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hot1 -> Ass play (2/8/2007 9:53:04 AM)
This might sound stupid or strange...but I am curious and god knows if I want to know I ask. Those that enjoy ass play......do you enjoy it for the physical aspect or the mental aspect...or both? and why? hot1

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Ass play (2/8/2007 9:58:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hot1 This might sound stupid or strange...but I am curious and god knows if I want to know I ask. Those that enjoy ass play......do you enjoy it for the physical aspect or the mental aspect...or both? and why? hot1 Physically I suppose. Mentally it doesn't do much for me either way. If done right, it feels really good and I enjoy it, just like kissing, oral, hair brushing, etc.

ashamedhuby -> RE: Ass play (2/8/2007 10:02:27 AM)
i love having my ass touched, licked and screwed...its such a great feeling being opened up

sleazybutterfly -> RE: Ass play (2/8/2007 10:07:12 AM)
We haven't done much other than anal sex and spanking. At first I couldn't stand anything back there, it hurt too much and I just felt uncomfortable with it. Now, I very much love it and look forward to more things that are involved. For me, its the pleasure..but also the mental aspect. It seems a bit forbidden, and it makes my body feel like its no longer mine, he has total control over all parts of it..even the "forbidden" ones.

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Ass play (2/8/2007 10:19:49 AM)
It simply plain feels good when done right for me.

hot1 -> RE: Ass play (2/8/2007 10:23:47 AM)
For me it is mental. I guess maybe I have been torn too often down there that I just get scared when anyone starts to go there....BUT...is a big thing for me, I want to go there, is like you take any hole any time you want it. The mental aspect sends me into a state that I am owned and he can do with me as he pleases....if that makes sense. I fantascy about it a lot, and slowly starting to feel something other than pain...lol...is strange, years ago I was with a Dom that required I wear a butt plug for at least 8 hours a day. It never hurt back then.....maybe I should go get checked out. hot1

RavenMuse -> RE: Ass play (2/8/2007 10:56:16 AM)
From My side a) it feels good b)it is one of the options on a girl and I Own the girl..... it would feel like I didn't own ALL of her if I couldn't use all of her. Also it is something that triggers a very submissive responce in many girls, much more than oral or vaginal sex, probably because there is a strong taboo element involved for many. I like that responce and that adds to the pleasure I get as well as the pleasure they do.

sublace -> RE: Ass play (2/8/2007 11:05:37 AM)
I just love it!! It feels so great to have my behind filled and the bigger the better. The sensation is AWESOME!! Its the best thing I have to offer anyone who wants to use it. Wish I would have had it used much earlier in my life too. sublace

toservez -> RE: Ass play (2/8/2007 11:46:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RavenMuse Also it is something that triggers a very submissive responce in many girls, much more than oral or vaginal sex, probably because there is a strong taboo element involved for many. I like that responce and that adds to the pleasure I get as well as the pleasure they do. Bingo that’s me! I can enjoy ass play when in a vanilla situation but the thrill of ass play for me is that it makes me feel very submissive which is why I probably also enjoy it in vanilla settings. Physically it is less stimulating but mentally it is way more stimulating.

calicowgirl -> RE: Ass play (2/8/2007 12:48:04 PM)
It is a combination for me. I really enjoy it physically but when with one I belong to it puts me in a very submissive frame of mind that adds to the relationship in a way it never did with vanilla men. Cali

savannasub -> RE: Ass play (2/8/2007 1:29:23 PM)
I'm up for it but I have not yet found the lady to partake since a few years back and I wonder if I should tell her anything to make it better for her. Also...short of recently getting a dildo I am pretty inexperienced in anal play--any advice on making it run smoothly?

SingleRarity -> RE: Ass play (2/8/2007 2:38:02 PM)
I enjoy it for both. In terms of the physical aspect, it just feels good. The mental aspects of it vary, but some of the reasons I love to do it to someone are: 1. It often makes them feel especially slutty. 2. Some women cannot orgasm from being done in the ass, which makes me ever so pleased that it's all for me. 3. Some women just plain don't like it at, so then I really enjoy the fact that they are taking it for me. 4. And as RevenMuse said, it does often trigger a very submissive response. One of the strongest and toughest women I've ever known, that person you'd never expect to be submissive, would completely submit the second I went anywhere near her back there.

Wildfleurs -> RE: Ass play (2/8/2007 2:42:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hot1 This might sound stupid or strange...but I am curious and god knows if I want to know I ask. Those that enjoy ass play......do you enjoy it for the physical aspect or the mental aspect...or both? and why? hot1 For me its primarily the physical aspect of it. Anything with my owner has a D/s overtone, so for that reason it certainly has a bit of a mental aspect. But its not much of a taboo or forbiden thing for me, its just something that when done a particular way just feels very good (and with my owner something I can orgasm from). C~

hereyesruponyou -> RE: Ass play (2/8/2007 2:53:10 PM)
For me it's some thing that makes me feel submissive and i am always a little afraid before, but once it starts and i open up, it gives me the most intense orgasms, and makes me beg for more. Which makes me feel very slutty, which is a great side effect.......

sexyone4you -> RE: Ass play (2/8/2007 3:05:21 PM)
It's both for me too. I enjoy ass play physically. The orgasm I get from it is great. The mental aspects are better. I also feel owned & completely submissive to the Dom during ass play.

RoamingTomCat -> RE: Ass play (2/8/2007 3:16:41 PM)
Speaking as a novice male hetrosexual switch. I think both "a" & "b" are equal - It is yet another sexual act that can be administered with enthusiasm my both both players ---I love to give and receive mmmmmmm beautiful

WayHome -> RE: Ass play (2/8/2007 8:25:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hot1 For me it is mental. I guess maybe I have been torn too often down there that I just get scared when anyone starts to go there.... Tearing is bad. I hate to say on a site like this that anything is "right" or "wrong" but I think if you are experiencing tears then you are doing it "wrong". Try to get your owner to slow down, use more lube, and give you a chance to open up. Leto

sexyone4you -> RE: Ass play (2/8/2007 8:45:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WayHome quote: ORIGINAL: hot1 For me it is mental. I guess maybe I have been torn too often down there that I just get scared when anyone starts to go there.... Tearing is bad. I hate to say on a site like this that anything is "right" or "wrong" but I think if you are experiencing tears then you are doing it "wrong". Try to get your owner to slow down, use more lube, and give you a chance to open up. Leto Agreed. Nothing ruins a nice scene like a trip to the ER.

WingedSnake -> RE: Ass play (2/8/2007 9:12:52 PM)
The physical aspect mainly, the mental aspect to a lesser degree. And i/we do it, because it feels so wonderful.

hot1 -> RE: Ass play (2/9/2007 6:24:18 AM)
He can do it without tearing....he just usually prefers to tear it...looks after it himself, never had to go to the ER...he just likes doing things that will keep me in pain and thinking about him and what he has done for days hot1

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