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RE: The Gentleman Master - 2/2/2007 1:19:14 PM   
Focus50


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ORIGINAL: Totalmaster4you

Ta Da....................This belongs in introduce yourself not ask a Master! I see no question here just someone who wants to be the center of attention and thinks they've figured it out,.... but it took them 50 years. If you were a natural it wouldn't have taken so long you just would have been!

Way to beat up on the bloke up with the 'Welcome' mat - go you!
 
No-one's obligated to actually ask a question; it's a *discussion* board! And the rest of your commentary seems immature for someone a third of your age - or are you the Warner character in your pic?
 
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RE: The Gentleman Master - 2/2/2007 8:51:54 PM   
michaels4evr


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ORIGINAL: Adrenochrome

There's a time and a place for raging. There's a time and a place for the raised voice. Just like there's a time and a place for the back of one's hand.

I'm a cultured young Man. I have a Master's degree. There's a strong tradition of appreciating art, literature, and fine music in my family. In my Mastery of my slave, I generally am much more a Paternal figure than I am a brute.

However, sometimes she needs the brutish treatment to learn. Sometimes I need to be brutish to properly express myself.

Time and a place for everything.



agreed 1000%

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RE: The Gentleman Master - 2/2/2007 8:54:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		 I don't pee in the shower. Does that make me a gentleman?

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RE: The Gentleman Master - 2/2/2007 9:11:58 PM   
michaels4evr


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Status: offline 		but do you pee on your submissive? that is the question.

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RE: The Gentleman Master - 2/2/2007 9:14:23 PM   
Wulfchyld


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Status: offline 		I really can't divulge that. Suprise is the best element.

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RE: The Gentleman Master - 2/2/2007 9:15:32 PM   
michaels4evr


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Status: offline 		ahh then a gentleman you must be!

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RE: The Gentleman Master - 2/2/2007 10:50:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		I agree that being with a gentleman has some serious perks.  Sir is the absolute in gentlemanly manner, speech and thought.

I admire you for admitting your weakness in thought and turning to your true self.

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RE: The Gentleman Master - 2/2/2007 11:41:15 PM   
juliaoceania


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My Daddy is extremely kind and polite to everyone. He is always kind to me. He is not pushy or bossy. He is a gentleman truly. I would not be a submissive to someone who wasn't. I thrive giving my power to such a Man as he.

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RE: The Gentleman Master - 2/5/2007 4:45:16 PM   
Adrenochrome


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ORIGINAL: eyesopened

Anger is just another expression of fear and a fearful Dom isn't attractive to me.


Your presupposition that anger cannot be righteous confuses me.

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i genuinely seek to be in a relationship where bondage comes in the form of word, touch, the look in the eyes, the turn of the mouth, the simple touch of the hand.


And, yet, your personal preference does not mean that Dominants who show anger are categorically somehow also magically cowards.


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RE: The Gentleman Master - 2/5/2007 4:49:31 PM   
Adrenochrome


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ORIGINAL: Padriag
What bothers me is how often those tactics work.  How often the pushy, come on strong, "dom" gets the girl in "sub frenzy".  Most submissives don't really learn until they've made the mistakes, been hurt and burned, their trust broken, their faith frayed... and then it falls to those same quiet ones to pick up the pieces and try to make something of damaged goods.  Ironically, we're also the ones perhaps best suited to doing exactly that, to re-casting the clay if you will.


This strikes me as a variant on the tired old "girls never like nice guys" mantra.

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Ah well, its what I get for being a 16th century man in a 21st century world.  A romantic fan of Nietzsche, could I be any more of a contradiction?


Nietzsche was 19th century. Also, there's no contradiction in being a fan of the Romantic period and a devotee of Nietzsche's philosophy.



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RE: The Gentleman Master - 2/5/2007 7:41:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Totalmaster4you

Ta Da....................This belongs in introduce yourself not ask a Master! I see no question here just someone who wants to be the center of attention and thinks they've figured it out,.... but it took them 50 years. If you were a natural it wouldn't have taken so long you just would have been!
And which Moderator are you?...personally I can appreciate personal growth in anyone..those who think they have nothing to learn, or think they are ala "natural", would have me wary of them or their abilites......Tempting

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RE: The Gentleman Master - 2/5/2007 8:51:43 PM   
MasterKalif


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Status: offline 		I have to say I consider myself a Gentleman in all that I do....ok with the excpetion when I am in a rush and behind the wheel....but at all other times, I respect people and treat others with respect, my submissive included....for that is how I am and I will not change for anyone or anything. Besides...how can a Dom or Master command respect when he does not treat others with respect or treats himself in a respectable way?

There is a difference between being an angry jerk and a Dom....a Dom in my opinion cares for his submissive, for her well being, and for her safety, and should not command respect out of fear, but because the submissive has respect for him and on his personal qualities which the submissive is attracted to. Just my two cents

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RE: The Gentleman Master - 2/6/2007 1:35:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		Having one act out of desire to please rather than out of fear is what I seek in a submissive or slave.  Thus I am also free to be myself and am polite in how I state my requests (for the most part *grins*).

I use please and thank you when asking for things and after they have been completed.  I see no reason to act without couth and with poor manners within a D/s relationship.

Regards,

Shogun 

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RE: The Gentleman Master - 2/6/2007 1:41:56 PM   
daddysprop247


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Status: offline 		my Master is what i would consider to be a gentleman, however he is also very aggressive, demanding and controlling in all aspects of his life. He has high standards and expects people to live up to them...if not, you will feel his fury lol. when it comes to me, he does not "ask" anything of me, he only demands. nor does he say "please"...if he did i would think he were ill with a fever or something. occasionally he'll say thank you if he's in the mood, but it's not a given. He expects me to obey him because it is my place, although he also likes that i have a desire to please him, and he also likes that i fear him and what he will do to me if i fail. still i consider him a gentleman because of the way he carries himself and because of how he believes in treating women. with a firm, but guiding hand, almost like a child (but not quite), which surpisingly even many women in the vanilla world seem to find comforting and desireable.


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RE: The Gentleman Master - 2/18/2007 12:53:50 PM   
degradess


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Status: offline 		I was into the rough, abusive, brutish type of dom for many years and it burnt me out.  A few years ago I found a special person who showed me that the quiet, more mental type of domination is the best.  That's not to say that he isn't nasty at the right times.  He uses extreme humiliation for domming at times.  He is the best dom I ever had and now I know that I am looking for that special  dom who wants a real life with me.  Not a selfish brute with serious issues to work out.   

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RE: The Gentleman Master - 2/18/2007 1:25:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		~What bothers me is how often those tactics work.  How often the pushy, come on strong, "dom" gets the girl in "sub frenzy".  Most submissives don't really learn until they've made the mistakes, been hurt and burned, their trust broken, their faith frayed... and then it falls to those same quiet ones to pick up the pieces and try to make something of damaged goods.  Ironically, we're also the ones perhaps best suited to doing exactly that, to re-casting the clay if you will.  Its not a new story, I guess in reality its actually a very old one.  The weathered and worn veteran and the soiled dove who finally get it right (I gotta lay off the westerns).  Just wish it didn't seem to so often work out that way. "
 
Sooo true! especialy with new subs.. that kinds of coming on strong.. ordering around right away.. chest thumping, can all seem so thrilling at first.. and the quiet, secure Dominants aren't noticed so much.. but they are the ones that will be there after the leasons are learned.. sometimes the hard way.

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