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hisannabelle -> female submissives and gay/bi male submissives...the size of the boat (1/31/2007 5:38:13 PM)

a thread in ask a master prompted me to some curiosity about people's opinions and experiences with penis size.

while on the one hand, i am a big believer that it is way more the motion of the ocean than the size of the boat, i -have- been with someone whose penis was literally so small it would not stay inside of me when hard, and while i try to be as undiscriminating as possible...that would just not have worked without some serious comfort on his part with toys and such. my dominant, on the other hand, is probably high end of normal, and even though his size is perfect and he uses it well he still chooses to supplement with toys and such every now and then, which of course just make things that much better.

i don't think sex is the be all end all of a relationship, and before my current relationship i never really considered it all that important, but it is to us...so i am beginning to see how size -might- matter a slight bit to me (while i used to say it couldn't ever matter never ever).

what's your opinion/experience?



lighthearted -> RE: female submissives and gay/bi male submissives...the size of the boat (1/31/2007 9:14:40 PM)

I think what matters more is the overall quality of the sex life in general.  but, I have never been faced with a "size" issue (now there's a visual), so I don't know for sure how I would react.  I have been in a relationship where the sex wasn't so hot, and that was something I couldn't live with, as much as I tried...



BalletBob -> RE: female submissives and gay/bi male submissives...the size of the boat (1/31/2007 9:33:15 PM)

Well I am quite small, but my wife hasn't thrown me out, after 32 years. Now as for sex with MADAM, it never happened. We were both married, and it wasn't an issue. I don't have to have sex, to have a good Sub/Misress relationship. That is also good, since I am looking for a Cyber Mistress now.

As for Toys, I am quite small as I said, and my "Little Boy" diapears in my Cock Harness. Now when it is hard, I grows to fill up the Cock Harness, and even pushes on the tip of the Cock Harness, trying to get out. LMCLAO

Also, I have MAGIC FINGERS, for when the Little One doesn;t work.

Sincerly, Sub BalletBob



SimplyMichael -> RE: female submissives and gay/bi male submissives...the size of the boat (1/31/2007 9:33:28 PM)

I may not have the worlds shortest tongue but it has never failed to get me rave reviews and even introduce women to orgasm who have never had it.

I have once met a woman who's mouth was somehow so small that oral was just somehow wrong or something.  Weird but true.

Its like breasts, some men love em big, others small, I am just happy if they each have nipples on them.



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: female submissives and gay/bi male submissives...the size of the boat (1/31/2007 9:49:43 PM)

It's just like age.

Age IS an issue to deal with.  How MUCH of an issue it is depends on the people involved.



BabyNyla -> RE: female submissives and gay/bi male submissives...the size of the boat (1/31/2007 9:55:21 PM)

My Dom/husband is the first person I have ever had sex with ... and somedays I wish he was smaller ... although I'd never tell him that b/c he'd think I was insane.
 
On the other hand ... one of the first guys I ever dommed had a penis that was an inch, and only an inch and a half when hard ... so I am thankful my hubby's not that small ...  because I had to end the session since I couldn't stop laughing.



hisannabelle -> RE: female submissives and gay/bi male submissives...the size of the boat (1/31/2007 9:58:19 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

It's just like age.

Age IS an issue to deal with.  How MUCH of an issue it is depends on the people involved.


this is a perfect analogy to me...michael, i also very much appreciated the breast bits ;)



barefootgal -> RE: female submissives and gay/bi male submissives...the size of the boat (2/1/2007 4:58:19 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

I am just happy if they each have nipples on them.


Teehee... nipples plural. Not just satisfied with one per, huh? I admit, I have gotten the impression you are an overachiever!



ShiftedJewel -> RE: female submissives and gay/bi male submissives...the size of the boat (2/1/2007 7:21:59 AM)

It's the size of the boat... definately.
 
I have an ex that I refer to as needledick, we couldn't use condoms because they kept slipping off.
 
And in the same respect, I'm only 5'2" tall... someone that is too big isn't getting near me either.
 
Jewel



MasterFireMaam -> RE: female submissives and gay/bi male submissives...the size of the boat (2/1/2007 7:34:44 AM)

It depends on what you want. Lesbians use nothing but toys, hands, fingers, lips and such and they're very, very happy sexually.

Master Fire



freyjasdottir -> RE: female submissives and gay/bi male submissives...the size of the boat (2/1/2007 8:07:10 AM)

I was going to ask why someone would want something large enough to hurt, but ummm nevermind, wrong site [:D]  Personally, I perfer smaller over monstrous any day of the week especially if they know what they are doing. 



goodpet -> RE: female submissives and gay/bi male submissives...the size of the boat (2/3/2007 4:37:46 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam
It depends on what you want. Lesbians use nothing but toys, hands, fingers, lips and such and they're very, very happy sexually.
Master Fire


Really?  and i thought they just had never met a "real" man with a big enough dick to convert them.

(where did i put my helmet and sheild?)



goodpet -> RE: female submissives and gay/bi male submissives...the size of the boat (2/3/2007 4:42:17 AM)

size does matter for pentration, having been with a few of different sizes, it does effect pentration sex. But you know, the amount of time in any of my relationship that there was actual pentration was, well very small percent.  We spend more time doing other things, including sexual things, then acutal pentration, so the size never was an issue for us. big or little.

it is only an issue if you make it one.



littleone35 -> RE: female submissives and gay/bi male submissives...the size of the boat (2/5/2007 2:49:53 PM)

Size is not really an issue for me. Unless it is like some on else said a inch or so that is kinda small.  Once i had an ex play partner whoi had 12 inches and i said no way you are puttingt that inside me i think that would hurt.  I mean that big you can't even do decent oral.  That was one of thew reasons he was an ex play partner.  Somr people think bigger is better but i an happy with a "normal" size.

Matt's littleone



BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: female submissives and gay/bi male submissives...the size of the boat (2/5/2007 3:01:56 PM)

AS a straight dom male I would like to think size doesn't matter but I know better.ALL of my female friends chat and most say they are size queens..Kind of makes this ol MASTER feel "shorted"by his 7 inches smile..BH



daddysprop247 -> RE: female submissives and gay/bi male submissives...the size of the boat (2/5/2007 3:04:00 PM)

i'm not ashamed to say that penis size does matter to me, at least if we are talking about a person i am seriously involved with a.k.a. owned by. when it comes to cocks, i prefer thicker than the average, and somewhat longer than average. fortunately for me, my Master more than meets both preferences. if when we were sexual for the first time, i discovered that he was one inch long rock hard, or had the girth of a pencil, then the chances are extremely slim that the relationship would have progressed to the point it did.
now when it comes to casual sex or someone i'm just serving sexually...no personal relationship...size is truly irrelevant to me. i can enjoy servicing any cock, whatever the size or shape, for a limited period of time. i recently had the experiencing of serving a man who had perhaps the smallest cock i have ever seen or even heard of on an adult person. no longer than my pinky, no bigger around than my thumb. and this was a very very large man otherwise. at first, i was worried that i wouldn't be able to serve him sexually in any way he would find satisfying, until i found myself being innovative and creative (things that aren't usually required in my sexual service), not to mention persistent, and in time he was able to enjoy my body in all the ways any other man could, plus a few special ways that he enjoyed immensely, that were only possible because of his unique condition.
i enjoy serving and please this person, and don't feel slighted or restricted in any way because of his size. however it's not something i could tolerate well from a primary partner/Master.



GeekyGirl -> RE: female submissives and gay/bi male submissives...the size of the boat (2/5/2007 3:05:07 PM)

Size does matter to an extent. I prefer 5-7inch. Anything larger makes oral difficult and anything smaller doesn't give me enough stimulation. I will admit that I've declined to get into relationships with men who were too small...I knew I'd never be satisfied in the long run. Most girls have had that horrible moment of wondering "Um, is he inside yet? I'm embarrassed to ask!" 



rodmasters504 -> RE: female submissives and gay/bi male submissives...the size of the boat (2/5/2007 3:14:47 PM)

I cant believe geekygirl lets a man enter her without  any foreplay involving touching or at least having a look at whats going to go into her body. Unless she is tied down as all subs should be and maybe tied down as well but even then best check the dicks out girls and boys could have someting you dont want on it. anyway play safe



GeekyGirl -> RE: female submissives and gay/bi male submissives...the size of the boat (2/5/2007 3:33:31 PM)

I'm not sure where you gathered that I don't get foreplay or look at his dick before intercourse. I never said anything like that.





subboi3382 -> RE: female submissives and gay/bi male submissives...the size of the boat (2/12/2007 12:33:46 AM)

I'm a bi male sub and i have pretty much only been on the receiving end of sex wiht guys. Size doesnt really matter much to me (unless he is one extreme or the other of course lol) but I do admit I perfer bigger. If a guy was small it wouldn't be a deal breaker or anything for me but I just love the thought of being wiht a big guy. As far as bdsm goes i have noticed it is pretty similar for most bi/gay guys, bigger is better for doms but it is more about attitude



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