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gaggedstrapped -> BDSM Porn (1/30/2007 7:36:20 AM)

Does anyone know of any well done BDSM porn movies?  My wife is very afraid of BDSM at this point (although she will give me a strap-on!) and I'm trying to find a BDSM movie that shows it in more couple friendly manner.

Thanks




mnottertail -> RE: BDSM Porn (1/30/2007 7:40:12 AM)

the Ilsa collection, I should think.

Heil Hitler, just in case we lose.

Goering




thetammyjo -> RE: BDSM Porn (1/30/2007 8:04:08 AM)

I'd recommend not looking for porn but for "how-to" movies about BDSM if you are just introducing it to her and she has fear. Much of porn plays into the "fear" and fantasies of non-consensuality.

I can recommend 3 but you have to figure out where to find them:

"Out of the Darkness: The Realityof S&M" by Mark Frazier & Hardy Haberman

"BDSM: Alternative Loving" from Courtney Smith

"Whipsmart: A Good Vibrations Guide to Beginning S/M for Couples"




SimplyMichael -> RE: BDSM Porn (1/30/2007 8:09:21 AM)

There is one that is four hours long and is really frigging hot, they were screening it at a party I was recently at.  One doesn't often see real stuff but there is sex and pain real D/s and the whole show is just well done and did I mention it was hot?




Missokyst -> RE: BDSM Porn (1/30/2007 9:57:39 AM)

Dang it..  LOL it would help if you had a title! 
Sadists.. sheesh.
Kyst




domiguy -> RE: BDSM Porn (1/30/2007 11:38:56 AM)

Yeah saw this show... incredibly abusive...they were hurling horrible insults at this woman...It was actually painful to watch...No one should watch Fox News.

out.

D.G.

p.s. Jesus please protect me from your followers.




onestandingstill -> RE: BDSM Porn (1/30/2007 11:56:03 AM)

I haven't seen it but a group of people seem to like The Secretary.
suzanne




SirDiscipliner69 -> RE: BDSM Porn (1/30/2007 11:59:52 AM)

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ORIGINAL: onestandingstill

I haven't seen it but a group of people seem to like The Secretary.
suzanne


I know alot of mainstream women that got all hot and bothered by that.



Ross




Samwhiplash -> RE: BDSM Porn (1/30/2007 1:45:53 PM)

Gwen Media have fantastic films. Some are more extreme than others. I have watched some of their stuff with vanillas who just needed a little enlightening and they came away more than curious to try a little themselves.




SaintAllie -> RE: BDSM Porn (1/30/2007 1:56:49 PM)

"The English Mistress"  it's a good film and had good reviews as well.

regards Saint Allie




windchymes -> RE: BDSM Porn (1/30/2007 1:59:14 PM)

Google "Ona Zee".  She's a semi-retired porn star from the 80's (?) who, along with her Master/husband, made a whole series of educational BDSM videos.  Even though they're educational, they're really good and really entertaining.  If your wife is afraid of BDSM, she might not be so put off by videos with an "educational" undertone?

Because of typical American stupid censorship, you can't have sex AND bondage in the same video.  You can have one or the other, but not both at the same time.  So, any good BDSM sex videos are usually made and sold in Europe.




Bearlee -> RE: BDSM Porn (1/30/2007 2:18:57 PM)

Bend Over Boyfriend: a couple's guide to anal sex (with Carol Queen) is another, well-done how-to video. 
 
http://www.fatalemedia.com/videos/bend_over_boyfriend.html
 
I'm thinking that even if couple's aren't so interested in this...it could be good to watch; other topics, too...just to get a taste of all the diversity to BDSM.
 
Edited to add "The Pet" also shows another view of life as a submissive pet.  Included is a sub-plot that seems rediculous...but I liked the DVD anyway.  www.amazon.com/Pet/dp/B000JMK6OE

b




BabyNyla -> RE: BDSM Porn (1/30/2007 2:23:11 PM)

Gwen Media, which is no longer around, has an amazing series called Ivy Manor, and I love these to no end, especially the opening scene of the 2nd movie ... now I need a shower :/




bandit25 -> RE: BDSM Porn (1/30/2007 2:52:03 PM)

Actually, I don't think that's true any longer.  Although I must say that the ones I have seen are with an Austrailian guy and an American woman.  I do think they took place here tho.  At the end of the vid, he asks what her favorite part was...did she like X...would she do it again so that it's clear that it was consentual.




LotusSong -> RE: BDSM Porn (1/30/2007 3:20:10 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: gaggedstrapped

Does anyone know of any well done BDSM porn movies?  My wife is very afraid of BDSM at this point (although she will give me a strap-on!) and I'm trying to find a BDSM movie that shows it in more couple friendly manner.

Thanks


The most benign one that spans the vanilla and kink venue is Exit to Eden




windchymes -> RE: BDSM Porn (1/30/2007 3:25:54 PM)

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ORIGINAL: bandit25

Actually, I don't think that's true any longer.  Although I must say that the ones I have seen are with an Austrailian guy and an American woman.  I do think they took place here tho.  At the end of the vid, he asks what her favorite part was...did she like X...would she do it again so that it's clear that it was consentual.


I hope the laws have changed.  Seemed so stupid to have an elaborate lead up, tying, binding, whatever, and then having the camera pan off into the distance while you hear obvious groaning and moaning, lol. 




proudsub -> RE: BDSM Porn (1/30/2007 3:56:43 PM)

The first one we bought is called Fashionistics.  The story line is about about latex salesmen, but it has a lot of BDSM elements.




KarbonCopy -> RE: BDSM Porn (1/30/2007 4:01:06 PM)

I've been happy with most of Gwen Media's stuff.




whisperedsighs -> RE: BDSM Porn (1/30/2007 5:05:14 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: bandit25

Actually, I don't think that's true any longer.  Although I must say that the ones I have seen are with an Austrailian guy and an American woman.  I do think they took place here tho.  At the end of the vid, he asks what her favorite part was...did she like X...would she do it again so that it's clear that it was consentual.


It depends on where you live.  Some states it is still illegal to engage in it.

It is hard to tell, the governments wording on laws regarding, pornography, and obsenity is completely vague at best.  That is why there are so many cases in the supreme courts today on appeal.




whisperedsighs -> RE: BDSM Porn (1/30/2007 5:13:07 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: windchymes

quote:

ORIGINAL: bandit25

Actually, I don't think that's true any longer.  Although I must say that the ones I have seen are with an Austrailian guy and an American woman.  I do think they took place here tho.  At the end of the vid, he asks what her favorite part was...did she like X...would she do it again so that it's clear that it was consentual.


I hope the laws have changed.  Seemed so stupid to have an elaborate lead up, tying, binding, whatever, and then having the camera pan off into the distance while you hear obvious groaning and moaning, lol. 


Check out free speech coalition.  Take a look at the cases currently on appeal at the supreme court level, that started out as local obsenity laws.  You know it's illegal in some places to own a vibrator? 

Hoping and todays administration won't get you anywhere.  Become educated on what is really going on, write your congressmen, and senators.  Speak up!

Latest laws trying to be enacted would eliminate even the suggestion of sexual activity in many mainstream tv shows and Hollywood movies. 




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