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domtimothy46176 -> RE: value (3/8/2005 6:30:31 AM)
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I measure my girl's happiness in the whole rather than in the short-term. I may make her very unhappy for an hour or two but only in order to ensure her overall sense of happiness and well-being. In that context I feel her overall level of contentment is the yardstick by which I judge the effectiveness of my strategy.
My personal belief is that if I ensure my girl's happiness is directly proportional to how well she serves me, I am providing the environment I promised her. By refusing to allow her to take responsibility for those variables beyond her control while reminding her of those improvements she needs to make in her behavior, I give her the opportunity to be successful in herself, in our relationship and ultimately, in life. Knowing her as I do, I understand that, for her, that is the key to her happiness and fulfillment.
I can say with, all honesty, that I value her happiness because I value her. I promised her only the opportunity to serve with honor, which she does, on a daily basis. Helping her find happiness by exceeding her own goals is one small way that I show my appreciation for all that she does. I have learned to love her for who and what she is as a person and I respect her greatly. Knowing that she is happy and fulfilled in her life with me tells me that I have made the right decisions for both of us and that is incredibly gratifying.
Timothy
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