ShadeDiva
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Joined: 3/31/2004 From: Sacramento, California Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: Monts Im not trying to throw stones here. I dont get involved in flame wars on the boards either. I was stating my opinion on my take of it. I do it. Have for many years. Was taught by a nurse. A very twisted nurse. But none-the-less, there are people out there, like me, that can do these things because of proper mentoring. Its a long lost concept I agree. With the age of InstaDomme/Doms and such you DO need to be careful. And I recommend highly that you DO know who you are doing these procedures with. But they are done all the time, and by people that can do them correctly. There are many folks that get involved with temp piercings, and cuttings and all kinds of blood sports. <yum> There are others that play with fire. <yum again>. I happen to be a hard core edge player. I have 17 years experience and many years of it being taught all the way. I have never tried anything that I considered a danger to another, without proper training. I hope that is true for all. I apologize if I ruffled anyone's feathers Monts Really my points/posts have nothing to do with you or you throwing stones at all and really have nothng to do with you personally on any level or how you play really. My point is, this is a highly litigious society. IMO, you not only need to consider and be informed about what you are doing, but also what the consequences are if you get arrested or sued. The fact is, that unless you know the consequences of what you are doing - you truly are incapable of making a fully informed decision, end of story. You can choose to not be informed, or not view it as important, but that's not making an fully informed decision - basically all I was saying was BE informed, or at least realize you are actively CHOOSING to remain uninformed. (the you being a figurative *you* of course) That being said, I've seen as edgy and hardcore play as you can get I think and still be on this side of crazy, lol. In my location EVERYONE is a a heavy hardcore edgeplayer of decades it seems like, and most of them seem to have some medical training, most bizarre, but oh so true, lol. (GOD I LOVE this state when it comes to BDSM communities!) I wasn't saying don't do it, I was saying be informed what the risks and consequences are, thus why I started out by saying *from a legal standpoint* and at no time stated *don't do that*. ~ShadeDiva
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