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RE: Type of Dom - 2/1/2007 10:27:01 AM

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none of the above. i don't like "boys" of any kind, don't go for preppies or bikers. i like an arrogant, classy, intelligent, charismatic, perverted gentleman, with a slight sadistic streak. you know, the type who can beat a woman without disheveling his armani suit.

Guess that leaves Me out as I have more than just a slight sadistic streak.

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RE: Type of Dom - 2/1/2007 10:27:30 AM

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when he was done he zipped up his pants, properly tucked in his shirt, adjusted his tie. bent down to gently kiss my lips, then backhanded me across the face so hard my ears started ringing and i fell backwards. then it's "see you when i get home b*tch," as he picks up his briefcase and steps over my body on the way out the door.

*sighs* yep that was a good day lol.

mmmm sounds like Mine. . . except he doesnt have to wear a tie

His company is super casual

[[busy swooning]]

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RE: Type of Dom - 2/1/2007 10:27:39 AM

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Not anyone in a suit, but in a armani, for Me, I would say pretty boy or GQ if you prefer

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RE: Type of Dom - 2/1/2007 10:30:42 AM

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ORIGINAL: daddysprop247

none of the above. i don't like "boys" of any kind, don't go for preppies or bikers. i like an arrogant, classy, intelligent, charismatic, perverted gentleman, with a slight sadistic streak. you know, the type who can beat a woman without disheveling his armani suit.

LOL
What a relief, I fit that discription but the problem is can we actually go out in public dungeons that way?

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RE: Type of Dom - 2/1/2007 10:33:03 AM

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when he was done he zipped up his pants, properly tucked in his shirt, adjusted his tie. bent down to gently kiss my lips, then backhanded me across the face so hard my ears started ringing and i fell backwards. then it's "see you when i get home b*tch," as he picks up his briefcase and steps over my body on the way out the door.

*sighs* yep that was a good day lol.

mmmm sounds like Mine. . . except he doesnt have to wear a tie His company is super casual

[[busy swooning]]

Could be mine too.....minus the *ear ringing back-hander*. That's not his *style*.

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RE: Type of Dom - 2/1/2007 10:39:10 AM

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oh yah i am generally not backhanded [have i ever been? *ponders* no, not by Him at least] but thats about the only difference teehee

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RE: Type of Dom - 2/1/2007 10:39:36 AM

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I am going to use general terms with the understanding that not all "fit" in to one or the other. The question is what type of Dom does it for you the "pretty boy" or the "bad boy".

Howabout neither?

I like a real person, a smart person, a kind person

I do not like stereotypes... I like people

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RE: Type of Dom - 2/1/2007 10:41:33 AM

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none of the above. i don't like "boys" of any kind, don't go for preppies or bikers. i like an arrogant, classy, intelligent, charismatic, perverted gentleman, with a slight sadistic streak. you know, the type who can beat a woman without disheveling his armani suit.

LOL
What a relief, I fit that discription but the problem is can we actually go out in public dungeons that way?

heck, why not? just claim its your special kink

*enters the dungeon to have all naked slaves mouths drop and Masters stop mid whelp

coy smile, 'sorry baby, lookin good is my thaaang' *

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RE: Type of Dom - 2/1/2007 10:43:31 AM

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julia I tend to agree with all of what is being said. I was just wondering as a blacket statement. Like you are walking down the street what "type" of guy appearance wise does it for you? you say you don't like stereotypes but we all have them. So have more than others but we all still make a judgement.
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RE: Type of Dom - 2/1/2007 11:16:37 AM

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When I see "biker" I see someone who is compensating for insecurity. If you have to "dress" like a badboy, you ain't. When I was an outright gun dealing drug selling criminal I kept my hair short and dressed in immaculately tailored suits. I didn't ride a hardley and when I did ride it was a BMW.

If you need to find the loudest pipes so that your bike screams "look at me" you are a bigger fluff ball than any man in loafers, no matter how "light" he may be in them.

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RE: Type of Dom - 2/1/2007 11:29:15 AM

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I like it when they dress sort of like me but not too much like me, 'cause that'd be girlie. Like, if I'm in a jam laundry wise, I could go in their closet and find something to wear that would suit me.

So, it'd have to be closer to the bad boy end of the spectrum. I don't really do preppie.

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RE: Type of Dom - 2/1/2007 11:31:42 AM

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as long as He is kind, caring, loving, strict yet fair, willing to listen, to learn and grow as a couple, is relatively good looking with all His teeth and most of His hair or bald, is willing to hear me out before punishing me then i'm fine.

the kind of Guys i am attracted to are taller than me but not so much that when we are standing i have to get a kink in my neck looking up at Him.

somewhat muscular, fairly big hands after all Ya know what they say about men with big hands right? *wink wink*

any way i was and still am kind of attracted to Bikers just cause i grew up with them.

FYI: Not all who ""dress" like a badboy," are bikers and they are definitely NOT all making up for some kind of "insecurity."

yes there are wanna be bikers just as there are wanna be Doms/Dommes, Sub/slaves, but i will not go on about that side of my experiences in the lifestyle.

that being said i hope y'all have a great day.

:)

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RE: Type of Dom - 2/1/2007 11:34:09 AM

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julia I tend to agree with all of what is being said. I was just wondering as a blacket statement. Like you are walking down the street what "type" of guy appearance wise does it for you? you say you don't like stereotypes but we all have them. So have more than others but we all still make a judgement.
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I am not attracted to biker types

But I love blue collar clothing

I am not attracted to sports fanatics

But I love a preppie shirt now and again

I cannot stand the CEO type

But i love geeks with pocket protectors...

So, as you can see, some of these types would be bad boys... others would be pretty boys... it just depends on the motivation for the style. One of my favorite looks is the Bob Marley tshirt, with hippie hair..you know, the kind that grows organic food? Would that be a "bad boy" or a "pretty boy" (I think sexy professors with Birkenstocks rock...lol)

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RE: Type of Dom - 2/1/2007 11:42:57 AM

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Hmmmmmmmmm I don't think I could choose either of those, but rather someone in between. However, what makes me do a double take is not so much how they look/dress (no skanky types), but how they carry themselves. That something something that speaks of strength, confidence and authority.

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RE: Type of Dom - 2/1/2007 11:51:31 AM

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Too many people are taking this to mean only looks. I feel it is more in the way a man carries himself. The "bad boy" attitude is what draws me most but it is also the air of confidence. That is something that can be seen no matter what clothing or stereotype he is in.

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RE: Type of Dom - 2/1/2007 11:54:03 AM

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I see that the verbage that I have used is causing some issues. I know that everyone has a different perspective of things. I picked two "types" that I figured most would fall into.

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RE: Type of Dom - 2/1/2007 11:57:34 AM

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I like the types that do not fall into bad boy pretty boy paradigm....lol..

I know what you were doing, and it is a fun concept...smiles

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RE: Type of Dom - 2/1/2007 11:58:39 AM

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julia you are to cute. Thank you.

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RE: Type of Dom - 2/1/2007 12:03:08 PM

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I see that the verbage that I have used is causing some issues. I know that everyone has a different perspective of things. I picked two "types" that I figured most would fall into.

Oh heavens no, there are so many "types" out there that aren't either of those, or may be a combination of those things, etc.... Like I said, it's more about how they carry themselves and the attitude they project and how they project it.

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RE: Type of Dom - 2/1/2007 12:14:55 PM

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Type hmm if we are talking looks neither i perfer the ruggledy handsome type (i am biased towaed my Master though). He is not a preppy or a biker he is just dresses casually though i have seen him in a suit and he looks hot either way. Being only 5' i perfer tall men.

If we are talking personallity i would just like a man who is smart.,confident and has a sense of humor, and strong yet gentle.

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