RE: What event or series of events leads one to become Dominant or Submissive?

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Skarredwolfpuppy -> RE: What event or series of events leads one to become Dominant or Submissive? (2/1/2007 1:35:57 PM)
i was born this way........[8\|]

Wulfchyld -> RE: What event or series of events leads one to become Dominant or Submissive? (2/1/2007 2:01:49 PM)
Agirl, U got Mail!

Hissltviolet -> RE: What event or series of events leads one to become Dominant or Submissive? (2/1/2007 2:06:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TheKatsWhizkas I have often wondered what single event or perhaps, series of events occure in a persons life that eventually turn them into either a Dominant or Submissive. I am sure there will be a diverse range of specific events that trigger such personality traits. Despite this there must be a number of eliments common to everyone that might be titled "mutually shared commonalities". ...this girl does not think her submissive nature is the product events that occured in her background to turn her in any direction...if she takes a very close look at her life...she can trace her submissive behavior all the way back to her earliest recollections...she tends to believe that she was born with the nature (wired this way if you will)... ...if she thinks real hard on what motivated her to make some of the decisions she did as she grew up...or what influenced her to act or react a certain way to situations...or people...or how...where...when or why she felt the 'happiest' and most comfortable in her life...it all had to do with the natural inclination toward assuming a submissive 'role'... ...she became 'aware' of the actual practiced 'dynamics' of the BDSM lifestyle only a few years ago...<smiles>...it is there...if any 'event' changed her life's course...that it happened (a whole 'other' thead)...long story short...she realized that her 'nature' was not only acceptable but embraceable...and that she could even find Another to share it with...YAY!!! ...side note...she does wonder about one thing...her Mother was the dominating influence in her childhood...Daddy being submissive in position... she never got along with her Mother...in fact it was a horrific relationship... while...on the other hand...she adored her Daddy...though disappointed in Him in later years for not 'taking control' of many things...and she wonders how this 'dynamic' between her parents...and herself...might have influenced her 'twist'...

agirl -> RE: What event or series of events leads one to become Dominant or Submissive? (2/2/2007 11:20:53 AM)
Thanks for that, Loki, I've received, read and replied. agirl x

ToServeIsToLive -> RE: What event or series of events leads one to become Dominant or Submissive? (2/2/2007 1:43:42 PM)
Between a drive to master many aspects of my body/mind and deep thinking about what drives my general life, I realized I would make a pretty good submissve. There weren't really any events in particular that lead me to it.

Cedwen -> RE: What event or series of events leads one to become Dominant or Submissive? (2/2/2007 7:11:01 PM)
Usualy inherrited from thier childhood experiences ot mother and father plis How they related to each other ?even if they do not realsise the circumstances that changed their lifestyles. Theri GFs of BFs are often like one of their parents eg dom/sub or sub/domme etc, They are brave and not wimps if they reveal their needs and desires to a partner who will most likely understand. Brave because they may loostheir partner if he or she does not grow to understand

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