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mp072004 -> RE: Forced? feminization? (2/5/2007 2:58:58 PM)
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Yes, talk to your friend. If you already know that he crossdresses, and especially if you've seen him dressed, telling him that you want to have sex with him seems like a very small jump. It seems sweet to me that you two have this comfortable, experimental erotic friendship.
To my knowledge, most crossdressing men are heterosexual or het-leaning bisexual. Obviously, I don't have a lot of sex with gay men, but I don't get the impression that many gay men like to dress in women's lingerie for erotic appeal.
People with male genitals, male identities, and an erotic fascination with women's bodies are heterosexual men, not lesbians trapped in men's bodies. If your friend thinks women are sexy, has male genitals and thinks of himself as a man, and likes to wear silky lingerie, he's a crossdressing het man.
Submission and crossdressing do not go hand in hand. Some submissive men have a thing for crossdressing. Some men aren't interested in power inequality but like to dress. And I know one who identifies as a dominant and a top and wears stockings and dresses, so I imagine there are more out there.
That said, Wizardprincess, if you want to initiate sex, you've got to summon some shred of assertiveness--it's just not possible to initiate sex while being entirely passive, though you could flirt and hint heavily if you prefer a coy veneer. Good luck!
Monica
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