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RE: Paradox of the sexes - 2/7/2007 4:28:51 PM

LadyJulieAnn

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ORIGINAL: BBBTBW

I seriously think this is a thread started by someone seeking DRAMA on the boards. Simply because of his use of certain words.

I agree, based on his profile.

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RE: Paradox of the sexes - 2/7/2007 6:48:53 PM

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I would hope that my Mistress didn't choose me based on some idea of me being a wussie. In fact from what she tells me it was because I stood out from the other males she met as I am successful in my vanilla life, I am articulate, intelligent and I stand up to people. She also liked the fact that I was very outgoing and outspoken. But what she really liked the most was the fact that I adore and worship her, does that make me a wussie? If you are in a vanilla marriage and you don't adore and worship your wife then I think you have issues and your marriage is going to end up on the rocks. I just happen to take the adoration, respect and worship to a higher level as I see her as superior to myself. It has NOTHING to do with being weak or pussyified. In fact, if you look at most of the ads the Dommes have posted on this site you will see that they want strong men in life who worship women and are willing to hand over their power to them.
As I see it, that doesn't make them wussies, it makes us smart! Someday the other men will realize where they have went wrong and wish they would have learned sooner.
Oh and about the bum comment, I know plenty of men who have suffered devasting divorces and have been reduced to nothing...all in vanilla "old-fashioned" marriages. Kinda messes up your theory huh!

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RE: Paradox of the sexes - 2/7/2007 7:02:59 PM

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ORIGINAL: ServenteMail

What is the desire (if any) a straight Female has in a male sub in a relationship? Does not the pussification of men apply even more if they now act and consider themselves as subs or slaves both emmotionally and in life and business and sexually?

And to clarify I am not talking of the pro’s or women who need males for money or labor – I am talking about just a good old vanilla relationship – where the guy is the pussy. What is programming that exists in a FD/ms LTR that goes against what has been programmed into the genders?

What do you do with an 50+ year old m. slave who lived such a life when you are done with it? Do these become the bums we see walking the streets with no money and place to live?

Be honest.

Being "honest", as others have mentioned, you are are Full of many misconceptions about submissive men! Many are quite successful in their professional lives. The Dominant Women that I know and appreciate, also like their men to have among other things intelligence, self motivation, and other outside interests with which they can also relate. Speaking for myself, I am only submissive to one woman at a time, and SHE gets all the attention which she asks or commands from me. If I were a "worm", in my experience, none of the Dominants I've been with would have been interested in being with me.

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RE: Paradox of the sexes - 2/7/2007 8:40:11 PM

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Dear ServenteMail, Ladies and Gentlemen;

In my mind's eyes I see, that you have dabbled into some drama, some porn or writings from magazines or books, to which portrays the submissive man as weak, a worm and or... a 'pussy.'

In this lifestyle/community, you will find as many varieties of submission from men, as there are for submissive women; to add to the many varieties of Dominant men and women.

It is finding the proper match with the right person.

For me, the slave males I prefer are anything but weak. Most can rip your ribs out of your chest within a second. From legal experts to highly trained elite soldiers, from chefs and from stable boys-- Those who have served me have come from different ages, sizes and shapes and colors--even sexual preference differences.

I do wish for a long term lifestyle with the right man/men. But--they must be right for me.

Just some thoughts.

Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs

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RE: Paradox of the sexes - 2/7/2007 9:26:26 PM

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What do you do with an 50+ year old m. slave who lived such a life when you are done with it? Do these become the bums we see walking the streets with no money and place to live?

Yup. All those homeless guys are ex-slaves. If a hot chick walked into a homeless shelter wearing thigh-high boots and carrying a whip, she could walk out with a shambling, unwashed army, and not a windshield in the city would be safe.

Incidentally, using the word "pussy" as a pejorative in a pro-Female forum is a really weak and transparent way to troll. Please to be upgrading your drama paradox.

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RE: Paradox of the sexes - 2/7/2007 9:36:17 PM

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ORIGINAL: petdave

Yup. All those homeless guys are ex-slaves. If a hot chick walked into a homeless shelter wearing thigh-high boots and carrying a whip, she could walk out with a shambling, unwashed army, and not a windshield in the city would be safe.

And here I thought my computer screen was safe from diet coke spray tonight.

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RE: Paradox of the sexes - 2/7/2007 9:41:51 PM

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Yes, the end result of my pussification training is that I become a full-fledged, dysfunctional dweeb in a french maids dress.

And..... this is the precursor to being a shunned, homeless bum (with better than average hygiene) in later age.

The flip side, sometimes forgotten by astute observes of human development, is the cockification of my Mistress which results in higher wages for her but also a shrinking breast size and distension of her clitoris.

Really don't want to reply to this thread but DID want to give you props.

As per usual.

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