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AquaticSub -> RE: Healthy lifestyle (2/11/2007 9:07:22 PM)
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ORIGINAL: amayos
If you feel you must cross-reference your Master's methods and seek guidance beyond what he provides to placate your own instinctual concerns or fears, I would suggest you reconsider the trust and selfless devotion serving as a "slave" ideally entails. Perhaps you are not quite ready for that, and for what may be very good reasons. Entering into such an arrangement should be carried out with considerable motive, caution and mental intercourse. I'm aware many people have different ideas about what a slave is, but in my world, that is not an appointment to be taken lightly at all.
I would say that suggesting that every dominant knows exactly what is best all the time is foolish. My dominant freely admits that I know more about this "lifestyle" then him. I have more experience and I have a stronger desire just to know and interact with others in this lifestyle then he does.
Exactly what "misinformation" are you worried about? My dominant knows that I make a comparsion between our relationship and another one then I probably have a damn good point and have put considerable thought into it. Because of my interaction with others whose lifestyle we didn't identify with at first, misinformation if you will, I have gained knowledge that, by sharing with him, has granted us a better understanding of our own dynamic.
I do, am encouraged to, and encourage others to cross-reference methods. This isn't a game of cards we are playing. Both physical and mental trama can be inflicted. Isolation has always been a red flag for abuse. Tacking "Master" onto your name doesn't magically change that fact.
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