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BobTheMaster -> Hi Emergent Dom from northern england (2/2/2007 1:14:20 PM)
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Greetings to all <bows> been a member on this site for a while but never posted before, partly because im very new to this whole thing. Had a gf who liked to be tied up about 10 years ago (nothing heavy), and since then i had forgotten about the whole thing, untill about 3 months ago when i had a very explosive online rel wil a girl who was an experienced sub to women and a dom to men - apparently i have a gift for domination, on a mental level more than physical (as we never actually met due to her having a bf), she would hear my voice commanding her to clean the house and stopped fantasising about women when having sex and started fantasising about me, in the end she was incapable of achieveing orgasm without imagining me telling her to cum. She also had a tendancy to be unruly and would genuinely annoy me, this we discovered tended to make me just as ruthless as the situation required, where i would do things from make her wear a very low set vibe inside a chatity device for a few hours till she was unbearably horny, and begged my forgiveness - to being bound and gagged in a small cage perhaps electrocuted and kept in the dark over night.
The thing im still not sure about is ME. I know i am dom not sub, and i played the part of master very well, the thing is in RL you would never know i was dom or capable of such feats of punishment, in person i am not that demanding, in fact fairly easy to please.
Having read some of the profiles on here i think perhaps i am after more of a 1950's lifestyle - things done how i like them to be done and i have the final word in all things, and of course correction for my girl if she fails to meet my standards, but i am not naturally sadistic, i do get pleasure from hurting another, but only if i KNOW they love it, and although i do like alot of sex daily, again it doesnt need to be kinky.
I suppose im just looking for a girl whos willing to please her man in exchange for care, love, and if needed correction and disipline, but not a girl who needs to be beaten every day to be happy, one who longs to serve and provided she knows shes doing a good job is happy.
am i asking too little? am i just odd?
oh also im happy imposing restictions on a girl - such as what she wears, contact with the outside world, how she eats and sleeps, but im not looking for a girl incapable of thinking for herself, i enjoy a good conversation, and also a girl who thinks of new things i like or new things she would like me tro do with her.
perhaps i need training by someone more experienced?
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