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Taking a chance - 3/7/2005 1:42:33 AM

RiotGirl

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RE: Taking a chance - 3/7/2005 3:16:13 AM

GingerleeDREAD

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quote:

"The world is hurting so embrace it"

I think in this situation
you should take your
own advice above.

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RE: Taking a chance - 3/7/2005 4:42:27 AM

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Online the safeword is the power button. Unless they are hacking your account and using your credit card info, the only power they have over you is the one you allow them to have.

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RE: Taking a chance - 3/7/2005 7:42:12 AM

MsSilvie

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You 'report' someone by sending a message to a moderator. That works the same on either side.

That being said, don't expect a lot of results. It's not the job of the site management to make sure everyone is safe and doesn't say upsetting things or act in an immature manner. Short of having some obviously threatening e-mail from the person, the best thing to do is block the profile and don't reply. Any reply you make is reinforcing your harasser to send the next e-mail. Blocking a profile takes 3 seconds. It is that easy. New account? Block it too. You are under no obligation to respond.

It's not a website for predators. But predators will be everywhere, here and other sites, regardless. People need to learn how to deal with them, and at the level you are describing, it's simple enough. Don't give them the attention they want.

Dealing with them yourself is far easier and better in the long run than expecting others to deal with them for you.

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RE: Taking a chance - 3/7/2005 7:59:21 AM

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As much as it pains this girl, she has to agree.

The only power a person has over another online is the power
you give them.

That said, don't have much hope in the mods. while sure that
they are busy busy..... it's a selective thing in the end. What you
see as a threat or annoyance, is nothing to someone else.

Good luck Riot... please stay safe.

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RE: Taking a chance - 3/7/2005 8:45:39 AM

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RE: Taking a chance - 3/7/2005 9:34:25 AM

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Riot,

Please believe this girl... she does understand what you are saying.

stormi knew you were trying to warn. Unfortunately,
no one in the end seems to care..... stormi has been warned in the
past and ignore only to learn the lesson the hard way. So have others
and unfortunately.......for some of us it's the only way to learn.

But stormi's been in your shoes as well, in trying to warn others.
If stormi had her way we could expose with names the hunters based
upon what the prey has to offer as prove. But it doesn't work that way.

LOL, stormi tried and the mods wrote Master and basically said they
would take away stormi's "posting" priviledges. LOL.... will not say what
is thought of that.

Honestly in terms of the orginal post.... you have this girl's backing.
Call it for what it is and name the name..... But unless you make the
"a" list, it's unlikely it will be allowed.

best of luck and keep trying. You're a good addition to this board.

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RE: Taking a chance - 3/7/2005 10:11:47 AM

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To me it's nothing to do with being favored or not.

Unless you've got some police records online I can check up on, I don't want to hear about rumors and "bad doms."

What's to prevent anyone from going all over the boards saying stuff about YOU? It could happen just as easily.

There's a lot of angry ex's, passive aggressive dorks and other nonsense and I'd prefer to make people have proof and deal with real stuff offline rather than online drama-making.

I'm not doubting Riot's experience, and if this were an offline stalker my advice would be very different. But I can't support the idea of smearing someone's cyber name based on a cyber personal tale, even if it is true.

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RE: Taking a chance - 3/7/2005 5:01:40 PM

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RE: Taking a chance - 3/7/2005 6:23:47 PM

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Theese things happen. i say ignore him. Some online Dominants and pepole in general dont understand why a submissive will not emidiatly have sex whit them. They are stupid, and there is nothing you can do aboute that. Shut them out from your world and they will not exisit in it.

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