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What qualities do you seek from a male sub. - 2/2/2007 7:03:08 AM

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What quality is the most important to you?

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RE: What qualities do you seek from a male sub. - 2/2/2007 7:54:42 AM

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This isn't specific to gender or sex or even scene role.

Honesty is my number one quality I look for in anyone.

In terms of submissives, the second quality is a realistic sense of what it means to be "of service" to another person.

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RE: What qualities do you seek from a male sub. - 2/2/2007 8:19:17 AM

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It varies from day to day...today, it's the ability to follow through and make your word mean something.

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RE: What qualities do you seek from a male sub. - 2/2/2007 8:31:32 AM

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That he show up...

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RE: What qualities do you seek from a male sub. - 2/2/2007 8:33:56 AM

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In a sub male? The ability to serve without expecting sex in return. The ability to have a conversation with me regardless of where we are or what we are doing. I want a personality I can enjoy, integrity I can depend on, loyalty I can trust in and preferably looks I can appreciate.

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RE: What qualities do you seek from a male sub. - 2/2/2007 11:02:06 PM

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The qualities I tend to like in a sub male, because that is what I'm into, though could apply to anyone I suppose, are as follows: Communicative, honest about who he is and where he is in life, kind, somewhat attractive (dressed well/neat, especially if he isn't naturally attractive), smart, enjoys sex especially with me, and respects/enjoys female led relationships. M

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RE: What qualities do you seek from a male sub. - 2/3/2007 12:27:06 AM

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willingness.

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RE: What qualities do you seek from a male sub. - 2/3/2007 1:04:49 AM

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What quality is the most important to you?

Honesty is the number one most important quality for me. Other things I look for are reliability, intelligence, loyalty, devotion, respectfulness, maturity, and open-mindedness.

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