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Termyn8or -> Hello again (2/5/2007 10:50:55 AM)
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Nice to be here. It is. I thought what I would do in this post is get a bit more personal, so to speak. I figure it this way, there is nothing wrong with introducing yourself again.
I wanted to be more specific, and actually some things have changed. So this is sort of an update. What actually spurred me on to post this was another post, or reply I did. In it I put "cmail me if", well the suggestion was kinky of course, not really out of place, but in a way it was.
I have learned alot, about people's opinions in general from the others here, and Moderator Eleven has taught me a bit of netiquette. So I emerge no longer a newbie on this board. Other branches of this forum are not for trying to get dates. Then I realized, "Introduce Yourself" is where stuff like this belongs. It really does. More public than your profile (I need to update mine). but not in somebody's face in like "Humor" or something.
You'll see in my profile that I like alot of things. One of the main things I want to say is that if some of these things are a big turnoff for you, do not hesitate to contact me based on that. I have enough kinks that I can live without about 75% of them. I can do alot of compromising for the right person. To have a relationship with someone I can hang around with, get along with to some degree, as well as have fun during playtime, would be worth foregoing certain kinks.
So if you are submissive don't worry about it. If we hook up, I will make you feel welcome and wanted. I will control your orgasms, and if you want I will control any other aspect of your life, as agreed upon. Even your money. I would prefer not to really. I would rather keep that out of it. I don't even want a joint bank account.
This relationship will become as light or as heavy as it does, by natural causes. It can be weekend trysts at a motel, or you could move in. Anything in between. You might be a dog between the sheets, but when we emerge into the real world you have the same standing in life as I.
If you want to be dominated I could say,,,if you just cooked something at my house for example and it was really good, I might say "WOMAN COME", and give you a hug. Something like that. Each person has different needs and desires, and this must be hashed out. Relationships don't work because people don't work on them, just like your car will stop running if you never put any oil in it. Drawing another analogy, some people are so self centered that they seem not to even put gas in it.
If you read my posts around here, you might draw the conclusion that I am opinionated, always think I am right and a bit forceful and dominant. You would be correct.
But there is a submissive, soft side to me. And if I can't find it, you can chain me to the bed and see if you can find it. Because I am a switch.
No matter who you are, best of luck finding what (or who) you are looking for.
T
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