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RE: What gives???? - 2/8/2007 6:27:41 PM

DianeB269

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ORIGINAL: MzMia

Thanks for posting this Diane, you opened my eyes a lot and confirmed a lot of my feelings.
Believe me even though you did not name names, the smile is on my face.

It makes Me very happy knowing that I made you smile.

Diane

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RE: What gives???? - 2/8/2007 8:30:31 PM

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Over the years, I've kind of run into this same kind of bizarre behavior from male doms, at least through the dominant women I have known in my life. And why they may be more present on your admirer lists than submissive males is probably the same reason I chose not to become one some time back. Personally, from postings and such, I've always thought you were both really cool and someone I would have loved to have gotten to know, but your profile also indicates an intention to not be interested in others, so I kind of figured back then that becoming an "admirer" might give off the impression that I'm trying to seek a relationship that you most certainly stated you weren't interested in, and so like others I suspect, I decided that silent admiration was the right step instead. Others with an agenda probably wouldn't have felt that way.

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RE: What gives???? - 2/9/2007 8:16:38 AM

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Sub or dom, they still have prostates. So they write to a domme looking for some sensation play. The pity of it is that they should be able to get their subs to understand that this is no difference from a massage, just another physical sensation they want their subs to perform on them. But it's tough for a sub to comprehend this at first.

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RE: What gives???? - 2/13/2007 11:29:08 AM

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Someone sent me an email about this thread, I dont come over this way for various reasons but this particular topic peeked my interest. I am having similar troubles on this board (have been a member since almost its starting point). I love CM, it has allways been my favorite BDSM, D/s site on the net! But lately, the "Dom males" I have met, seem to be a lil on the (for lack of a better word) "sweet" side if ya know what I mean. I dont want to hurt anyone's feelings but I know a guy that would suck a winky when I see them. They are easy to spot, even if they dont know that themselves. And I am growing rather tired of meeting guys that just dont seem very manly. Now I know some are going to jump on this post and really try to tear it apart, so be it. The fact still remains I think its a problem that alot are dealing with just not many are mentioning.

*yeah!!! shes off her soap box*

glad to meet you all!

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RE: What gives???? - 2/13/2007 12:58:20 PM

VeryMercurial

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Thanks for posting dadeesgurl, I have found the majority of the submissive men on this site to be bisexual or bicurious.
I am not surprised that the Doms are like that also.
I do not mean any offense, but that has been my experience on this site.

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RE: What gives???? - 2/13/2007 2:18:28 PM

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well I dont encounter many male subs, so I dont know what they are really like. But I do know that more and more I am seeing what I think is men joining the ranks of Domhood to validate themselves as a man....and I am not falling for it.

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RE: What gives???? - 2/13/2007 4:41:37 PM

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I think there are some men as maybe some woman who really not set on their limitations.Either bevcause maybe a desire to explore their own limits, or maybe in the hopes of something deeper ,like finding someone in the form of friendship or other relationship. We all can hide identity behind the keyboards.We can all go out and try something once..or twice and not call ourselves gay . Strap ons can give some of the sensations that being with a nother man may be able to offer someone who still wants the beauty of a female but the kink or experience of a male to male fantasy. I am expecting that alot of what i said may seem simple in concept , but I am sure for some people out here just want to be with someone .

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