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babydoll36 -> rant (2/8/2007 9:57:13 AM)
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LuckyAlbatross -> RE: rant (2/8/2007 9:59:19 AM)
I WOULDN'T start a thread about it before handling it directly. I WOULD go the dom directly with my feelings, ideas, and hard evidence and see how they respond. And likely the relationship would be over.

Feminita -> RE: rant (2/8/2007 10:01:17 AM)
I'd ball out...once a cheater how can they be (ever) trusted again...what was is "excuse for doing so? dont be guiled into the believeing him as "just seeing" not touching nonsense!

BitaTruble -> RE: rant (2/8/2007 10:01:19 AM)
First, I'd talk to him.. then change my own profile to reflect that I already had a dom so I wouldn't be accused of being a pot calling a kettle black. Celeste

juliaoceania -> RE: rant (2/8/2007 10:02:22 AM)
I would ask him about it, and I would remember that if someone is emailing you "information", and you do not know this person, there are two sides to every story. If I had time invested in someone I would tend to give that person the benefit of the doubt. Some people on the internet love to play games with other people's relationships, or they have sour grapes. I would not believe anything that came into my email box about someone I knew in the real world without at least talking to them about it... just too easy for people to create havoc... and all they have to do is type on their computer. Truth can be warped also to look like something it is not. In the final analysis, either you trust or you do not....

MsIncognito -> RE: rant (2/8/2007 10:05:56 AM)
I wouldn't post about it here first, that's for darn sure. I think it depends on your relationship. Is part of the agreement that he's allowed to troll with impunity? If it is you may be out of line. If he needs to tell you every time he is in any kind of contact with anyone then you might have a case...though I'm not sure what you'd do with that "case." Might be a case of put up (if it's worth it to you) or get out (if it's not).

juliaoceania -> RE: rant (2/8/2007 10:09:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BitaTruble First, I'd talk to him.. then change my own profile to reflect that I already had a dom so I wouldn't be accused of being a pot calling a kettle black. Celeste You know, I need to get into the habit of reading profiles before answering. You are right, why is she whining about trolling when it appears she is up to the same thing. And most newbies are not deeply involved with poly that I have seen

MsIncognito -> RE: rant (2/8/2007 10:12:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania You know, I need to get into the habit of reading profiles before answering. You are right, why is she whining about trolling when it appears she is up to the same thing. And most newbies are not deeply involved with poly that I have seen No doubt it's a fake profile but I'm sure it's not deceitful to have a fake profile with which to bitch and moan to all and sundry about your Dom with. Not like scoping out others in a poly relationship scratches head </sarcasm>

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