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sexyone4you -> RE: Subs that just won't go away (2/5/2007 9:44:57 AM)

I haven't ever done that, but I have had to do that to a couple of "Doms" on here. I personally wouldn't think there would be a point to trying again, but some people believe in having a million chances to change your mind.  Maybe I am missing out on something by not giving them 4th, 5th, or 6th  chances, but if I blocked them in the first place, they must have done something pretty crazy to begin with & it would be better if they did stay away.



littleone35 -> RE: Subs that just won't go away (2/5/2007 1:45:37 PM)

That sounds almost like stalking to me.  I would never do that if someone blocks me that means they are not interested.  Ok fine i will move on to grenner pastures, i was never blocked but before i found my Master that is what i would have done.

Matt's littleone



sexyone4you -> RE: Subs that just won't go away (2/5/2007 4:43:29 PM)

Funny this post just came up.  One of the guys I have blocked in the past showed back up.  [sm=banghead.gif]



gandalf0297 -> RE: Subs that just won't go away (2/5/2007 5:01:31 PM)

And the point is....................?



BalletBob -> RE: Subs that just won't go away (2/5/2007 6:17:15 PM)

I never done or would never do that. I like the name I have here.

As for contacting some Domme or Dom after they blocked me, NEVER ! I feel as if someone doesn't want to chat/write or hear from me, why bother. I just move on.

Sincerly, Sub BalletBob



TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Subs that just won't go away (2/5/2007 8:00:06 PM)

My own personal pride aside,I still would not do so.The continual rejections alone would be hard..and truthfully pride not put aside,I could not demean myself to such an extent.....Tempting



littlesarbonn -> RE: Subs that just won't go away (2/5/2007 8:37:27 PM)

If someone indicates a desire NOT to talk to me, I'm certainly not into humiliation to where I would do anything to communicate with that person ever again.



Siona -> RE: Subs that just won't go away (2/5/2007 9:47:41 PM)

I've been contacted also by a sub, several times. I've blocked him 3 times already. He's come back with different versions of the same name each time. His message is the same every time. Hate it when they can't even take the time to write out an email with a little bit of thought instead of cut and paste.



swtnsparkling -> RE: Subs that just won't go away (2/6/2007 2:47:08 AM)

FR- anyone who does this  comes across to me as
Desperate



asubmissiveheart -> RE: Subs that just won't go away (2/7/2007 6:43:45 PM)

Sounds pretty desperate to me, I would go back to the reason that you blocked him in the first place.



MasterGremlin -> RE: Subs that just won't go away (2/7/2007 7:05:45 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: IWantToPunish

I have a question for all you subs/slaves out there.
I have had several "subs"  who I have blocked create another name and contact me again.  My question is this; as a sub/slave, if a Domme or even Dom for that matter blocks you, do you really think you would have a chance if you created another name and tried again?  I do not mean creating another name and pretending to be a different person, but creating another name and telling the Domme/Dom who blocked you who you really are ( you say something to the extent of : i am so and so, you blocked me, can i have another chance ). 
Have any of you ever done that?  If so, did it work? 

Thanks for all your input
Miss C


I would say they have moved out of the "sub" catagory and into the "stalker" catagory.
Sincerely,
minxy [:)]



steviemichael -> RE: Subs that just won't go away (2/8/2007 1:49:47 AM)

Hey how did I get a vanilla ice cream cone designation :(.

sweetsyn
they ran out of *lollypops*



sexyone4you -> RE: Subs that just won't go away (2/8/2007 2:28:25 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Siona

I've been contacted also by a sub, several times. I've blocked him 3 times already. He's come back with different versions of the same name each time. His message is the same every time. Hate it when they can't even take the time to write out an email with a little bit of thought instead of cut and paste.


LOL, that is funny!  Make a little effort!



Trampler -> RE: Subs that just won't go away (2/8/2007 2:56:11 PM)

"snickers" Yeah if your going to stalk somebody at least pull your head outta yr ass and be alittle creative!



kittensmailbox -> RE: Subs that just won't go away (2/8/2007 3:36:23 PM)

my former Master and i still talk time to time, but i never stoked Him, nor would i.... Thats just sad,...



CandleInTheWind -> RE: Subs that just won't go away (2/8/2007 11:20:45 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: IWantToPunish

I have a question for all you subs/slaves out there.
I have had several "subs"  who I have blocked create another name and contact me again.  My question is this; as a sub/slave, if a Domme or even Dom for that matter blocks you, do you really think you would have a chance if you created another name and tried again?  I do not mean creating another name and pretending to be a different person, but creating another name and telling the Domme/Dom who blocked you who you really are ( you say something to the extent of : i am so and so, you blocked me, can i have another chance ). 
Have any of you ever done that?  If so, did it work? 

Thanks for all your input
Miss C


may i suggest that you are explicit with these people and actually say that youa re not interested....if you mearly block them they think that it is just a little thing that you can be pesuaded otherwise...if you say HEY LOOK I am not interested perhaps you may have a btter response.



MysticFireTopaz -> RE: Subs that just won't go away (2/9/2007 1:24:30 AM)

A few subs that I blocked created a new screen name and contacted me again, asking for a second chance.  The answer was always no, because if they did something to annoy me to the point of blocking them in the first place, they are not someone I want in my life. 
 
There is also a local sub (major pest!) who deactivates and reactivates his profile all the time.  This seems to take off the block, because he shows up in my inbox again, desperately pleading for a second chance, despite the fact that I blocked him.  If more than a few weeks have gone by, he forgets what he did and writes to me like we had never had previous contact.   He is bothering so many different women that he can't keep track of them all.  Now, whenevever I see a message with that screen name, I simply delete it without ever reading it.  One would think he'd get the hint after repeated rejections, but he doesn't.  One morning after he reactivated his profile, there were five new messages in my inbox, all of which were deleted unread.
 
Lady Topaz



sexyone4you -> RE: Subs that just won't go away (2/9/2007 11:28:32 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CandleInTheWind

quote:

ORIGINAL: IWantToPunish

I have a question for all you subs/slaves out there.
I have had several "subs"  who I have blocked create another name and contact me again.  My question is this; as a sub/slave, if a Domme or even Dom for that matter blocks you, do you really think you would have a chance if you created another name and tried again?  I do not mean creating another name and pretending to be a different person, but creating another name and telling the Domme/Dom who blocked you who you really are ( you say something to the extent of : i am so and so, you blocked me, can i have another chance ). 
Have any of you ever done that?  If so, did it work? 

Thanks for all your input
Miss C


may i suggest that you are explicit with these people and actually say that youa re not interested....if you mearly block them they think that it is just a little thing that you can be pesuaded otherwise...if you say HEY LOOK I am not interested perhaps you may have a btter response.


While I cannot speak for anyone else who has experienced this, I can say that I have gone the direct route.  One was convinced I was playing hard to get.  I told him that I didn't want him to contact me anymore & I was continuing my search.  He still kept it up anyway til I blocked him.  Then he started showing up on other sites I am on.  He's a freak.



kishasub -> RE: Subs that just won't go away (2/9/2007 11:50:19 AM)

Never done it and i never would if someone says not interested it should be respected.



LadyIce -> RE: Subs that just won't go away (2/10/2007 10:13:24 AM)

People go away that you want to go away.  Lately I delete mail from people I don't know on here.
It really is not that hard to make people go away, especially online.
Find the delete button and use it often.



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