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LadyHugs -> RE: Not Genuine? (2/5/2007 12:44:31 PM)
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Dear KaramelGoddess, Ladies and Gentlemen;
It is easy to get one's pantaloons in a bunch, when someone deems another not a true/real Dominant. And, frankly--I've met some Dominants that are about as effective as air brakes on a turtle; let alone able to flog themselves out of a wet paper bag!
There will always be a group of individuals that make sport, make light or make it a mission to demean women who are Dominant. You would be surprise how many Dominant men, pose as submissive men for this very mission. These people are intimidated! But, one needs to remember that getting 'to you' is a form of control and manipulation. I rarely get my pantaloons in a wad but a few males on the forums continue to make it miserable on CM. But, what is even worse, is that they have to ruin the thread for the sake of Domina bashing.
For those who claim I am not a real/true Domina--I just say that I have plenty of people and newspaper proof, which is independent of the scene as proof I am.
I cannot express how important it is--to understand that we're all helpless when it comes to controlling other's behaviors. We can control our personal behavior and how we say and act, is the banner to which we create and maintain and follow. Consistancy.
I would not consider myself as an ugly player--using foul language or fighting unfair. However, one can get 'in their face' with facts and determination and or conviction.
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs
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