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Most Dominant Moment - 3/8/2005 4:00:59 PM

jock888

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What is the most dominant moment you can remember as either a slave/sub or Mistress?

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RE: Most Dominant Moment - 3/8/2005 4:32:23 PM

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What is the most dominant moment you can remember as either a slave/sub or Mistress?

Being born and screaming to the world that I had arrived ;) Ever since that moment, I have not been any less dominant.

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RE: Most Dominant Moment - 3/8/2005 9:08:20 PM

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That is a loaded question but an intriguing one.

First Dominant Thing I was told about doing
My father did not believe in pacifiers. I apparently did. By screaming (not crying) constantly as a new born I got the pacifier. It was the only way he was going to get any sleep. But that might mean I was just bitchy.

First Time I was deliberately Dominant.
Around age 12-13. My girl cousins and I were about the same age and we all had pubic hair developing. My slightly younger brother wanted to look (NOT touch) at the hair. I brokered a deal.....he could look IF he walked into the water slowly enough that we could watch his penis shrivel from the cold....even had him walk in twice because it shrank too quick the first time. That was when I discovered that I could get what I wanted on My terms if I was willing to negotiate.

Most Dominant Moment I can remember?
That is a lot harder to identify. Perhaps it was the day My now ex-husband pulled a knife and went after My step-father. I stepped between them and forced My ex to back off and leave.

Most Dominant Moment as a Domina?
*eyes twinkling*......many

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RE: Most Dominant Moment - 3/10/2005 3:24:38 AM

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Well, I'm a short, skinny person with a baby face.
To most of people (both genders), I look like a poweless girl.

The most dominant moment;
people of both genders in vanilla world who don't know I'm a domme, start listening to my opinion/idea seriously when they get to know me more and more.
There are nothing forced nor is it emphasized, just happens that I'd dominated them at some point.

Maybe, I cannot creat a dominant moment (except obvious sessions), just I'm with it all the time by nature...?

Does this make sense to you?

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RE: Most Dominant Moment - 3/10/2005 9:29:39 AM

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Uuuummm, I've dwelled on this post a bit, as I cannot quite pin down a "most dominant moment", since it's just who I am every day and in every way - vanilla and BDSM. So, I can totally relate to All here who say it's just who they are and that it's hard to think of just one moment.

One moment that occurs often which I relate to My "dominant charisma" is being able to stop conversation and dominate a room by sheer presence upon entering the room.

Another 'oft occuring moment, which happens in the vanilla world as well within the realm of My BDSM activities, can be when speaking with someone while having direct eye contact at which some point, they lower their eyes and look away. That's such a classic moment that, for Me, can often relate to the most animal beings in us - like a law of the jungle - the submissive animal is often the first to look away and will not hold the stare of another Dominant is it's kind. So, the confident, Dominant gaze that can cause another to look down and not be able to hold My stare, that's often a tame but classic Dominant moment for Me!!

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