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FireWalker -> RE: A site teaching the Sub/slave Menstrual Servitude~ (3/22/2005 12:26:56 AM)
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-=smiles and winks to knees2you=-
I want to say thank you to knees for finding this and sharing it with all those who had a read. I for One was pleasantly surprised by some of what I read... I would like to encourage whomever to read this site and see that there are wonderful ways to serve during this time every month and the opportunity to enrich your D/s experience, add new rituals that can be and are really wonderful... I know I for one will enjoy some of this in the months I have remaining. Kind of makes Me wish it would last a little longer...lol
I really enjoyed the section on Duties of the menstrual slave and I can see how ANYONE could work this into their D/s life. I mean if I had a dollar for every time I ran out of pads... I would have a few more pairs of shoes, boots, and leather pants!
Quote from the page
What does a menstrual slave do? Hmmm... just about anything you can think of for him to do! Some ideas (season to taste):
1. The slave will (after consulting with Mistress as to her personal preferences) purchase all pads, tampons, Midol, wet-wipes, douches, etc., that are required to care for Mistress during her period.
2a. The slave is responsible for attending to Mistress's personal hygiene during the duration of her period. This includes following Mistress (on hands and knees) into the bathroom when she uses it and will kneel before her as she uses the toilet. The menstrual slave will check, by sight and by questioning whether she feels the need to have her pads or tampons changed, how she desires to be cleaned (tongue, wash cloth, wet-wipes, douche, etc.), and checking to see if she needs new panties.
2b. If Mistress and her slave are in public (restaurant, theatre, etc.) when she uses the bathroom, the slave will follow her to the door of the bathroom, kissing Mistress's hand as a sign of respect, before she enters the bathroom. The slave will wait at the door of the restroom, until Mistress emerges, where he will greet her with another kiss of her hand. (Or substitute any other appropriate show of devotion.)
3. Mistress's panties, if soiled with blood, are to be hand-laundered by the slave.
4. The slave is to pay extra-special attention to Mistress's breasts and abdomen, and will tend to any discomfort she may be experiencing. The slave may suggest gentle massage, heating pads, ibuprofen, soothing drinks, etc. for Mistress's comfort.
5. If Mistress keeps track of her period on a calendar or planner, it is the slave's duty to record the start date, end date, and make any daily notes regarding amount of flow, special pain or sensitivity Mistress feels, swelling or bloating, body temperature, menstrual headaches, moods, sexual energy, or any other special charting Mistress wishes to have recorded for medical or fertility purposes. (More great ideas for documenting your period here!!! http://coolgold.com.au/~imacleod/keeptrack.html)
6. If Mistress uses the birth control pill, she may require her slave to feed it to her daily at an appointed time.
7. The slave will create a menstrual kit to be carried when away from home. The kit may include items such as pads, tampons, disposable douches, Wet Wipes, panties, K-Y or Astroglide and food dye (see #8 in Privileges/punishments section), red nail polish, a red ribbon or string, a red marker, Midol or ibuprofen, latex gloves if applicable, spare birth control (hormonal supplements) if applicable, spare hand towel, etc. This can be packed in a small duffel bag, diaper bag, or another bag with compartments. (A red bag would be fun!)
8. The slave will keep his own special "period panties" to be worn during the duration of Mistress's period, out of respect for this special time.
9. The slave will conduct online research into the menstrual cycle, to gain a better understanding of Mistress's health and menstrual experience. (See "Resources" for some URL's to get him started).
10. Sheets and bedding will be cleaned by the slave. If Mistress enjoys blood play during her period, a rubber sheet may be used to keep the mattress from staining during sex and sleep.
sounds pretty good to Me!! -=wonders how many more periods I will have before I stop=- I was looking forward to Menopause... maybe I won't be rushing now...lol Like most things, it is all about what Y/you personally need/want/enjoy taking something and making it work for you... None of those duties involve anything that I see as distaseful (no pun intended, well maybe a little one, lol) in fact I see those as being a really wonderful way to show a deeper level of personal servitude.
-=winks=- Great topic knees! thank you.
Fire Walker
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