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retraing - 2/3/2007 10:42:52 AM   
griffn


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How would you retrain a submissive that has been trained to only orgasm by her former dominants command. She cant orgasm by herself and I'd like to give that ability back to her.
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RE: retraing - 2/3/2007 11:30:54 AM   
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just continuously hit her with a large broom handle.

;) kidding.


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RE: retraing - 2/3/2007 1:41:39 PM   
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Well figure out how she was trained to begin with and then either don't use them or use them for different things. Triggers need repetition and reinforcement to continue to be effective. 

Anything that can be trained can be untrained or re-trained.  Just practice practice practice and make it fun.

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RE: retraing - 2/3/2007 2:24:45 PM   
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I would suggest she be given a daily mastrubation time alone.
Maybe practicing alone will help her rediscover herself.
Another thing is to make her be completely silent when you have sex with her so she won't be able to ask permission to cum.
Tell her in the beginning she can't talk, but has permission to cum any time she';s ready.
Maybe if she does not ask rigt before she cums will help her to back up in her training as well.
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RE: retraing - 2/3/2007 4:43:41 PM   
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Thanks I'll try both and hopefully get the desired result.

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RE: retraing - 2/3/2007 5:11:23 PM   
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whats that machine Howard Stern has all those girls sit on ??  The................. S (something) i think??  Whats it called again?  Have her sit on one of those...

simbian??


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RE: retraing - 2/3/2007 5:12:50 PM   
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sybarian?

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RE: retraing - 2/3/2007 5:14:15 PM   
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FR...Is there any way to change the subject?  What I mean is every time I see "retraing" scrolling by on the left side of the page, I want to scream.  It's retraining.  Can it be edited?

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RE: retraining - 2/3/2007 5:18:14 PM   
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Anyone who uses the OP's title will be dragged into the cyber-street and shot like a dog.

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RE: retraining - 2/3/2007 5:23:59 PM   
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Then please...drag me into the street.

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RE: retraining - 2/3/2007 5:26:02 PM   
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Shoul't  it be?
quote:

Anye who us the OP's tie wl be dragd io the cyr-strt and st le a dog.

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RE: retraining - 2/3/2007 5:27:35 PM   
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Oh, thanks a LOT Aileen...now I get to see a misspelled title and your entire quote! 

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RE: retraing - 2/3/2007 5:28:17 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

sybarian?


Sybar? Sybarette? Sybarillo?



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RE: retraininginginginging - 2/3/2007 5:28:41 PM   
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Armadillo?

< Message edited by Aileen68 -- 2/3/2007 5:30:13 PM >

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RE: retraining - 2/3/2007 5:29:18 PM   
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Noah just got shot.

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RE: retraing - 2/3/2007 5:29:36 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: griffn

How would you retrain a submissive that has been trained to only orgasm by her former dominants command. She cant orgasm by herself and I'd like to give that ability back to her.


Get her a Hitachi Magic Wand :)

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RE: retraining - 2/3/2007 5:30:34 PM   
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As did Aileen.

Just to be clear, I'd still fuck her.

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RE: retraining - 2/3/2007 5:31:58 PM   
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Lotus, seriously.  Edit the damn title; I'm running out of bullets.

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RE: retrainingingingingadingdong - 2/3/2007 5:32:02 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

I'd still fuck her.

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benji

And that is why I made mine super duper special.

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RE: retrg - 2/3/2007 5:34:16 PM   
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Yay for special Aileen!

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