the few Doms that enjoy giving oral? In the past year or so, the majority of subs Ive been involved with have said they not only dont want to receive oral sex, but that it actually turns them off for a man to give it.

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RE: How often do you give oral? - 5/15/2004 3:48:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Voltare

I suppose I must be one of the few Doms that enjoy giving oral? In the past year or so, the majority of subs Ive been involved with have said they not only dont want to receive oral sex, but that it actually turns them off for a man to give it.

Stephan


Stephan ( and how aptly yclept you are for the point I have) - it may be that these lasses feel the same way O did in Story of O - that a man performing oral sex on them is somehow equating to the man serving them, which goes against their submissive natures, which is why it would be a turn off for them - they want to be the one serving, not the one being served.

just my tuppence

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RE: How often do you give oral? - 5/15/2004 5:05:45 PM   
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RE: How often do you give oral? - 5/15/2004 7:42:28 PM   
Estring


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Status: offline 		This is another reason I prefer slaves. If the Master enjoys giving it, there is nothing else to consider. He does it.
And I do enjoy giving oral very much.

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RE: How often do you give oral? - 5/16/2004 3:10:31 AM   
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RE: How often do you give oral? - 5/16/2004 3:47:33 AM   
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RE: How often do you give oral? - 5/16/2004 4:48:33 AM   
iwillserveu


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Status: offline 		oops, sorry, my bad. Frankly I was thinking of me and never is not an option for subs.

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RE: How often do you give oral? - 5/16/2004 8:07:17 AM   
January


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ORIGINAL: Thanatosian

<snip>a man performing oral sex on them is somehow equating to the man serving them, which goes against their submissive natures, which is why it would be a turn off for them - they want to be the one serving, not the one being served.


I love it! This thread is so fun! Switch accusations and all.

But I do have to admit I enjoy getting oral much more when I'm tied up.

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RE: How often do you give oral? - 5/16/2004 9:13:36 AM   
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I suppose I must be one of the few Doms that enjoy giving oral? In the past year or so, the majority of subs Ive been involved with have said they not only dont want to receive oral sex, but that it actually turns them off for a man to give it.


M. Stephan-

I found that to be the case once or twice- But as I love going down on a woman, they learned to deal with it. I think that (for ethier gender) giving Oral can be profoundly dominant- it a way I can _make_ her come, and for me, it gives a strong sense of control. I think it can be more profoundly intimate and ??? Invasive??? than coitus.

Of course, that's just me.

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RE: How often do you give oral? - 5/16/2004 9:23:13 AM   
rain


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i'm surprised that so many of you have met women who do NOT enjoy being on the receiving end of oral sex! It is one of the greatest pleasures IN LIFE, to me! Primarily b/c i can focus soley on my orgasm, and truly let go.

Plus, it's heavenly to kiss the man who gave me multiple orgasms and taste myself....
i am also more likely to want to go down on him and return the favor!

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RE: How often do you give oral? - 5/16/2004 9:40:10 AM   
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giving Oral can be profoundly dominant- it a way I can _make_ her come, and for me, it gives a strong sense of control. I think it can be more profoundly intimate and ??? Invasive??? than coitus.

Of course, that's just me.


not just you, Lawrence

I agree it is another way to show that her body is under my control - as well as her orgasms ( yes I do practice orgasm control and denial - still working on getting a wench to cum on voice command alone (and yes, I know is a lengthy process - patience is not a virtue required only of submissives))

I also agree that it is more intimate and invasive than coitus - your face is right there in her sex, nothing hidden from your scrutiny, for you to do with as you please

As an aside, I had not meant to cast aspersions of 'switch-hood' with my previous post - I was not implying that a Dom performing orally on a woman was submissive, merely that the act may have offended to subs/slaves sense of submission (i.e. 'I am the submissive therefore I should be the one performing orally'), not realizing that it was another form of control and therefore an act of dominance - in the book Rene, while holding O in position for his fellow Dom to perform on O, instructs O to "submit" to the ministrations of his fellow Dom - reinforcing that is is another form of control (IMNTBHO)

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RE: How often do you give oral? - 5/16/2004 12:11:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		Interesting...perhaps that is why I am adverse to oral sex being performed on me. It may be that because a man can MAKE me cum, that it makes me dislike it - because it is a loss of control for me. Of course, part of it is also that although many guys claim to be tongue masters, very few really are. I have had some guy who THINK they are good and oh wow....it was awful, or maybe just not done to my liking. The only time that I really enjoy it is when I am with a long-term lover that is willing and eager to listen and do what *I* like, not what he thinks I like.

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RE: How often do you give oral? - 5/17/2004 4:49:31 AM   
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Status: offline 		I am sorry you have had bad experiences with idiot males that thought they were sexual gods in all areas and unwilling to learn what their partner wants/needs/enjoys.

I had not meant, in my previous postings, to imply that the Dom should ignore trying to find out what the sub likes to have done to her while he is performing cunniliungus on her - I mean, how is he going to give her pleasure enough to cause her to orgasm if he isn't doing what she enjoys???

It all boils down to the cornerstone of a good relationship, BDSM or vanilla - communication - and he has to be willing to put his ego aside long enough to realize that, while he may know what turns on another woman orally, he has to find out what the woman he is with likes/needs/enjoys.

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RE: How often do you give oral? - 5/17/2004 8:26:28 AM   
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As an aside, there is something rather amusing about orally pleasing a submissive but making her ask to have her orgasms.

The look of frustration and torture as she bravely tries to not orgasm while I munch away.

And then the scream of delight as I say the words "orgasm now" and her climax washes over her shuddering body.

Feels like a dominant act to me. But again, that is just me and I could be wrong.

Sinergy

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RE: How often do you give oral? - 5/17/2004 8:33:38 AM   
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Did We get a
definition here
of what oral
includes?
I dont see it
cause My idea
of oral and
others always
seems to be
different.
gets out
the cuffs
and shackles
male and female
rubbers and
gum plate
and tens unit
and vaccum
cleaner and
hot sauce...
ect ect ect

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RE: How often do you give oral? - 5/17/2004 8:37:40 AM   
MistressDREAD


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oh yes
and that
whirlie pee
thing of
a Master
from a
nother
thread
and the
weights
and the
#3 pins
oh gawd
now Im
all worked
up and My
slave is
out of town
is there
anyone
in Florida
wanna scene
today? ~smiles~

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