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Not Genuine? - 2/3/2007 11:41:55 AM   
KaramelGoddess


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Status: offline 		Ladies, what is your response when a person says you are not a genuine Domina?
This happened to Me for the first time recently and I got extremely annoyed and angry and lashed out - which I hate doing.
I know there are many here who have witty comebacks all the time, please share.
With kind regard,
~Kara

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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/3/2007 12:32:42 PM   
personagrata


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Status: offline 		Please pardon my intrusion, since the question was not addressed to my kind, but a quick note, if i may: who is he (i presume it’s a he) to call You genuine, and what gives him the right to decide? Is he genuine? It’s all relative anyway, and based one one’s perceptions. i wouldn’t worry about it.

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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/3/2007 12:53:48 PM   
MistressDolly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KaramelGoddess

Ladies, what is your response when a person says you are not a genuine Domina?
This happened to Me for the first time recently and I got extremely annoyed and angry and lashed out - which I hate doing.
I know there are many here who have witty comebacks all the time, please share.
With kind regard,
~Kara


The wittiest comeback?  No comeback at all.  Their aim is to offend you and by your replying back you've told them they have succeeded. Why would you want to give them the satisfaction?

ps.  If you look at source, you'll realize their opinion just doesn't matter.

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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/3/2007 1:51:52 PM   
Spankinatrix


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Status: offline 		At that point the conversation is over.  There is nothing to be gained by talking with such a person so I simply block them, hang up, or walk away.
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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/3/2007 2:01:47 PM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		If it was a message on the otherside? No reply, just block user and delete the message.


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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/3/2007 2:04:35 PM   
KaramelGoddess


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Status: offline 		Yes it was on the other side, and he is now blocked.  That only happened after I put the Bitch Fork to verbal use however.
 
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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/3/2007 2:07:19 PM   
DianeB269


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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/3/2007 2:11:22 PM   
KaramelGoddess


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Status: offline 		LOL I know what you mean!  Mine is growing every day.  It's sad, really.
 
With kind regard,
~Kara

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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/3/2007 2:15:00 PM   
DianeB269


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ORIGINAL: KaramelGoddess

LOL I know what you mean!  Mine is growing every day.  It's sad, really.
 
With kind regard,
~Kara


Yes, it's very sad that there are so many MORONS on here that can't read a simple profile.

Diane

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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/3/2007 2:15:37 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		Oh i get this now and again.  I am obviously not genuine bcasue I wont make a confirmation phone call less than 3 hours into emailing someone for the first time.  OH and becasue I am not interested in cuckolding Angel with every sub that happens to be visinting nashville and happens upon my profile. The list goes on and on.
What do I do?  I ask them politely to define what makes someone a genuine Domme, since they are an expert.  I have said Id love to know, see what I have been doing wrong for so many years.
I tend not to get emails back, and I am on a  lot of blocked lists.  Saves me from having to block them :)

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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/3/2007 2:18:10 PM   
DianeB269


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ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

Oh i get this now and again.  I am obviously not genuine bcasue I wont make a confirmation phone call less than 3 hours into emailing someone for the first time.  OH and becasue I am not interested in cuckolding Angel with every sub that happens to be visinting nashville and happens upon my profile.




That's the same kind of crap I get in messages everyday.


Diane



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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/3/2007 9:58:58 PM   
MzMia


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Status: offline 		I have not heard that one in at least 2 weeks. LOL
I tell them, yes I am not a real domina, take care.
I have nothing to prove, especially to an unknown ass**** in cyberspace.
 Be glad you did not spend/invest a lot of time with him and you did not meet him!!!
SMILE and move on! you have been spared meeting getting to know a real ass****

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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/4/2007 2:55:56 AM   
ShiftedJewel


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Status: offline 		Witty comeback? I'm a dominant... I'm just not your dominant.
 
Hell, it works for the submissives.
 
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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/4/2007 5:20:54 AM   
Nic1982Domme


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Status: offline 		I've had 2 such experiences.

One was from a "Dom" telling Me that I wasn't genuine and My IP address put Me somewhere that's not Norwich.  Even if he could see My IP address, all it proved to Me was that he was about 14!  And a nerd.  And never going to get laid!

The 2nd one was recently from another "Dom" who said that for Me, a pint and a packet of crisps he'd go sub.  Then he blocked Me.  Loser.

Anyway, best comeback is simply to ignore them.  There's someone for everyone and if (assuming) he is too sad and pathetic to start on you because it's not moving as quickly as he wants to, that's his problem, not yours.

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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/4/2007 5:48:55 AM   
LadyEllen


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Status: offline 		Its easy to be a "genuine domme" surely?

All you have to do, is supply sufficiently arousing, masturbatory inspiration for them to get their jollies within 60 seconds of reading your mail. The best "genuine dommes" always read the respondent's profile before answering, so that they can echo the many diverse fantasies it infers, and also post a picture of themselves which is copied from a fetish website.

I mean to say, if youre going to be yourself and expect to be treated as a human being with thoughts and feelings of your own rather than an object, and not look like an 18 year old swimsuit model, what do you expect? You wont do it for such a wanker, and ergo must be fake!

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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/4/2007 6:25:54 AM   
KaramelGoddess


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Status: offline 		Thanks Ladies, for all your responses, I truly appreciate the feedback.  I'm continually learning and this is yet another lesson.
My lovely boy put it perfectly for Me last night: "Mistress, no one can take away or judge Your Domina status, there's no panel of official judges giving licences."
*le sigh* he always makes My day

With kind regard,
~Kara

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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/4/2007 7:46:41 AM   
thetammyjo


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Status: offline 		*plop* into the IGNORE file for that person.

I consider folks who makes such statements likely have a few problems none of which is attractive even on the level of standing on the same side of the street with them.

They are so insecure they must attack others to build up their self image.

They are so arrogant that they believe they have the right to determine and proclaim about others. (I might be doing that right now!)

They don't know how to take rejection in a mature fashion.

They are attempting to make someone angry to get any type of interaction going.

Gut level reaction would probably be the same as yours , KaramelGoddess, but in general I just ignore folks like that.

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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/4/2007 10:23:21 AM   
TexasMaam


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Status: offline 		I simply flash on a few of the precious moments shared with My sub, and smile.

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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/4/2007 10:32:05 AM   
Beatmehrdr


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KaramelGoddess

Ladies, what is your response when a person says you are not a genuine Domina?
This happened to Me for the first time recently and I got extremely annoyed and angry and lashed out - which I hate doing.
I know there are many here who have witty comebacks all the time, please share.
With kind regard,
~Kara


There are three sorts who say this:  Dommes who don't like the competition, male Doms who think every woman should sub to them, and subs angry at getting rejected.  In all three cases the response should be the same--send their messages to the circular file, and don't feed the trolls.

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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/4/2007 10:32:36 AM   
grillo


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Status: offline 		   I love You Mistress KaramelGoddess, my submission is Yours alone.  If You aren't a genuine Domina, then i don't know who is!  You are the most incredibly Dominant Lady i have ever known and i am amazed every day at how truly lucky i am to belong to such a magnificent Mistress.  i am never in doubt as to who is in control, You own me so perfectly my Lady.  From the moment i crawl to Your feet i know that is my place and i'm honoured to be there.  You hold my leash and i love Your firm hand keeping it tight.  Your Discipline has helped me become so much better a submissive, to learn to serve You the very best i can.  You have helped me explore places i didn't even know i had.  My Goddess, i am Your devoted and obedient slut always and whatever else anyone may think, You are my Mistress and i am so proud to be Yours :) Thank You for being my loving, beautiful, sexy, Domina:)))

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