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She says... - 2/3/2007 6:55:08 PM

Beatmehrdr

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quote:

Send me a Tribute.

To which I say:

quote:

Sure.
Mistress Rida is Great.
The End.

You think that was what she meant when she sent me that email?(unsolicited, I might add)

Granted, I'm a male sub, a dime a dozen, etc, etc. But do I have the word "Desperate" tattooed onto my forehead that attracts these emails?

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RE: She says... - 2/3/2007 7:16:47 PM

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I don't know.. no pic on your profile. Maybe she imagined it there?

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RE: She says... - 2/3/2007 8:05:42 PM

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Forget about Dom/mes like that. They're not worth a lick of thought.

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RE: She says... - 2/3/2007 9:33:39 PM

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ORIGINAL: Beatmehrdr
Granted, I'm a male sub, a dime a dozen, etc, etc. But do I have the word "Desperate" tattooed onto my forehead that attracts these emails?

You've no picture on profile, so I've no idea what's tattooed where, but your profile saying this

quote:

Male Sub/Slave seeks Femme Domme for play, maybe casual relationship

is indicative of someone who doesn't want the inconvenience of courtship or relationship, which may very well mean to some that you're willing to tribute to get beaten harder. Just my take, and of course I could be wrong. M

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RE: She says... - 2/4/2007 1:19:48 AM

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Bravo

Some dommes need to learn the just because a man is submissive, it dosn't mean he is your submissive.

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RE: She says... - 2/4/2007 1:29:52 AM

Beatmehrdr

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If you read through my diary entries, it is pretty obvious I'm not really looking for a one night stand:

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2/27/2006 8:01:22 PM
I realized that when I put down that I'm not interested in a LTR, it sounds like I'm looking for a one night stand. That's not really the case(not that I'd turn down the chance LOL). It is more like I want to make a connection, but I'm not sure I'm ready to commit to a collar or similar real, deep, heavy, leading-to-marriage type situation.

I want to connect with a Domme on a personal level, but I'm afraid that I might not be ready for that heavy a level of commitment. If that sounds a bit confused, I guess it is because I am. I want to enjoy the quiet moments, like massaging Her feet, talking, enjoying a fire as much as the beat me make me cry like a little girl moments. I want Her to want me as a person, and not just a sub.

But, frankly, I'm a bit afraid of commitment, so yes, I'm a bit confused in that regard. I guess that means I want to take things one day at a time and see how it goes.

3/13/2006 12:19:15 AM

Well, I've been examining the LTR thing again. The answer to a Domme who asks me if I want a long term relationship is the following, absolute answer:

I Don't Know.

I want to get to know you, whoever you might be. I'd like to take things a day at a time, and I'd like to see where things might lead. In some ways, I'm very much a babe in the woods when it comes to relationships. I like making Dominant women happy. But I don't know if I'm ready to look for a life partner yet. One day at a time, I guess

The thing that bothered me was the sheer presumptuousness of the message. The message, the entire message, was the following:

quote:

Hey big slave, Send me a tribute

and that was it. No mention of my profile, no mention of any mutual interests, just "send me a tribute[money]". I don't have any beef with pro Dommes at all, but an email like the one I got, it irks me. I've received mail from Publishers Clearing House that have had a greater level of emotional involvement than that email.

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RE: She says... - 2/4/2007 1:15:35 PM

aimtopleaseyou22

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i've dealt with her too... and definately not what i'm looking for. if all i'm gonna do is send money i might as well give it to some homeless guy in the city.

my suggestion... ignore it and go on. she's not worth the time and aggrivation.

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RE: She says... - 2/4/2007 1:19:14 PM

GuidingLite

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"she" is a he.

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RE: She says... - 2/4/2007 2:00:30 PM

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ORIGINAL: GuidingLite
"she" is a he.

I see the potential for such an attempt to be present across humans--amongst men and women.

Cheers,

Sea

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RE: She says... - 2/4/2007 7:18:17 PM

LadyClaudiaVan

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Yes, I have run into my fair share of men posing as women. Sad.

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RE: She says... - 2/4/2007 7:34:57 PM

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Ehn *shrugs*

We all get spammy random emails here, just another day!

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RE: She says... - 2/4/2007 10:57:46 PM

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Honestly, I didn't read that far because what I read and the impression I got were from your profile, not made up or really disclaimed in journal.

quote:

If you read through my diary entries, it is pretty obvious I'm not really looking for a one night stand:

Actually it's not obvious at all that you don't want a one night stand; in fact it's the only thing you are comfortable with committing to as you say

quote:

I realized that when I put down that I'm not interested in a LTR, it sounds like I'm looking for a one night stand. That's not really the case(not that I'd turn down the chance LOL
If that sounds a bit confused, I guess it is because I am.

This post is not to say you deserve for some wanker to email you asking for anything though... Most of us don't deserve the BS that comes through in email, but so what? It's the nature of the online beast (anonymitiy to be ...). It is easy enough to delete and block though when you get an email that is clearly undesirable, so that would be my advice, delete. M

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RE: She says... - 10/28/2007 4:54:18 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Beatmehrdr

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Send me a Tribute.

To which I say:

quote:

Sure.
Mistress Rida is Great.
The End.

You think that was what she meant when she sent me that email?(unsolicited, I might add)

Granted, I'm a male sub, a dime a dozen, etc, etc. But do I have the word "Desperate" tattooed onto my forehead that attracts these emails?

It could have been worse. The unsolicited email she sent me just said "ugly cracker"

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RE: She says... - 10/28/2007 5:08:35 PM

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Oh I can't stand it!!!! Not another "she wanted me to give her money" thread???

Don't like it? Delete the fucking email and MOVE ON!!! Sheesh!!

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RE: She says... - 10/28/2007 5:09:08 PM

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I could be wrong but, I dont think you're actually supposed to put their names in posts here under the TOS.

I read the thread...I read your profile and journals....the only question I have is why did they reject the picture of the rooster you had as your "cock" because I think that's freaking hilarious.

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RE: She says... - 10/28/2007 5:24:57 PM

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I don't know what you have tatooed on your forehead. But would you please respond and ask her if it works. I have my eye on this Isabella Fiore that I really want.

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RE: She says... - 10/28/2007 6:47:19 PM

AllforFun

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No offense, but we hear alot about the unsolicted submale-to-Domme stuff quite a bit..... I think this turn about is fair play.

*shrugs*

To the original poster, dont waste your time with such women, they are simply looking for doormats. I personally feel the whole monetary tribute thing is extortion (I work very hard for my money and it is difficult enough to come by.) I mean, come on...if you have to take money for it, your obviously not enjoying it so move on. Just my opinion.

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RE: She says... - 10/28/2007 6:52:16 PM

PsyVamp

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LOL!!!!
Heck, if it really works, we can all just go down the sub list and send that message..

*scratches her head* people really write that stuff? Oh! Wait! Its kind of like those HNG's who all want to jerk off on cam for me....

*goes back to sleep* Nothing new here.

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RE: She says... - 10/28/2007 6:58:47 PM

Goddess20

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ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

Oh I can't stand it!!!! Not another "she wanted me to give her money" thread???

Don't like it? Delete the fucking email and MOVE ON!!! Sheesh!!

I completely agree!

Its not difficult! Just move your mouse about 4 inches in a southenly direction and they are gone!

Not even 4 inches thinkin about it, I dont know I m no good with measurements, especially after a few double vodka and cokes!

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RE: She says... - 10/28/2007 7:44:19 PM

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Hey! It'd old thread resurrection week at CollarMe! I've been lurking the past few months, and I thought I'd give you all an update:

Well, it turns out, that the Domme in question and I have become quite an item. All the time she sent these "Send me a tribute" emails, and all she got was subs sending her money. She really wanted someone to email her back saying "Mistress is Great!" Anyway, we got married, had 2.3 kids, and moved to the suburbs with a house with a white picket fence. Unfortunately we got divorced soon afterwards. For our anniversary, she said she wanted me to make her a roast. I thought the request was kind of odd, but she carries the whip in this family, so I went along. It went horrible. She wanted pot roast, and I brought Don Rickles and Triumph the Insult Comic Dog.

Roast, get it? ::rimshot::

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